Okay creepy, here are some facts about this 'sad little troll'. I worked for a bit in animal care, I left it though because I was struggling with some mental health issues (anxiety and depression). I am not letting it make me the person that stays locked up all day with posters on my wall hating my life and being 'jealous of your amazing life'. Instead I went to therapy, I found activities that I loved (dancing, boxing etc), I have amazing friends, I have a loving family who have been endlessly supportive of me.
After a bit I've started to get back to a better version of myself. I went to college for working with people with learning disabilities and physical disabilities. I learned who to care for them, how to understand they way their mind works, how to help them, how to make their life as easier and as best for them as possible. I learned how to care and love and help others. Yes, I am currently unemployed I won't deny that because I finished my college just as the pandemic hit. The pandemic hit and the world was on lockdown and during that I helped care for my dying auntie who moved into the house as she was unable to live alone anymore. I spent all my time with her, trying to give her the best time possible for whatever little time she had left on the earth. So yes, career searching and that also took a bit of a hit there. I'm 21 years old. I may not have everything completely figured out but I DO know that my life is so much better than yours Chris. I am not jealous of anything in your life. I'm not jealous of a relationship that consists of cheating, grooming minors or exploiting children. I am not jealous of your soulless house. I am not jealous of your family. I am not jealou because I have an amazing, loving, happy home. I have a supportive family and we have been through hell together but we made it, together. As for my time on tattle, I don't think being on tattle makes us freaks or whatever you want to call us. In fact I'll be honest, I think tattle in a way helps me grow because there are so many amazing and intelligent people on this thread who can point out things and explain to others why this thing may be wrong and can help them be like 'hey did is what you did, this is why it's wrong and here is how you can improve'. So tattle in a way can actually help people grow by pointing out the errors and how they can improve it.
I am so sorry for this long comment, I know it probably doesn't make sense or none of you care.
Basically, we are not the bad guys here Inghams, tattle could help you but at this point I'm afraid both of you are too far down the rabbit hole to be helped up. I just wish your children could come out of this all okay but sadly I can't see that happening as they have you both as parents.
After a bit I've started to get back to a better version of myself. I went to college for working with people with learning disabilities and physical disabilities. I learned who to care for them, how to understand they way their mind works, how to help them, how to make their life as easier and as best for them as possible. I learned how to care and love and help others. Yes, I am currently unemployed I won't deny that because I finished my college just as the pandemic hit. The pandemic hit and the world was on lockdown and during that I helped care for my dying auntie who moved into the house as she was unable to live alone anymore. I spent all my time with her, trying to give her the best time possible for whatever little time she had left on the earth. So yes, career searching and that also took a bit of a hit there. I'm 21 years old. I may not have everything completely figured out but I DO know that my life is so much better than yours Chris. I am not jealous of anything in your life. I'm not jealous of a relationship that consists of cheating, grooming minors or exploiting children. I am not jealous of your soulless house. I am not jealous of your family. I am not jealou because I have an amazing, loving, happy home. I have a supportive family and we have been through hell together but we made it, together. As for my time on tattle, I don't think being on tattle makes us freaks or whatever you want to call us. In fact I'll be honest, I think tattle in a way helps me grow because there are so many amazing and intelligent people on this thread who can point out things and explain to others why this thing may be wrong and can help them be like 'hey did is what you did, this is why it's wrong and here is how you can improve'. So tattle in a way can actually help people grow by pointing out the errors and how they can improve it.
I am so sorry for this long comment, I know it probably doesn't make sense or none of you care.
Basically, we are not the bad guys here Inghams, tattle could help you but at this point I'm afraid both of you are too far down the rabbit hole to be helped up. I just wish your children could come out of this all okay but sadly I can't see that happening as they have you both as parents.