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How long are you meant to get flashing smileys for?xxx
I think the average is under 6, but last month I had 13 as I didn’t ovulate until CD32. This is only my second cycle off the pill though so I’m hoping it will be a bit sooner and regulate a bit 🤞🏻 I didn’t get flashing last cycle until CD19 but I got it CD10 this time so yeah just hoping it’s in the next few days xx
 
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I think the average is under 6, but last month I had 13 as I didn’t ovulate until CD32. This is only my second cycle off the pill though so I’m hoping it will be a bit sooner and regulate a bit 🤞🏻 I didn’t get flashing last cycle until CD19 but I got it CD10 this time so yeah just hoping it’s in the next few days xx
Thank you! I find it bizarre how basically no cycle is the same! So confusing! My cycle is 35-37 days so I think I ov around CD 19ish we shall see! Goodluck with your journey ❤
 
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Thank you! I find it bizarre how basically no cycle is the same! So confusing! My cycle is 35-37 days so I think I ov around CD 19ish we shall see! Goodluck with your journey ❤
Yeah it’s so hard when you’re still not sure when everything is happening 🙈 good luck to you too 💕🤞🏻
 
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Hello my lovely ladies 🤍 I am joining you back on this thread. As some of you might know I got my positive test at the start of April... I’m so desperately sad to write this here but

unfortunately we found out at the 12 week scan this week that I’d had a missed miscarriage. Our baby had stopped growing at around 8 weeks and no longer had a heartbeat. I’m still in shock really at how that can happen and you don’t even know.

Anyway, I am back. Absolutely terrified to get back on this journey if I’m completely honest. Will be waiting around the next few weeks for my first post MC period - not sure how long that’ll take and then I don’t think I’ll track ovulation for a few months as I was getting obsessed before. Just going to go with the flow.

Hope you’re all doing okay ☺☺🤍
 
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Hello my lovely ladies 🤍 I am joining you back on this thread. As some of you might know I got my positive test at the start of April... I’m so desperately sad to write this here but

unfortunately we found out at the 12 week scan this week that I’d had a missed miscarriage. Our baby had stopped growing at around 8 weeks and no longer had a heartbeat. I’m still in shock really at how that can happen and you don’t even know.

Anyway, I am back. Absolutely terrified to get back on this journey if I’m completely honest. Will be waiting around the next few weeks for my first post MC period - not sure how long that’ll take and then I don’t think I’ll track ovulation for a few months as I was getting obsessed before. Just going to go with the flow.

Hope you’re all doing okay ☺☺🤍
So sorry you find yourself back here 😟🤍
 
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So sorry you find yourself back here 😟🤍
Oh love, I am so sorry to hear this. Having gone through it in March I know how you must be feeling. Its awful isnt it. Get all the support you need....talking helps. Im an open book naturally but kept telling everyone, found it helped if everyone knew what I'd been through...not sure why!

I'm actually 3DPO on my 2nd cycle since MC and I'm having some weird bleeding. Maybe my body hasn't reset itself yet. Super frustrating but I'm trying to be positive that it'll happen again.

Sending you all the love and hope you're doing as well as you can xxx
 
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Hello my lovely ladies 🤍 I am joining you back on this thread. As some of you might know I got my positive test at the start of April... I’m so desperately sad to write this here but

unfortunately we found out at the 12 week scan this week that I’d had a missed miscarriage. Our baby had stopped growing at around 8 weeks and no longer had a heartbeat. I’m still in shock really at how that can happen and you don’t even know.

Anyway, I am back. Absolutely terrified to get back on this journey if I’m completely honest. Will be waiting around the next few weeks for my first post MC period - not sure how long that’ll take and then I don’t think I’ll track ovulation for a few months as I was getting obsessed before. Just going to go with the flow.

Hope you’re all doing okay ☺☺🤍
I'm so sorry for your loss ❤ hope you're okay and have support x
 
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does anyone feel like they have a massive spotlight on their head and a flashing sign saying ‘struggling to concieve’..i get anxiety at the thought of people seeing me that i’ve not seen for a while, i get so depressed at each AF, and even just seeing the ‘pregnancy’ forum title on here winds me up 😁 i feel such a cow. It really does mess with your head and its such a shame as in every other aspect of my life im normally chilled, kind to others etc! I cant stand perri edwards now, and its not even her fault its the envy monster inside me. I had a miscarriage in december and we have been trying since and i promised myself i would just chill and enjoy the freedom but i am petrified i am losing time - i am 32. Is there anyone here the same age or older? I am driving my husband insane:p
I’m the same age as you, but I would argue i’m more of a cow, because whenever I see someone is ttc after miscarriage, I can’t help the part of my brain that thinks ‘at least you’ve had a positive at least once’. Which, of course, is nonsense and isn’t fair at all.
 
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Morning everyone,

so I have taken my advanced digital cleanliness this morning and went straight from empty circle to solid static face which means I have reached my peak? However I am only on CD12 and cycles since MC shave been 35-37 days… so isn’t this too early? And I also haven’t had the flashing face?? I have DTF (sorry tmi) Friday, Saturday and will do it tonight. Do you think I’ve covered myself if I have reached my peak this morning? Xx
 
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Morning everyone,

so I have taken my advanced digital cleanliness this morning and went straight from empty circle to solid static face which means I have reached my peak? However I am only on CD12 and cycles since MC shave been 35-37 days… so isn’t this too early? And I also haven’t had the flashing face?? I have DTF (sorry tmi) Friday, Saturday and will do it tonight. Do you think I’ve covered myself if I have reached my peak this morning? Xx
yes! The peak indicates that in the next 12-24 you’ll likely ovulate, so get in there tonight if you can abs fingers crossed you’ll be good to go! There should be some ‘hanging around’ anyway as I understand they stay in there for a few days ❤ Good luck!!
 
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Go with the test. My cycles are thenormal 28 days and i used get the static face on day 8, literally 3 days after period ending!!
 
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Thanks everyone! I will keep everyone updated really hoping this could be something this month! My app has been completely wrong for predicting ov, sorry for all the spelling mistakes re previous post! Way too early when I posted that🤣 hope everyone is okay. 😘
 
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Morning all- I’ve a quick question. Anyone putting off their covid vaccine while TTC? My age group is opening up this week but I don’t know if I should go ahead or I should wait. I know there are so many conflicting opinions & I don’t want to start a vaccine debate either but I’m on the fence.
 
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Morning all- I’ve a quick question. Anyone putting off their covid vaccine while TTC? My age group is opening up this week but I don’t know if I should go ahead or I should wait. I know there are so many conflicting opinions & I don’t want to start a vaccine debate either but I’m on the fence.
Personally I have mine tomorrow and I’m going to get it. I have no idea how long it might take to conceive so I figure I may as well just get it done, I also read covid can be really serious when you’re pregnant so I figure I’d rather do it now.

I have had some reservations in terms of I’m getting vaccinated on my predicted ovulation day and guess I was worried that my body won’t be focussing on getting pregnant if it’s busy making antibodies etc but I am just trying to have faith that it can multi task 😅
 
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@cecedoon there is a thread for getting the vaccine while pregnant where lots have shared their opinion/experience not just while pregnant but also while ttc. Might be worth a read ☺

 
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I’ve downloaded Premom and bought the tests to try and track ovulation (see if I actually am ovulating!) as ive been relying heavily on apps, which is crazy. I can’t actually do anything about it, even if I get peak, unless immaculate conception is a thing? And if it is, then I’m here for it!!

Flo says this is my fertile week, but I’ve been getting Lows so far!! Will be interesting to see what happens.
 
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