She wouldn’t do that though because a - she would have to pay for it and b - she wouldn’t be able to criticise the nhs if something did go wrong.
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It really sounds like her baby is needing care and to be monitored and she just wants a private room but that puts him further away from the machines/equipment and experts he needs. She either doesn’t realise the gravity of what’s happening or is just so blinded by her need to be right and HAVE rights that’s she’s making a big deal out of this to prove a point.
She’s lucky they gave her a bed in the nicu.
She’s lucky they gave her a bed in the nicu.
> medical professionals have advised me that my baby needs specialist treatment and is unwell enough to need to be on a specialist baby only unit
> I myself need treatment which can not be completed on aforementioned specialist baby only unit
> medical professionals are wrong and trying to steal my baby
heaven help the nurses/midwives/drs working there today.
> I myself need treatment which can not be completed on aforementioned specialist baby only unit
> medical professionals are wrong and trying to steal my baby
heaven help the nurses/midwives/drs working there today.Emailing the hospital CEO?? Saying what??
She thinks her following online will scare them into treating her like a VIP.
Jesus christ this woman infuriates me. The NHS doesn’t need someone like her rabbeting on with harmful information. They are on their knees! What doesn’t she get?? If she is so intelligent and soooo right why doesn’t she get a medical degree and become a doctor then she can cure all the diseases! She’s dangerous and she is deluded.
I’d love to read the email
Also how much ‘research’ did she do to know if her son needs a lumbar puncture or not
Also how much ‘research’ did she do to know if her son needs a lumbar puncture or not
As a parent you would accept any test that could potentially diagnose some kind of infection, especially in a new baby like hers. She isn’t even medically trained is she? So all her research comes from other people like her.
It reminds me of when I was pregnant, I had someone like her telling me to decline growth scans and consultant appointments (because my bmi was 33 and anything over 30 required extra appointments)
They don’t care about the safety of the baby, it’s all to keep the mum happy and duck the consequences
It reminds me of when I was pregnant, I had someone like her telling me to decline growth scans and consultant appointments (because my bmi was 33 and anything over 30 required extra appointments)
They don’t care about the safety of the baby, it’s all to keep the mum happy and duck the consequences
I hope anyone that comes into contact with her in the hospital have plenty of whatever their choice of treats are waiting at home for them after their shift - they deserve all the treats and pampering after having to deal with her
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I had similar, I have type 1 diabetes so was under consultant care and always knew I’d be induced (unless I went into labour prematurely). I was happy with my consultant’s advice and had someone like her telling me to ignore everything
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I’m absolutely infuriated by her latest posts. She’s done her research and knows the markers to look out for, so can decline further tests? But are you a doctor? NO
my baby got admitted at 3 weeks old and had to have a lumber puncture and it did luckily turn out to just be a virus.
But why would you deny any further testing to ensure everything is crossed off? She is an absolute dick head!!! She’s going to make a mistake soon
my baby got admitted at 3 weeks old and had to have a lumber puncture and it did luckily turn out to just be a virus.
But why would you deny any further testing to ensure everything is crossed off? She is an absolute dick head!!! She’s going to make a mistake soon
Her language of ‘my private room’ is so entitled. Is that another thing she thinks she has a right to?
Perhaps she already has. She was Lauren Goodger’s doula when her baby died wasn’t she? I wonder if LG will ever say what was determined in the post-mortem or if any further inquest has happened/is happening?
I doubt she would if there was any indication the death was avoidable
From the sounds of her explanation (which again, was hard to follow) they would have been in the pédiatrics ward not NICU as they got sent home then readmitted.
But I totally agree her entitlement around it was insane. We had a 4 month stay in NICU/SCBU last year with my little boy and she needs to check herself. I didn’t get to stay in the same room as him until we roomed in before discharge when he was 4 months old. You can guarantee the other parents on that ward must think she’s a right twit
also if I’d listened to someone like her (I had severe sudden onset preeclampsia at 27 weeks despite being low risk) me and my baby would have died. He had to have numerous tests, IVs, blood transfusions and an operation. She would have me refusing all of it no doubt and he wouldn’t be here today.
Sorry for the rant, but I am furious that she’s trying to pull her (delusional) rank re:neonatal care now. She is dangerous AF.
What she seems to consistently describe is not her acting in her baby’s best interests but wanting to be defiant against the evil doctors and NHS. She just comes across as a moron putting herself and her baby at riskstill.
Also her passive aggressive quotation marks do my head in. The baby was doing better so the doctor was “happy” to discharge him. What is that even meant to mean? it seems like she’s trying to say the doctor wasn’t really happy. A doctor, who looks after sick children for a living, on the overstretched NHS, is just soooooo desperate to keep her well child in the hospital. She seriously needs to stop posting this tit. She’s a liability and completely deluded.
