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I read on here somewhere about how they think the inghams are normal for the oldest looking after the youngest?
I'm sorry but I cannot agree with that at all! There is a 12 years ago difference in mine age 17-5 and I would never ever think rely on my oldest to look after sprogs that they didn't birth.
They only time I've asked is 5 mins if I get an important phone call or I need a break so I compromise and say I will deep clean their room and they watch their Baby brother
I've seen my childrens friends that can't go anywhere because they have to babysit their siblings constantly and they can't wait to leave home because it's not their responsibility.
They will prob go no contact too
Been an ingham there is no chance on earth I would trust Izzy or Esme to look after the little ones around the pool because they are both immature.
I'm sorry but I cannot agree with that at all! There is a 12 years ago difference in mine age 17-5 and I would never ever think rely on my oldest to look after sprogs that they didn't birth.
They only time I've asked is 5 mins if I get an important phone call or I need a break so I compromise and say I will deep clean their room and they watch their Baby brother
I've seen my childrens friends that can't go anywhere because they have to babysit their siblings constantly and they can't wait to leave home because it's not their responsibility. They will prob go no contact too
Been an ingham there is no chance on earth I would trust Izzy or Esme to look after the little ones around the pool because they are both immature.
What a bleep
Snips from the house flog for those who don't want to give them a view.
In the garden, she hardly looked at the camera. Lies?
In the garden, she hardly looked at the camera. Lies?
Sending a young adult to the pool to supervise 4 children alone…sensible
There’s no way he’s a millionaire right?
Oh yeah? Where's your million STDS?
My mum would pay my sisters if they babysat my brother or i ( age gap) she said why pay a stranger and my sisters loved the extra cash I feel that’s okay because it wasn’t forced or expected.I read on here somewhere about how they think the inghams are normal for the oldest looking after the youngest?
I'm sorry but I cannot agree with that at all! There is a 12 years ago difference in mine age 17-5 and I would never ever think rely on my oldest to look after sprogs that they didn't birth.
They only time I've asked is 5 mins if I get an important phone call or I need a break so I compromise and say I will deep clean their room and they watch their Baby brother
They will prob go no contact too
Been an ingham there is no chance on earth I would trust Izzy or Esme to look after the little ones around the pool because they are both immature.
Whybrows. Dubaibrows. Liebrows. That's all my virus addled brain can think of.
Also, sending lots of love to @uwu
(and the other lovely tattlers going through similar situations)Same for me, it was arranged with me in advance and I was paid. If I already had other plans then either my mum wouldn't go out or would ask someone else in the family to look after them. I did it because she was at work or if she went out in the evening, never because she wanted to go to the shops daily. I would have probably told her to take them with her.
Sarah just goes where she wants and knows the older ones will be available to look after any younger ones because they have no life away from the family anyway. She chose to have 3 younger children that she doesn't want to look after by herself and assumes she will always have help from one of the older ones and that isn't ok. In a normal family they wouldn't be there to do it all the time.
Exactly and in a normal family the girls wouldn’t be available all the time because they’d be busy with a lot of other things.
Definitely reading a script Chris has written!
What the hell has she drawn her eyebrows on with?
Iron filings and a magnet?
There's a 10 year age gap between me and my sibling and, whilst I love them to death, I hated that I spent the majority of my childhood looking after/babysitting them. I missed out on so much with friends etc when I was younger because I was expected to take on the responsibility of a second mum role. I have a great relationship with my sibling and parents now, however I actually moved out at 16 and cut contact for a couple of years because of this. It's really not fair. If you choose to have children then you need to take on that responsibility and not palm it off on othersI read on here somewhere about how they think the inghams are normal for the oldest looking after the youngest?
I'm sorry but I cannot agree with that at all! There is a 12 years ago difference in mine age 17-5 and I would never ever think rely on my oldest to look after sprogs that they didn't birth.
They only time I've asked is 5 mins if I get an important phone call or I need a break so I compromise and say I will deep clean their room and they watch their Baby brother
They will prob go no contact too
Been an ingham there is no chance on earth I would trust Izzy or Esme to look after the little ones around the pool because they are both immature.
Since my cover has been blown by Lazy I’ve decided to use my own picture. I can confirm that Chrish has offered to hang my curtains but I declined 