Investing in yourself would not be spending cash on her crap!So wait, if you have work and / or childcare commitments... you’re not investing in yourself? What a load of old crap! ‘The membership’ sounds like a cult.
I loathe this concept of spending to be or feel better, I have a savings account and I save each month...this is a genuine investment in myself. I feel better and calmer knowing I have those funds there if needed. I feel better doing that than I would on spending it on a spa day, handbag, coat, make up, a course, new bedding or any other crap these influencers want to push.
I really despise the utter commericalism of the Insta crew with their ‘you‘re worth it‘ message. Do you know what women are really worth...they are worth financial security and that is surely the biggest message from this year!