TTC #3

[Sunshinegal]

Hi guys.

My HSG confirmed my left tube is completely blocked. Assuming it’s from my surgery I had to remove a cyst last year. So I’m now starting Letrozole for 3 cycles, if no luck then on to ICSI or IVF. Burst into tears in the room, even though I expected this news it was still a shock to hear it. I feel like such a failure! Feel like I’m letting my husband down a lot.

hope everyone is ok x

You are not a failure! Reading that has made me feel so sad. You are not letting your husband down. You've got your answers and getting the help you need. You sound lovely, I'm sure your husband feels lucky to have you i hope your feeling a bit better x

Currently laid up as I've just had my appendix removed. Bloody painful.
I'm 9dpo.they tested and told me a pregnancy test was negative but at 8dpo I didn't think much of it as my period isn't due for another few days. Not that I'm expecting anything after 18 months. Just didn't upset me as I thought it's still early days....so you never know. Very unlikely now though xx

 

[Pastabeilbys]

does anyone feel like they have a massive spotlight on their head and a flashing sign saying ‘struggling to concieve’..i get anxiety at the thought of people seeing me that i’ve not seen for a while, i get so depressed at each AF, and even just seeing the ‘pregnancy’ forum title on here winds me up i feel such a cow. It really does mess with your head and its such a shame as in every other aspect of my life im normally chilled, kind to others etc! I cant stand perri edwards now, and its not even her fault its the envy monster inside me. I had a miscarriage in december and we have been trying since and i promised myself i would just chill and enjoy the freedom but i am petrified i am losing time - i am 32. Is there anyone here the same age or older? I am driving my husband insane

 

[Neo2021]

does anyone feel like they have a massive spotlight on their head and a flashing sign saying ‘struggling to concieve’..i get anxiety at the thought of people seeing me that i’ve not seen for a while, i get so depressed at each AF, and even just seeing the ‘pregnancy’ forum title on here winds me up i feel such a cow. It really does mess with your head and its such a shame as in every other aspect of my life im normally chilled, kind to others etc! I cant stand perri edwards now, and its not even her fault its the envy monster inside me. I had a miscarriage in december and we have been trying since and i promised myself i would just chill and enjoy the freedom but i am petrified i am losing time - i am 32. Is there anyone here the same age or older? I am driving my husband insane

Everytime someone announces their pregnancy, I get upset. Every time I see a baby I think ‘why don’t I have one’

 

[cecedoon]

Everytime someone announces their pregnancy, I get upset. Every time I see a baby I think ‘why don’t I have one’

It’s so understandable. A friend of mine is pregnant right now & already talking about having her second baby when she gets pregnant right away. I want to scream at her. And then I feel bad at myself for being so bitter!

 

[noseynopinions]

Big temp drop today at 15/16dpo. I'm pretty sure my period is on its way! X

 

[fishsticks]

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing okay!

So AF is due tomorrow and I've had weird cramps that don't feel like periods pains as well as a dull ache in my lower abdomen for a week or so. So I took a FRER and there's a faint line, but I'm not sure if this is what an indent looks like? Does anyone know? Think I'm being over cautious. Thanks x

 

[calmyourritas]

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing okay!

So AF is due tomorrow and I've had weird cramps that don't feel like periods pains as well as a dull ache in my lower abdomen for a week or so. So I took a FRER and there's a faint line, but I'm not sure if this is what an indent looks like? Does anyone know? Think I'm being over cautious. Thanks x

That definitely looks like a line to me! Congrats

 

[Dipdab]

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing okay!

So AF is due tomorrow and I've had weird cramps that don't feel like periods pains as well as a dull ache in my lower abdomen for a week or so. So I took a FRER and there's a faint line, but I'm not sure if this is what an indent looks like? Does anyone know? Think I'm being over cautious. Thanks x

Looks positive Mine was like this the day before AF then the next day I got a blazing positive. X

 

[JLXRD]

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing okay!

