Lulabella_Mozzarella2
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Hi all. We started trying for a baby when I was 30 - right time etc etc! No luck despite a lot of trying. Eventually saw the Dr who monitored my periods and did blood tests - all came back as ‘normal’. Hubby had to go for tests; again ‘normal’. I had a laparoscopy to check my ovaries etc and again, nothing flagged up. We were eventually referred to the fertility dept at the local hospital after another episode of me crying to my Dr (not helped by everyone asking when we were going to have a baby, people around me getting pregnant) who basically told me my bmi was too high and If we wanted IVF, wed have to reduce it. Tried to lose weight but were still too high so decided to get married and let nature take its course. Booked the wedding for July 2011 and of course, in October of 2010 I found out I was pregnant Waddled down the aisle at 32wks pregnant, had a beautiful boy and then had another baby after 18m of trying this time, a girl who is now 4. I can’t offer any advice really as we were very lucky that I did fall pregnant eventually, but just wanted to share that it can happen unexpectedly; I really thought we’d have to go down the fertility route or adoption. It was the hardest thing to get my period each month, watch people have babies around me and the ‘when are you having a baby’ questions that made me want to scream!
In an odd twist, I’m clearly only fertile at a certain time as my daughter was due 2 days before my sons birthday - thankfully was a little early so they both have their ‘own’ birthday rather than a combination birthday
In an odd twist, I’m clearly only fertile at a certain time as my daughter was due 2 days before my sons birthday - thankfully was a little early so they both have their ‘own’ birthday rather than a combination birthday