But I totally agree her entitlement around it was insane. We had a 4 month stay in NICU/SCBU last year with my little boy and she needs to check herself. I didn’t get to stay in the same room as him until we roomed in before discharge when he was 4 months old. You can guarantee the other parents on that ward must think she’s a right twit
also if I’d listened to someone like her (I had severe sudden onset preeclampsia at 27 weeks despite being low risk) me and my baby would have died. He had to have numerous tests, IVs, blood transfusions and an operation. She would have me refusing all of it no doubt and he wouldn’t be here today.Sorry for the rant, but I am furious that she’s trying to pull her (delusional) rank re:neonatal care now. She is dangerous AF.
What she seems to consistently describe is not her acting in her baby’s best interests but wanting to be defiant against the evil doctors and NHS. She just comes across as a moron putting herself and her baby at riskstill.
Also her passive aggressive quotation marks do my head in. The baby was doing better so the doctor was “happy” to discharge him. What is that even meant to mean? it seems like she’s trying to say the doctor wasn’t really happy. A doctor, who looks after sick children for a living, on the overstretched NHS, is just soooooo desperate to keep her well child in the hospital. She seriously needs to stop posting this tit. She’s a liability and completely deluded.
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Totally agree with all of this. She has a masssssive chip on her shoulder with the nhs. Go private then!!!From the sounds of her explanation (which again, was hard to follow) they would have been in the pédiatrics ward not NICU as they got sent home then readmitted.
But I totally agree her entitlement around it was insane. We had a 4 month stay in NICU/SCBU last year with my little boy and she needs to check herself. I didn’t get to stay in the same room as him until we roomed in before discharge when he was 4 months old. You can guarantee the other parents on that ward must think she’s a right twit
Sorry for the rant, but I am furious that she’s trying to pull her (delusional) rank re:neonatal care now. She is dangerous AF.
What she seems to consistently describe is not her acting in her baby’s best interests but wanting to be defiant against the evil doctors and NHS. She just comes across as a moron putting herself and her baby at riskstill.
Also her passive aggressive quotation marks do my head in. The baby was doing better so the doctor was “happy” to discharge him. What is that even meant to mean? it seems like she’s trying to say the doctor wasn’t really happy. A doctor, who looks after sick children for a living, on the overstretched NHS, is just soooooo desperate to keep her well child in the hospital. She seriously needs to stop posting this tit. She’s a liability and completely deluded.
She’s too cheap / needs the controversy for content….
Also they frequent use of quotations around random words is so passive aggressive. Say what you mean and own it.
She’s so dangerous and I’m still shocked by the friends I have that follow her. Thankfully none of them are currently preggy that I know of but if they get preggy I’ll have to try and have a conversation. Or maybe sooner? I honestly don’t wanna judge or tell people what to think but she’s so scary but appealing with her little cute graphics…
Anyone know any good reaction/stitch videos objecting to her advice? Might start there
Trouble is - and I’m not defending her in anyway - but private only really exists for elective services and routine care, if she’d gone private for her birth she’d have been blue lighted to a NHS hospital anyway.
Oh that’s true, I always forget that!
Rant incoming, sorry guys. But wondering if anyone else sees this.
Something i don’t see mentioned enough but which I think needs to be talked about more, is how unhelpful her and the hypnobirthing movement are for women’s mental health. Particularly the way they speak about and label trauma. I get that if you feel traumatised, then that’s trauma, but they really do push that it’s “ok” to feel traumatised even if you had a “good” birth. It is but also maybe not having everything you wanted exactly how you want all the time isn’t traumatic (eg. people who would say the sole trauma in their birth is that they were given pain or couldn’t give birth in water) they also push that anything other than a home/natural/water birth is traumatic for mother and baby.
I just feel that it’s become so normalised, and it’s partly due to people like this, that women should feel tit about their births if it doesn’t reach a ridiculous almost unachievable standard, even if objectively it was good (they’re ok, baby’s ok, no severe issues, haemorrhages etc. They got to hold their baby and have skin to skin after birth, they could have visitors etc). And they really do feel tit about it sometimes, because these people tell them they should.
Something i don’t see mentioned enough but which I think needs to be talked about more, is how unhelpful her and the hypnobirthing movement are for women’s mental health. Particularly the way they speak about and label trauma. I get that if you feel traumatised, then that’s trauma, but they really do push that it’s “ok” to feel traumatised even if you had a “good” birth. It is but also maybe not having everything you wanted exactly how you want all the time isn’t traumatic (eg. people who would say the sole trauma in their birth is that they were given pain or couldn’t give birth in water) they also push that anything other than a home/natural/water birth is traumatic for mother and baby.
I just feel that it’s become so normalised, and it’s partly due to people like this, that women should feel tit about their births if it doesn’t reach a ridiculous almost unachievable standard, even if objectively it was good (they’re ok, baby’s ok, no severe issues, haemorrhages etc. They got to hold their baby and have skin to skin after birth, they could have visitors etc). And they really do feel tit about it sometimes, because these people tell them they should.