I know a woman who gets her brother round to do the slightest thing cause her hub is 'useless'. First of all i'd be embarassed i couldnt do it myself then i'd be mortified to think my husband would rather his brother in law built his childs cot or family barbecue. Laziness/uselessness is such an unattractive trait. Try for duck sake, try and then duck it up. But at least TRY!A friend of mine got her brother round to put her baby's cot together. Her husband can put stuff together so he just comes across as lazy.