I am a horrible pet parent.
(TL;DR: don't let your dog have a stick)
Re: the sticks - as I said before, we watch her and as soon as she snaps a stick we take it from her. If it looks jagged, we take it from her. If the bark is hanging off, we take it from her.
That didn't matter this week. Since last summer we've started letting her off leash in enclosed parks when nobody else is around (and she usually just stays close to us anyway) so that's what we did on this walk at around 6:30pm so it was dark.
We were nearing the end of the walk and couldn't hear her following us, so we turned and she was bucking and hitting her face with her nails - like properly digging into her face and at first we laughed thinking she was playing (She does look like this occasionally when she's playing but I am a bleeping idiot). Quickly realised something was wrong, she had grabbed a stick and we didn't realise. The stick was quite long and stringy (if that makes sense?? Like it was spongy and peeling?) and it looked like it was going through the roof of her mouth at first but realised it was stuck at the side, down the side of her gums (this occasionally happens when she has carrots too for some reason) - I think one of the stringy bits had got wrapped around or stuck between her teeth.
I could hear the panic in my husband's voice because he couldn't get it. I don't know how but I stayed calm and stood with her in between my legs which amazingly and thankfully calmed her down enough where I was able to free the stick after a few attempts.
The whole time I was thinking "she's going to die, it's going to pierce her organs and we're not going to get to a vet in time". As soon as I knew she was ok I just burst into tears. The worst 65 days of my life (it was about a minute or less but it felt like days).
The little witch happily trotted off and tried to find another stick and we stopped that and will continue doing so even though I hate stopping her having fun.
All of this to say (and I am sorry for the bloody essay) we were always so vigilant and thought allowing her to carry a stick but not chew/snap it would be fine. It wasn't and I will not risk it now. I am willing to be big bad mama to her by not allowing her to have sticks because we'd rather that than have her injured or lose her.
I honestly hate myself. I knew the risks and thought we were being safe and I would never have forgiven myself if it ended another way. So please please please, don't be like me. Just stop the stick play as much as you can. It's not worth it.