. It’s not the first time he’s come out with a poo in his nappy either. I hate the thought of him sitting there soiled and them not noticing!!! Bloody hell it’s their jobPlease please make sure it's all documented on emails etc... personally I'd ask for a review and more routine checks. Where my little girl goes they have an app where the document everything, potty tries, nappy changes, naps, what she eats etc, do yours do similar?
Yeah they do. They have a record of it all written down. I’ve seen it when I’ve been in to change himself. Thankyou
We live on a busy street that’s for a school at the top. One morning a few weeks ago, I opened the front door and mimi A went running near the road (thankfully a car wasn’t coming flying down) this is the only time in her life she’s ever ran near the road. Usually she stops and says “check for cars mummy” ….. the time she went near the road I absolutely went mad. To the point where she cried. I used harsh language like “do you want to die?”.. I made it clear she could get hit by a car and potentially die. Scaring her to a point where she knew she shouldn’t have done it worked.
It’s so frustrating when you know something is just done with you.
This has made my morningbleeping hellYou’ll be putting Final Destination on for her next
Next thread title pleasebleeping hell
bleeping hell
I see a lot of my younger self in you. I was a single parent when my daughter turned 1 until I met my husband not long after her 4th birthday, and those days were tough, and the worst days of my life. Please remember she is still only little. Asking her if she wants to die, will put the fear of God her, and she honestly doesn’t need to be hearing it so young. Even if it works and she doesn’t do it again
its harsh langague but if it scares her she wouldn’t ever do it again.
And it’s true she could be taken - it happens!
Is scaring the right thing to do
its harsh langague but if it scares her she wouldn’t ever do it again.
And it’s true she could be taken - it happens!
I agree. I certainly don’t want my children to be ruled by fear at all, especially fear of death. I think that’s absolutely crazy, personally.Is scaring the right thing to do
If my mum told me when I was younger I could get kidnapped I think I’d be traumatised
I know! I wouldn’t tell my older kids that at the ages they are now! I honestly feel traumatised for the little girl having to hear it. Stay close or you’ll be taken. Stay close or you will die.If my mum told me when I was younger I could get kidnapped I think I’d be traumatised
When my aunty used to go to the shops without the kids, if her kids asked where she went, the answer would be ‘she ran off with another man’. The kids were always distraught. This was 25+ years ago and I can still remember them saying this. But Mr B said this was also said to him, so I think it was a generation thing, but definitely not something I was say to my kids nowIf my mum told me when I was younger I could get kidnapped I think I’d be traumatised
He doesn't do it near roads really. It's in the supermarket , in the school grounds and on the school run mostly. I try and bribe with saying he can watch the ipad when we get home . Times he has been good and he's had the ipad I say isn't that so much better when we are all happy?
I can still remember learning about death when I was about 5 and my grandad died and I became obsessed and used to cry myself to sleep so many nights terrified that my parents or I would die. I think topics like that if not approached gently can really affect young children.
