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Hi ladies, had an absolute whirlwind of a week and my whole life has done a complete 360. My relationship with my fiancé ended last week after he told me that he had cheated. I’ve been absolutely distraught, mainly through losing him but as you’re all aware we were many months into our TTC journey together. I absolutely do not know where to go from here, just wanted to say that I wish you all the best luck with your TTC journey - hopefully I’ll be back here some day. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself ❤
 
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Certainly seems to be a faint line 👏 Other people on the thread have taken a test apart to get a better look. Might be worth trying? They say the line starts off light and develops with time - how many DPO are you?
I’m 13dpo… if I ovulated when I think! I’m never quite sure as my cycles are really irregular, ranging between 40-90+ days 🤷🏽‍♀️
I don’t even know why I tested halfway through the day I just had a sudden urge.. I think I’ll do another one in the morning 🤞🏼
It started off really light and now it’s pink, but obviously way out of the time frame so I don’t want to get my hopes up!
 
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I’m 13dpo… if I ovulated when I think! I’m never quite sure as my cycles are really irregular, ranging between 40-90+ days 🤷🏽‍♀️
I don’t even know why I tested halfway through the day I just had a sudden urge.. I think I’ll do another one in the morning 🤞🏼
It started off really light and now it’s pink, but obviously way out of the time frame so I don’t want to get my hopes up!
I will keep my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻It would be such a lovely time of year to find out you were pregnant I think, just a happy memory to keep forever and a positive way to start the New Year.
 
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Does anyone else have a partner with a B12 deficiency? Mine’s is so low he has to have the injections, plus a high dose folic acid. I never thought it could have an affect on our chances and then I googled it (big mistake) and apparently it can really lower sperm count/mobility! Hopefully as he has more of the injections it’ll help🤞🏻
 
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Does anyone else have a partner with a B12 deficiency? Mine’s is so low he has to have the injections, plus a high dose folic acid. I never thought it could have an affect on our chances and then I googled it (big mistake) and apparently it can really lower sperm count/mobility! Hopefully as he has more of the injections it’ll help🤞🏻
Yes my husband has a b12 deficiency. He gets an injection every 3 months. We already have 1 child & fingers crossed this one sticks & we have another 🤞🏻 . He was actually due to send his sample off to the lab to get checked when we got the BFP so I’m not sure what impact it has had to us. He has an incredibly stressful job & was off work sick when we conceived. I think that had a huge impact.
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
I was told to let my body go through 1 period before either trying or starting a new contraception.
I suspect mine will be here in the next couple of days. For the first time in months I want it to appear so we can get cracking again!
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
The docs advise to wait but my bestie who is a gp says this is for dating purposes only, there's nothing to actually stop you trying if you feel ready. Both times for me I've felt like I have wanted to wait for my first period so I'm a bit more with it but up to you xx
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
So sorry to hear this news :( I went through the same last month. My midwife said I didn’t have to wait a cycle even tho drs advise you to! If you were to become pregnant before your next cycle it can be a little trickier working out your due date so you’d get referred for an early scan to determine a due date. Big hugs to you xx
 
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So sorry to hear this news :( I went through the same last month. My midwife said I didn’t have to wait a cycle even tho drs advise you to! If you were to become pregnant before your next cycle it can be a little trickier working out your due date so you’d get referred for an early scan to determine a due date. Big hugs to you xx
Thank you. I’d probably be going for an early reassurance scan next time anyway. I don’t think we will actively try before the next cycle but we might not prevent. People on Tattle are always so lovely and supportive, I really appreciate it x
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
Sorry to read this. 😔 You're definitely not alone. I lost my first pregnancy around the same time and it was the hardest thing ever.

You don't have to wait for your period to try again although I regret jumping back into TTC so soon.. I wish I'd have waited and let myself process what had happened. I didn't even take any time off work, I just got on with life like it had never happened which I shouldn't have done. I became totally consumed by it all even more than I already was just so the due date would be closer. It definitely wasn't healthy and I actually think my body needed time to heal.

Everyone is different though! You will know what's best for you and your situation. Sending love xx
 
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Unfortunately I’ll be joining you all again here soon as I’ve had a loss today at 5w6d. Just wondered if anyone knows as I didn’t think to ask at the time, but do you have to wait for a period before you can TTC again or can you TTC again straight after? I will definitely test first to make sure it’s negative.
So sorry to hear this ❤❤ There is a specific pregnancy loss thread if you feel you want to talk anytime. In regards to TTC after, I had 2 periods before I fell pregnant again - we starting trying after my first. Although it still made my dates wrong because my cycle hadn’t gone back to “normal” and my ovulation dates weren’t back in sync to where they were.
 
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@MrsWolf have you done a FRER today??? ❤❤❤
It was negative.. but I also did another cheap one and got a faint line again so I’m not really sure? I tried to ring the doctors but they're only doing emergency appointments and told me to wait a few more days and test again if no period.. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I’m remaining hopeful 🤞🏼🤞🏼
 
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It was negative.. but I also did another cheap one and got a faint line again so I’m not really sure? I tried to ring the doctors but they're only doing emergency appointments and told me to wait a few more days and test again if no period.. 🤷🏽‍♀️
I’m remaining hopeful 🤞🏼🤞🏼
I have all my fingers crossed for you my lovely ❤❤❤❤
 
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