Former_Antelopee
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I definitely agree about rehoming centres being too strict but I guess they have to cover themselves.I've seen a lot of rescues making it so their cats can only be rehomed if the applicant agrees to keep them indoors, which I'm all for because cats are so vulnerable to harm outside and can do so much damage. They can live happy fulfilled lives inside with enrichment and a nice window to sun themselves in. Our cats were always outdoor when I was growing up and we were so lucky that they all lived to die of old age, but these days, with the horror stories I've seen and heard more and more lately - indoor is the way to go for sure. For the cats safety and that of small critters in the wild.
The "other pets" thing kind of pisses me off at times too. How exactly do they determine that a dog/cat won't get on with another animal? All animals are individuals, like people, we get along with some folks but not others. How much effort do they put into determining these things before ruling it out?
We had cats for 20+ years along side dogs, never had a problem. We waited 10 years to get another cat after our last one died at 18 and again, had to buy because rehoming centres wouldn't allow any cats be to homed with other pets/dogs.
Our youngest dog was absolutely terrified of the kitten to begin with, as she'd never know a cat and hadn't even seen one out on walk. When we first got him the other dogs weren't bothered by him at all, but she couldn't even look at him she was so scared. (He was a ballsy little menace, so he had no qualms in getting in her face trying to make friends). She would try to 'mother' him by following him everywhere, but she'd run away the second he reacted to her.
It took a couple of weeks and a lot of lying on the floor amongst the dogs with the kitten in the middle and now, they're best friends. He shares a bed with her, they're always touching noses and kissing each other and playing. But for those first few weeks I was sure we'd made a terrible mistake and that he'd have to be rehomed because she was so unconfident around him. Now, three years later - you'd never know they hadn't always been best buds!
It takes time and patience to introduce a new pet, especially of a different species, so it really does annoy me when rescues rule it out as a possibility without good reason. (Like known aggression/attacks etc)
Totally agree. There are so many amazing animals in shelters that are missing out due to stupid rehoming rules (I'm sure it's all legal ass covering!). Kills me that you can just walk into a shelter in America, sign a form and walk off with a dog. While I do believe there should be checks in place, it's madness to make it so hard while there continues to be nothing stopping any idiot buying a puppy. There shouldn't be so many restrictions on who can rehome an older dog when breeders are out there unregulated and ten a penny.
I'm with you. It just takes time and patience and effort to get a dog transitioned and trained. We got my GSD as a puppy and he was an absolute nightmare, drove me to the point of tears several times when he was in his "teens", he wouldn't do a Goddamned thing he was told and would run off all the time, but we pushed through and he ended up being the best dog and my little shadow. But my God, that first year or so....he tested me hahaha!
When I was a kid we went to a rehoming centre to get another dog some months after our dog had tragically died. Went every Saturday and Wednesday for weeks to walk him while they "assessed us", and we'd bonded and our family loved him. Then in the 11th hour the rescue then turned around and said we couldn't have him because my mother was disabled and used a wheelchair to go out for a walk!!! Of course, they'd never get away with that nowadays, but this was in the late 90's. To lets kids bond with a dog and then deny them taking him home was so cruel. It was grief on top of grief.
Stupidest thing was, even though my mom is disabled, she used to be a police dog handler and had been raised in a multi dog home her whole life. So what happened? We went out and got a puppy (and then end up collecting a couple more dogs in the following years too) who lived his best life until he was 14 years old and age took him from us. He would roll alongside my mom on her scooter with no issues. The older dog we adopted from a family member a few years later was just the same! No issues with adapting to walking alongside a wheelchair and what not.
All our/my dogs so far have lived well into old age and have been completely and utterly adored and considered probably the most important member of our family! It's really sad how so many dogs and people miss out on making those special bonds because of some dumb rules that really benefit no one in the long run.
I do think some (most I’d say) make it worse for themselves. They complain about being full and not being able to take on other cases. Yet have aggressive dogs with bite histories they are trying to rehome or dogs that are so anxious they are aggressive. Imo if a dog is that anxious it cannot live a normal life then put it to sleep. It’s not a happy dog, as I said previous on a different thread behavioural euthanasia imo is underused and hate on for no reason. As long as it’s a valid reason why is it any different to using it for a health issue as at the end of the day imo it’s no different. At the end of the day these dogs are harder to rehome, probably not happy in themselves a lot of the time and that’s why they’ve ended up in rescue to begin with and they are taking up space of an animal that can be helped. Especially if the issue has been worked on with a behaviourist and not improved. I think I definitely worked this better last time I posted about it. But imo behavioural issues should be treated like health issues.
IMO some rescues keep animals alive for too long and spend too much money on trying to save or prolong the life of animals that need to be put to sleep: for example I follow a rescue who had this old stray cat that had a heart mass, yet they put it through surgery to castrate it and remove a lump from its eye, it died a few days later. That cat is now the face of their charity and they got a lot of money from using it as PR. I just don’t agree with things like that, i was surprised the vet did the surgery tbh because why bother doing them things when the cat is likely to die soon from is heart mass. It’s not like they got full price for the surgery either as they give them discount for being a charity. But obviously I don’t know the full history so I assume the vet was happy to do it after assessing everything and wouldn’t have gone ahead otherwise.