So AF is due tomorrow and I've had weird cramps that don't feel like periods pains as well as a dull ache in my lower abdomen for a week or so. So I took a FRER and there's a faint line, but I'm not sure if this is what an indent looks like? Does anyone know? Think I'm being over cautious. Thanks x

Definitely looks positive to me, congratulations

 

[cecedoon]

Hi everyone, hope you're all doing okay!

So AF is due tomorrow and I've had weird cramps that don't feel like periods pains as well as a dull ache in my lower abdomen for a week or so. So I took a FRER and there's a faint line, but I'm not sure if this is what an indent looks like? Does anyone know? Think I'm being over cautious. Thanks x

I would say positive, congrats!

 

[fishsticks]

Thank you so much, everyone! Did another FRER and it came out the same, so I'll do a digital one in the morning. Eek!!

 

[fishsticks]

I genuinely didn't expect this to happen, but it looks like it has. There have been many tears this morning, happy ones of course.

Thank you to everyone on here who offered advice, this little place to talk has been amazing.

If anyone is thinking of testing early, I got a bfn on tuesday and got my first bfp on Friday. AF was due today. I genuinely thought after Tuesdays BFN that was me for this cycle!

Sending baby dust to you all.

 

[MrsWolf]

I genuinely didn't expect this to happen, but it looks like it has. There have been many tears this morning, happy ones of course.

Thank you to everyone on here who offered advice, this little place to talk has been amazing.

If anyone is thinking of testing early, I got a bfn on tuesday and got my first bfp on Friday. AF was due today. I genuinely thought after Tuesdays BFN that was me for this cycle!

Sending baby dust to you all.

Congratulations!!

 

[Scottish_lassie]

Hows everyone's month going? Lots of baby dancing?

My husband has had the best month According to my FLO app Im due to O tomorrow but today I had lots of watery CM (tmi) and its had some bloody bits - Im also very bloated and crampy today? Maybe I Oved early this month? Who knows! Wouldnt it be great if we could just take a little peep inside too see whats going on.

Congratulations @fishsticks is this your first?

 

[fishsticks]

Congratulations @fishsticks is this your first?

Thanks so much! Yes, my first! Nervous and excited all at the same time.

 

[Mel17]

So I am onto Cycle 5 since miscarriage and this month decided to splash out on CB advanced opk. I used these and fell pregnant with my son same cycle as back then my cycles were 40 days and didn’t have a clue when I was ovulating. Since miscarriage my cycles now appear to be every 35-37 days so basically going back to what they were before! Fingers crossed they help with timing this month. Huge congratulations to everyone who has had their BFP’s I love seeing the pics on here. xxxx

I genuinely didn't expect this to happen, but it looks like it has. There have been many tears this morning, happy ones of course.

Thank you to everyone on here who offered advice, this little place to talk has been amazing.

If anyone is thinking of testing early, I got a bfn on tuesday and got my first bfp on Friday. AF was due today. I genuinely thought after Tuesdays BFN that was me for this cycle!

Sending baby dust to you all.

Huge congratulations! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months

 

[JLXRD]

Hope everyone is doing okay

I’m on CD17 and now day 8 of my flashing smiley on CB digi getting impatient again tbh but trying to remind myself it may be a while yet.

 

[cecedoon]

I’m on CD33 but I definitely think we missed the window. Had family visiting when I got my surge. I’ve decided next month no visitors & we are gonna have to really go for it

 

[Sunshinegal]

Hi all,

12dpo. I have no doubt AF will arrive in a couple of days. Its hard to see any other way 18 times later. However, I know people try far longer, but I'm the same as ever. And never had any hint of anything as I've said, which worries me.

Another friend pregnant. 1st one I know of has said she doesn't even want to be pregnant. I'm finding that so hard.
Other friend trying 6 months. I appreciate its hard but she tells me like I have no idea what's its like... Im a lot further ahead than that so I find it bizarre.

Anyway so now I'm a bit anxious for period, even though I know it'll come.

 

[Mel17]

Hope everyone is doing okay

I’m on CD17 and now day 8 of my flashing smiley on CB digi getting impatient again tbh but trying to remind myself it may be a while yet.

How long are you meant to get flashing smileys for?xxx