This Mama Life #26 Sinbad’s off to sea sea sea but what about poor old me me me?

[Crazycatty]

Oh sorry my bad. Even so, surely if her laptop was to break they wouldn't say oh no worries sort it when you're back. WFH is all well and good, when it works. If there's an issue surely employers would expect that person to attend work until that issue is resolved

Probably depends on the employer - I assume she would have had to clear it with her employer to work from Scotland, with the understanding that if he equipment fails she would have to take annual leave or return to get a replacement etc. I work in the public sector and we have people working in various parts of the UK all the time - sometimes hundreds of miles from the ‘office’, but the deal is if they have to come into work then they do.

 

[Lassie don't go home]

Wouldn’t it be funny if when R leaves the navy, he gets a job on an oil rig so is still away regularly?!

She would go I'd he did that!!

 

[GPort]

My kids are at the same school and the infants aren’t taking part in the dress up day. They don’t use the TT Rockstars app yet not sure why they’re not just dressing up for ‘numbers day’ though

 

[DeloresBawbag]

If you were Rob, and you were away at sea, then allowed back, don’t you think your best supports would be your colleagues who understand the pressure of being at sea during parental loss, and then back with your family who share in your loss and the memories?

Whether he’s only just back, or has been at his parents house for a few days - I suspect that’s given him more space to grieve and process than he would have had with Sarah and the kids.

She’s an emotional leech, at least this way he has had a bit of time with his own thoughts.

 

[Veronica]

Do you think whoever Sinbad came back to see, has now passed?

 

[Tootoo]

She's alluded to both children being behind and having difficulties.

Uh-oh. She's been watching anorexia documentaries

Thanks for that. I would personally be worried, glad the school must be on it.

 

[Longtimelurker10]

Isla is almost 9. Not 7/8 just to clarify,

 

[rainbowunicorn9]

Does sometime want to make a new thread?

 

[biscuitrat]

I once made a comment she didn’t like and she just restricted it so I can no longer see her stories from that particular account. Poor me

Me too but I don’t remember making any comments.

 

[GiggleBee]

Is she going to Scotland or to Robs family?

I do think she'd have said home if she was going to Scotland.

 

[rainbowunicorn9]

Will the kids understand what’s going on if she has explained to them? Not sure why she you start understanding grief at? Lucky enough to not have experienced it until later in life

 

[Pushyplumb]

Think it must be someone in Sinbad's family who is ill or has passed away.

 

[rainbowunicorn9]

Where was she actually born?
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Someone should do a wiki!

 

[Bugdem]

I don’t have kids yet; is it honestly as bad she makes everything out to be?

 

[BettyCrockerr]

Who's passed away?

We don’t know. She hasn’t explicitly said but from what she has posted its fair to say someone in Rob’s family was unwell and presumably has now passed away.

 

[BettyCrockerr]

******. NEW THREAD. ******

This Mama Life #27

As you were folks…. --- I think as soon as she walks out of that funeral she will be straight back on Insta as if nothing has happened

tattle.life

 

[GPort]

What is she saying about a better guest set up? If she’s not happy about how the bedrooms are arranged, they can make the changes. It’s their own home, not a military quarter.

I thought they bought a 4 bed house!

And she previously said they would use the fourth bedroom as an office/playroom/guest room…not one of her brightest ideas but surely there’s room for a sofa bed.

 

[Swipeuptobuy]

Look when my Father in law died I never shed a tear …I didn’t like him thought he was a creep. I did not post he had died I supported his son. It was a quick death but unexpected. His mother died after 2 years of yo-yoing to hospital …I saw her but thought my partners time was special so he went up most of the time and the kids saw her …also covid times …through a window …at least my husband was there ….

 

[GiggleBee]

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….just going to leave this here.

I hope those kids ate well at the restaurant yesterday because I doubt anyone will be eating this monstrosity

Is it meant to be brown?!

 

[rainbowunicorn9]

Wonder if the kids know yet