No need to apologise. I think most if not all people here are rooting for everyone else to get their BFPs and graduate this thread. When I was still TTC I loved seeing positive test photos because they gave me hope. A TTC thread would be pretty pointless if we didn’t celebrate the successes as well as supporting through the lows.Totally agree with a lot of your points here.
Can i just say as someone who did post a test and fuck off I had reasons?
I've lurked this thread for a long time, silently going through the motions everyone else has.
I've had plenty of evap lines in my times of TTC. I asked would people mind me uploading a picture of a (extremely faint) test prior to posting as evap lines has left me crying in bed many times and I just wanted support from women who had gone through similar- none of my friends struggled ttc so felt here was a safe judgment free, supportive space and it is.
I didn't come back and post. My reason? Ive also been the other side of TTC and seen many BFP's interwoven between posts of women getting their period etc and the BFP's always left me feeling happy for the poster but envious so i decided not to post again. I didn't want to be the insensitive arsehole posting a BFP while someone else just got their period and were upset.
So my apologies for offending posters. I felt very alone and just wanted support. Sorry for going about it the wrong way.
2-4 times a day !!! Wow I’m tired just thinking about thatProbably a silly question but can you have too much sex while TTC? We’ve both been off work this week so doing it 2-4 times a day, I’m not in my fertile window yet but wondered if we need to back off a bit when I head towards that at the weekend.
Is there an ‘optimal’ amount for it to work?