How long have you been TTC for? XThank you ladiesI have everything crossed for you toox
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i left mine to dry whilst I worked out and it’s probably a little too long to check and premom logged it as a 3.5
Saying that, my pre peak sat around 3.5/5/7.5 before a peak of 80 so maybe it’s just normal for me?!
I really hope this is the case; it’s stopped now so fingers crossedThinking of you
I hope you get some clear answers soon, being in limbo is the worst. The spotting might not mean you're out, could you possibly have ovulated later than you think and therefore be earlier than expected?
Hi, just wanted to say that I’ve felt exactly like this. Giving up seemed the best thing to do for my sanity. We persevered, got medical help and finally achieved our dream. Have you explored medical interventions? Obviously, telling you to keep going to inappropriate as we’re all different and sometimes infertility can be overwhelming x
Thank you! I also used an asda cheapie this morning and it looked negativeWish I never tested early nowno I always just use frer as they are meant to be the more sensitive. I may use an Asda cheapie as this is what I used first time round with my son!
Congratulations to you!
but I'm guessing it's just not as sensitive as I haven't missed a period yet xxSailorontheseasea
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Hope all is ok with you lovely @grumpycat 
I had a very faint first test, wait 48 hours and hopefully it will be darker but a line is a line
calmyourritas
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I’m sorry I can’t give you any advice about this but I just want to say sending you all the love and I hope you get the help you need 🤍🤍 you can get through this xx
I think I can see something! When is your period due? I would try again in a couple days or maybe try a frer
I am most deffinatley going to try other brands. I really don’t rate them at all now read some terrible reviews. Thanks for everyone’s replies! XxxSorry you’re going through this, I can only imagine how stressful and frustrating the whole situation is.
I can recommend the clear blue early detector test, I got a clear result very quickly and from what I’ve read they aren’t considered too bad for evaps. Sending you a big hug and hope you get some answers soonX
Makeupaddict5
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Likewise I would wear lingerie and do my make up. By then I was dead. The fertile window is so clinical. Wish the window was longer.We had this problem! We went shopping picked out lingerie together and had a few home date nights.
Also lots of wine helped
Fingers crossed for you!! Have you had any other symptoms at all?
thanks for your reply, a line is deffo there in person my camera is rubbish but I can appreciate why you can’t see it. This will be my 2nd early MC a in 3 months. I’m surprised I even got a hint of a line as apparently the first response rapid result isn’t sensitive.
I’m so sorry to hear you feel like this, it is the most stressful and exhausting thing to TTC. I have said to myself that I am not going to test or even track my ovulation anymore as it is mentally draining me and just let nature do it’s thing. Maybe if you try and do the same that will help you? However, I do appreciate this is one million times easier said than done. Have you tried talking to your GP etc about how you are feeling?
Sending tons of love
This was Sunday’s test done with Internet cheapie x
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LongishCat
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I'm so sorry you're feeling so stressed. First of all, big hug
You're going through a lot and all the emotions you're feeling now are normal. At least it's good that your bloods came back normal!I'm not a doctor though, so I can't say for sure, but it does seem like your partner's sperm quality isn't great. I'm mainly basing this on the abnormal morphology (so their shape) and head defects both being 100%.
Can you call a doctor or someone at fertility to guide you through these results?
Makeupaddict5
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Ok. I don’t know how your keeping calm. I hope Sunday brings you a lot of joy.
Rxt156
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I will buy some then I think! Thanks. I have started to over analyse my body but I feel normal most of the time so I can’t tell when I am ovulating. Hope the tests help.Mine have been between 29-32 but my last was 36 which I put down to my surgery last month delaying my body (you’ve got me worried now
I found them useful to work out when in the cycle I actually ovulated (I honestly had no idea about stuff like this) and i was buzzing when I got my first peak fertility signbut they are expensive hence why I’ve ordered some cheapies to use. My Flo app tells me when I’m due to be ovulating and is a chance to get pregnant, so when that flashes up I start doing the ovulation tests until I get peak.
Feel like I have no idea what I’m doing but I’m going with it
fluffybaffling
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I have PCOS so it does happen sometimes but The supplements I’ve been taking had made my periods so much more manageable! Generally women with pcos miss periods but not me! I have too many
the only thing I can think is maybe stress of some sort but I don’t know what’s caused me to be stressed if you know what I mean! I’m going to the doctors in a couple of months anyway as clearly I’m not going to get anywhere stupid hormones!!!! Just annoying when I was like clockwork for the past several months xxI get cramps for days and days after, I'm still getting them now (5 DPO) and I am almost certain I don't get then any other time in my cycle. It's so bizarre!