“The Ick”

[Likkleone]

I have to add this because I’ve just discovered it. I recently started speaking to someone on hinge and we really got on well.

Anyway, I was excited, but this man is next level excited? He’s been constantly trying to phone me and see me. He even said he was deleting hinge so he can ‘concentrate on us’. I’ve had to say multiple times that he needs to slow down because he’s putting pressure on this, to which he agreed and said he would try to take it as slow as I needed it to be. Nonetheless, this didn’t stop him a couple days later trying to talk dirty to me and send me the most disgusting fool pics I’ve ever seen? I mean there aren’t many I’d like photos of but Jesus - I pretended I fell asleep after this

Fast forward 4 days later and we’re still talking here and there but I’ve been very much put off meeting him because any excitement I did have has evaporated into thin air. Anyway he’s sent me multiple long messages saying I’ve changed and he just wants to make things work between us... We’ve been speaking for what, a week?

The whole experience has been one big ick and writing this now I’ve just received a text ‘enjoy your Sunday, text me whenever you can’... I sure was enjoying my Sunday until I had flashbacks of your nudes

 

[mermaidexoxo]

I have to add this because I’ve just discovered it. I recently started speaking to someone on hinge and we really got on well.

Anyway, I was excited, but this man is next level excited? He’s been constantly trying to phone me and see me. He even said he was deleting hinge so he can ‘concentrate on us’. I’ve had to say multiple times that he needs to slow down because he’s putting pressure on this, to which he agreed and said he would try to take it as slow as I needed it to be. Nonetheless, this didn’t stop him a couple days later trying to talk dirty to me and send me the most disgusting fool pics I’ve ever seen? I mean there aren’t many I’d like photos of but Jesus - I pretended I fell asleep after this

Fast forward 4 days later and we’re still talking here and there but I’ve been very much put off meeting him because any excitement I did have has evaporated into thin air. Anyway he’s sent me multiple long messages saying I’ve changed and he just wants to make things work between us... We’ve been speaking for what, a week?

The whole experience has been one big ick and writing this now I’ve just received a text ‘enjoy your Sunday, text me whenever you can’... I sure was enjoying my Sunday until I had flashbacks of your nudes

Long paragraphs after a week. RED FLAG GIRL
If you do see him please keep us updated

 

[CheshireLove]

I have to add this because I’ve just discovered it. I recently started speaking to someone on hinge and we really got on well.

Anyway, I was excited, but this man is next level excited? He’s been constantly trying to phone me and see me. He even said he was deleting hinge so he can ‘concentrate on us’. I’ve had to say multiple times that he needs to slow down because he’s putting pressure on this, to which he agreed and said he would try to take it as slow as I needed it to be. Nonetheless, this didn’t stop him a couple days later trying to talk dirty to me and send me the most disgusting fool pics I’ve ever seen? I mean there aren’t many I’d like photos of but Jesus - I pretended I fell asleep after this

Fast forward 4 days later and we’re still talking here and there but I’ve been very much put off meeting him because any excitement I did have has evaporated into thin air. Anyway he’s sent me multiple long messages saying I’ve changed and he just wants to make things work between us... We’ve been speaking for what, a week?

The whole experience has been one big ick and writing this now I’ve just received a text ‘enjoy your Sunday, text me whenever you can’... I sure was enjoying my Sunday until I had flashbacks of your nudes

Ugh I got icked our reading this.

You said multiple times to slow down and he won’t listen? Big red flag right there.

Edit: fool pics Unless you ask, it’s just another form of flashing isn’t it.

 

[realhousewivewannabe]

Unsolicited / unwanted/ random pictures of anyone’s parts are major I used to speak to one guy and I’d get Snapchat’s of him playing with himself constantly I had a guy on bumble do this, sent a Mirror pic of him in his boxers with a hard on after just a “hi”

 

[CarrieW24]

I have to add this because I’ve just discovered it. I recently started speaking to someone on hinge and we really got on well.

Anyway, I was excited, but this man is next level excited? He’s been constantly trying to phone me and see me. He even said he was deleting hinge so he can ‘concentrate on us’. I’ve had to say multiple times that he needs to slow down because he’s putting pressure on this, to which he agreed and said he would try to take it as slow as I needed it to be. Nonetheless, this didn’t stop him a couple days later trying to talk dirty to me and send me the most disgusting fool pics I’ve ever seen? I mean there aren’t many I’d like photos of but Jesus - I pretended I fell asleep after this

Fast forward 4 days later and we’re still talking here and there but I’ve been very much put off meeting him because any excitement I did have has evaporated into thin air. Anyway he’s sent me multiple long messages saying I’ve changed and he just wants to make things work between us... We’ve been speaking for what, a week?

