The Chateau Diaries #80 Kaboom! The dutch boyfriend is outed.

[JackofHearts]

We can share Patreon videos now? I was called a baddies when I did it back then

only reason I un-lurked
also kept me from commenting. apologies. shutting up for rest of evening (here ) now. Just so enjoying the schadenfreude and roosters.

 

[KyBourbon]

Please, please, please somebody at the Patron Q and A ask SJ "which one of you is the bottom?"

Maybe they like to “scissor”? Well, “Scissor me timbers!” I could share a South Park video, but it might get me banned!

 

[OhIDontKnow...]

On the contrary! Now that it's out in the open the end will be so much sooner, trust me. Her patrons may fall for her bull as they tend to do, no questions asked but having lied about it to her most loyal fans in public, and by doing so forcing them to deny all gossip about the two, will cost them dearly. And the kind of relationship they are having would only work if it's kept out of the vlogs, which will not work because this is not something that viewers will forget about. Each and every person I have talked to, and some of them are really closely knitted into the fabric that holds her entourage, is saying it will not last. They might not say it to the happy couple, they certainly voice their opinion when they are not around. I laughed out loud when SJ told us how supportive her mother has been. The fact that she needed to emphasize that is a tell tale on its own. IJ profoundly dislikes Snorty and has been rather vocal about it. Her dislike is not about the age difference, which bothers her too obviously, but she's very suspicious of Snorty's motives and thinks he's after SJ's money. She has found a fervent companion in Nic Larkin, who literally despises what he privately calls 'Steph's baby', a clear reference to Tess Hoffman and the doll she has been carrying around for ages.

I would have to agree with you on the duration being short now. He’s so gauche it’s embarrassing. He’s not that great looking - not manly AT ALL. I don’t care if he’s young, actually men his age are horrible in bed in my experience. But the simple fact that he stalked her on YouTube, showed up and wormed his way in is just totally creepy and makes her look terrible. This must have been terrible for all the other regulars around there. Can you imagine having to kiss this prats ass? The only thing saving him from being on par with a street person is that he claims to be an actor and has a job in a forgettable play in nowhere. Could she scrape the bottom of a lower barrel? If he was a stud I could at least understand it, but he is so far from that. The stalking is the worst part. Just gross. She literally ran out of people to have sex with. It’s Pathetic.

 

[Beau Monde]

i have another one..Stef do you like to wear a strap on dildo and will you penetrate snorts his ass... omg my mind is starting to play tricks with me..

HA! That's another reason my straight woman friend dumped her bi husband --she grew bored with always having to top him with the strap-on! (And they say we gays are sex pigs! My husband of 30 years and I are practically nuns compared to those two)!

 

[ScarlettoShara]

I was also wrong and now stand corrected regarding Snorts and SJ. I was so, so, certain he was simply her fawning assistant. I'm curious to see if this indirect reveal gets addressed by SJ. Bets anyone?

 

[nastynan13]

Ok. All I can say is: my gaydar has never EVER been wrong - ever. This includes a time my husband showed me a photo of a friend I had yet to meet and I said oh, he's gay, you never mentioned that. My husband got hysterical (I grew up in the ballet world so big woop) and screeched "but he's a MARINE" ya... literally no place I rather be, than surrounded bu handsome hunks in the marines laughed so hard. Anyway - 20 years later and weirdly - while still not out (apparently his dad - still alive) still not married and never, ever had a gf.... soo ya. So yup. I have known many guys men to get married and even have children before they allow themselves to live authentically. You don't have to be a "gold star" gay man. But - I mean, wow... then again, I don't see princess really letting loose and being a TOTAL SCREAMER or dressing up black leather, or just being a freak in the sheets- but maybe she pegs him just thoughts... maybe she can title the next vlog "pegging and other ideas" sorry if I offended anyone

 

[MsPitstop]

But the simple fact that he stalked her on YouTube, showed up and wormed his way in is just totally creepy and makes her look terrible. This must have been terrible for all the other regulars around there. Can you imagine having to kiss this prats ass? The only thing saving him from being on par with a street person is that he claims to be an actor and has a job in a forgettable play in nowhere. Could she scrape the bottom of a lower barrel? If he was a stud I could at least understand it, but he is so far from that. The stalking is the worst part. Just gross. She literally ran out of people to have sex with. It’s Pathetic.

Thank you! I don't know how Natty has put up with that prat for a year, because they've been in a relationship for that long, especially if you remember with her ectopic pregnancy at Christmas (another amazing piece of news from @Clara Burnett who needs to be a VVIP).

Also, hello there was the cute goat farmer.

 

[KyBourbon]

They did not spill anything. Like I said over and over again, in normal daily life at her tit show this is no secret, nor has it ever been. She forgot to inform them that he could not be publicly called 'boyfriend'. She was just completely counting on her scheme of smoke and mirrors to provide an array of explanations for whatever pops up. She did not know. The patron video is proof she was completely surprised by the news. Bad planning and bad pr. What else is new?

When I said “spill the beans” I meant it in the sense that they (Channel 4) made it public in the media when SJ had never mentioned anything in her vlogs. I never doubted you when you said that they were together.

