The Chateau Diaries #90 They have no freaking idea what they're doing

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Still I am thankful that I am not in the US.
I'm pretty "greatful" to live in the US. As much as we get wrong, and equal healthcare for all is a biggie, there's a lot more that we get right. Contributing to the world and first with a helping hand. Many have said we should stop giving handouts until we fix the disparities at home. To be fair, we're a young country and still working out the kinks. The important thing is to never feel that we have 100% "become" - and willing to continue to grow.
 
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I don't know if it's the same in Canada, but in the states, here's how it works for some of the people who are homeless. They have to line up to get a bed at a shelter by late afternoon, roughly by 3:30-4:00 because of limited beds...if they don't get there early, they're not sleeping indoors. Some of the shelters are staffed by people who abuse the people who come to them. Shelters will not let you bring a pet. Shelters will not let you leave your belongings there for the afternoon. Sexual assault is also rampant in shelters. Many people choose not to stay in them due to these things. Much like getting government assistance, they make you jump through hoops...some are valid, others are absurd. How do you maintain a job when you have no permanent place to shower? Or that you need to leave the job early in order to get a bed for the night? What if you find a job and it's night shift work? Where do you go during the day to sleep? Who is going to hire someone who arrives to work with all of their possessions in a garbage bag every day? I'm sure there are a few who choose to not actively work, but the ones I've spoken to would gladly work, pay taxes and contribute to society if they could get over the hurdles preventing them from doing so. The Finnish model for eradicating homelessness provides housing first and then integrates treatment for mental and substance abuse issues. This should be the universal model for dealing with an issue that is only going to grow as inflation does.
 
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I don't watch all of Selmar's vlogs because I find him a little bit disgusting, so maybe he's said something, but if I only had 1.5% of my goal reached I'd be promoting my project on my channel.
 
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Is it just me that thinks billy is looking hot at the moment he looks as if he has slimmed down a bit his face looks thinner
It's just you, but he was more handsome than MPK in his youth, he was gorgeous, don't wonder why Gwen fell for him, but why she stayed is a mystery.
 
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and that's on big pharma and the prison industrial complex!
https://giphy.com/d0NnEG1WnnXqg
 
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I'm new here too. I'm interested what was the last straw that sent you here? 2nd to last straw for me was the boyfriend reveal. Final straw was her supporting Tatty and Silly's dream kickstarter
Why didn't you come earlier? Were you scared of the "hate" site ? But I should warn you: it's addictive here so run before it's too late for you!
 
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I don't watch all of Selmar's vlogs because I find him a little bit disgusting, so maybe he's said something, but if I only had 1.5% of my goal reached I'd be promoting my project on my channel.
they should have bought a place they could afford...start making vlogs and built on a following from that..that could work..not this..but they want the jackpot. first,,.not gonna happen...

It's just you, but he was more handsome than MPK in his youth, he was gorgeous, don't wonder why Gwen fell for him, but why she stayed is a mystery.
well if evrybody would leave his partner because the looks faded..... it would be a lonely world..i have the feeling Gwen is a little bit like Fan Flash..she doesnt like to take the lead..sticks her head in the sand..just likes an easy and quite life..i hope for her she doesnt loose all her money in the end..
 
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This is good news. The Dauphin and Marquis level patrons are the only voices she'll be interested in. She could care less if a smattering of five and ten dollar a month contributors ask uncomfortable questions or even grumble in the comments. Low dollar fans are easily replaced but most of these high rollers have been on board for years.
I wonder how many are just waiting to get their names on the back of the paneling before they vanish or drop down to pittance contributions.
 
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There are people moving to Honduras, Costa Rica, etc. as well just to have some quality of life and good medical care. I interviewed hundreds of people before the aca passed and it nearly killed me. It’s outrageous.
It is pretty pathetic. Medical tourism is a thing. I have a friend who used to teach special ed in Florida. She went to Mexico for dental work because she couldn't afford dental work in the states. She lives in Israel now where she gets national health care and abortions are free if you're aged 20 to 33. Ironically, the US sends billions to Israel, last year it was 3.8 billion. I wonder if the evangelicals know.
 
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They don't work for various reasons. While others are as you said, unemployable due to various criminal records, addictions and such, a majority of the ones I met simply discovered how the system works and have decided to completely rely on handouts and help. One gritty reason I got from one of the guys was, "It's your rich people's job to support needy people like me."

Alberta is still a very much have province, and there are jobs everywhere. The IGA I went to get Kosher food items from was looking to fill at least 9 positions at $15/hour starting pay.

My fiancee and I volunteer at a soup kitchen in NYC too. The kitchen also has a community closet. In August, I assisted a 23-year old guy from the Bronx who came to the community closet to find an ensemble for his job interview for a doorman position in Tribeca. This past Monday he came by to drop a thank you card because he got the job, and lives for free at the building's staff quarters. Too bad I missed him that day.
 
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I am not going political in here..i just help where i can...i sometimes have my questions..and doubts..but when there are children involved...we help..they cant help their parents bad decisions..
 
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Pretty much the same here!
 
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I often wish this site had an eye-rolling reaction emoji... it really is the only reasonable response to many wackadoodle choices in the chateau-verse.
 
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I am not going political in here..i just help where i can...i sometimes have my questions..and doubts..but when there are children involved...we help..they cant help their parents bad decisions..
Sorry for going political, I worked in DC for 5 years, I can't help it. Like you, I help where I can. I'm not wealthy by any means, but I'm fortunate to have a roof over my head and give what I can throughout the year.
 
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