The whole experience has been one big ick and writing this now I’ve just received a text ‘enjoy your Sunday, text me whenever you can’... I sure was enjoying my Sunday until I had flashbacks of your nudes

All of that and you've just met him? Ghost him and don't feel badly about it, you don't owe him your time.

 

[Member]

Massive red flag, I’d run far far away from this guy

 

[Bellaboo83]

All of that and you've just met him? Ghost him and don't feel badly about it, you don't owe him your time.

I'd have ghosted him the second his reply turned into a second paragraph or he double texted without a reply.... Which ever was sooner being too interested is such a killer for me

 

[aimzalicious]

Guys that say ‘she’d get it’ or ‘id bag her’ randomly about women on tv or magazines etc.
I’m not jealous bro, I just don’t know what you want me to do with that bit of pointless information. It reeks of lads, lads, lads & it makes my toes curl.

Omg this!! I never know what to say back to them after they've made comments on a woman's appearance. I have a number of guys who are my best mates from sixth form, and they see me as "one of the lads" which is fine by me. But when they spout tit like this, or stare at women in public, I legit don't know what to do. Can't they just keep their thoughts to themselves?

One of these guys recently got a new gf as well, and I feel sorry for her

 

[PrincessCharming]

Blind date, early nineties. He turned up wearing a shell suit....

and...

wait for it ...

... black shiny dress shoes

Unfortunately my taxi had dropped me right at the door of the pub so I couldn’t run away there and then.

 

[Jaybtee]

One I thought of today when I spotted my next door neighbour leave his house - men whose hair grows into the back of their hairy neck and back like I don’t mind hairy backs but you need to have that strip shaved instead of it all crisscrossing together

 

[FridaK]

Once dated a really fit farmer. Really funny, clever, great dresser, cheekiest smile I’d seen (until I met my Husband.) 4 dates in, got a bit heated, took his top off and boom nipple piercing. I literally said ‘God no, why did you never say? Sorry no.’ Never saw him again. My friends were like ‘Jesus, why didn’t you just ask him to take it out.’ I couldn’t because at the end of the day, he may have just one day been compelled to wear it again. Far to risky .
Also the ick.
Thinking they are funny and they are not.
Thinking they are good looking and they are not.
Nagging in any form.
Incapacity to have a clever debate
Doesn’t vote

 

[coconochanel]

OMG some of these stories have had me LOLing.

 

[HowlOwl]

Once dated a really fit farmer. Really funny, clever, great dresser, cheekiest smile I’d seen (until I met my Husband.) 4 dates in, got a bit heated, took his top off and boom nipple piercing. I literally said ‘God no, why did you never say? Sorry no.’ Never saw him again. My friends were like ‘Jesus, why didn’t you just ask him to take it out.’ I couldn’t because at the end of the day, he may have just one day been compelled to wear it again. Far to risky .
Also the ick.
Thinking they are funny and they are not.
Thinking they are good looking and they are not.
Nagging in any form.
Incapacity to have a clever debate
Doesn’t vote

”boom nipple piercing ...”

 

[Jaybtee]

OMG some of these stories have had me LOLing.

It’s my fave thread on the Internet! Proper belly laugh

 

[aimzalicious]

It’s my fave thread on the Internet! Proper belly laugh

Same! I need everyone on Tattle to post here. Give us another 14 pages to read pleeeeaaaseee

 

[Swipeupyouguys]

Urgh lads, lads, lads.

 

[Lindssdnil]

I once had a boyfriend that would ask way too many questions during sex for example ‘is it okay? Are you sure?’ Completely made my hole close up.

 

[Violeteyes89]

I was on a date recently and excused myself to go use the bathroom, only to hear him say in a weird baby voice “aw do you need a poo poo?” Needless to say that was the last date.

 

[Chablis1]

I was on a date recently and excused myself to go use the bathroom, only to hear him say in a weird baby voice “aw do you need a poo poo?” Needless to say that was the last date.

OMG

 

[Happyvalley]

I once had a boyfriend that would ask way too many questions during sex for example ‘is it okay? Are you sure?’ Completely made my hole close up.

Oh god major ick, tell me what you want and other gross chat during sex....err i want you to shut the duck up.