I love those baby visiting rules, I would love to meet in real life someone who posts that kind of shite, clearly I don't move in the right calibre circles. I can just imagine my nana rocking up with a bottle of lucozade for mum, and some random ceramic chicken she found at a jumble sale for the baby being utterly baffled by the whole thing, turning round and going home.
Wankers like that don't deserve kindly visitors. Let them drink cold cups of tea and bicker with "hubs" in total privacy. Let's face it, that kind of person isn't exactly going to troubled by many visitors in the first place.