 

[Le Comte de Monte Cristo]

So, he tried to kiss her? They have no chemistry whatsoever that it completely passed me by. I think he knew she was lonely and therefore, that she would be an easy target. I am just so glad my initial gut feeling was proven correct concerning him, opportunists love a lonely single person because they are going to be easy to charm and win over. I think she is foolish and I also think she tries to play up to how anxious she is about money sometimes to ensure people keep giving her money via her patreon account. Also, why a two-tier system, why are only her patrons allowed the truth but her main account be in the dark, they don’t pay so they are second class citizens and don’t deserve an explanation? I think I have been too generous in giving her the benefit of the doubt over things that made me feel uncomfortable for a while. I think she always wanted people to think she was struggling so they gave her cash, I remember Marie commenting that she always finds money for things she likes. I think I am done with Stephanie, this is not about being private, this was being deceitful and when exposed, playing the victim by saying it is an unfair world because she is a woman. I actually think she is manipulative when using the age gap between fool and Angel as an example when it is because of Philip’s young age, he is 24/25 and she is 46. I don’t care for it when a 41 year old man dates an 18 year old woman - that is the same age gap, it is due to fool and Angel being much older already. When is was 16 my female friend dated a 33 year old man and no one felt comfortable with it - that is even less of an age gap…it matters how young the youngest person in the relationship is as much as the age gap.

Totally bull..that woman is trying to derail the discussion from herself...who is having a problem with an age gap..?? .its the whole situation around it..she is trying to get in the victimrole...a role she is playing all her life..the whole situation is her not being honest..and she knows it...but she tries again to put some smoke up...we will see how this works out...the fact she has set up a Q and A is enough evidence for me that she is freaking out..

 

[nastynan13]

Yes, I can’t imagine that Channel 4 “spilled the beans” by mistake. It was a voiceover, and I would think that SJ had the chance to preview the episode before it aired (but maybe I’m wrong). Anyway, I’m thinking she knew it would be announced.

No she would never had a chance to view the episode before it aired. That's all for the show runners/producers. Reality TV puts in what it wants when it wants where it wants. My guess is people saw things and then just.... put it in. SJ may just have been close with a producer and confided - don't ever do that

yeah...all she is really worried about...is that this will cause the patrons to re think that monthly contribution...phillie isn’t worth losing 32k a month over...well the 20% of him that isn’t gay...

Oh... he is 100% card carrying gay man. Maybe that's why MP- please pay me money - is so mad at him? Because he is thinking "umm you are a bottom ALL DAY LONG- what are you DOING!!" just thoughts

 

[Marquis de Potpourri]

Oh, hello, MPK! We didn’t notice you there! We were too busy talking about BJJ and his sugarmommy girlfriend. Once again, he stole your thunder. Are you more jealous now?

 

[Seeingitasitis]

My partner and I have been together for 20 years and we’re asked how we make it work. Well, I tell them I make all the big decisions and he makes all the little decisions. Funny thing is…in 20 years, there’s never been any big decisions to make!

My 34 year relationship is slightly different. I make all the small decisions - where we live, where we holiday, what car we drive, where are children are educated. I am happy for him to decide the bigger issues - whether or not there will be nuclear war....

 

[nastynan13]

So, he tried to kiss her? They have no chemistry whatsoever that it completely passed me by. I think he knew she was lonely and therefore, that she would be an easy target. I am just so glad my initial gut feeling was proven correct concerning him, opportunists love a lonely single person because they are going to be easy to charm and win over. I think she is foolish and I also think she tries to play up to how anxious she is about money sometimes to ensure people keep giving her money via her patreon account. Also, why a two-tier system, why are only her patrons allowed the truth but her main account be in the dark, they don’t pay so they are second class citizens and don’t deserve an explanation? I think I have been too generous in giving her the benefit of the doubt over things that made me feel uncomfortable for a while. I think she always wanted people to think she was struggling so they gave her cash, I remember Marie commenting that she always finds money for things she likes. I think I am done with Stephanie, this is not about being private, this was being deceitful and when exposed, playing the victim by saying it is an unfair world because she is a woman. I actually think she is manipulative when using the age gap between fool and Angel as an example when it is because of Philip’s young age, he is 24/25 and she is 46. I don’t care for it when a 41 year old man dates an 18 year old woman - that is the same age gap, it is due to fool and Angel being much older already. When I was 16 my female friend dated a 33 year old man and no one felt comfortable with it - that is even less of an age gap…it matters how young the youngest person in the relationship is as much as the age gap.

Agreed. A generational age gap (a MULTI??) is just ew. No matter who is.... dare i say it... on top... its just ew. Plus- his jeans are smaller than hers. Ew. Things come in matched sets. Ew. Just ew.

 

[Pippip]

I am just reeling from the hubris of Stephanie - when caught out she is like a conwoman trying to firstly, play the victim, and secondly, play down the deceit. There is a big difference between being private and being dishonest. I see her for who she is now, she has kept up a whole charade for months to hide it, that is not being private. I always noticed how she liked to ‘pretty up’ her grift in the past and that she is so obsequious to people who can give her things. I often had to turn her off because the fawning was too fake and insincere it was hard to stomach.

 

[Le Comte de Monte Cristo]

No she would never had a chance to view the episode before it aired. That's all for the show runners/producers. Reality TV puts in what it wants when it wants where it wants. My guess is people saw things and then just.... put it in. SJ may just have been close with a producer and confided - don't ever do that


Oh... he is 100% card carrying gay man. Maybe that's why MP- please pay me money - is so mad at him? Because he is thinking "umm you are a bottom ALL DAY LONG- what are you DOING!!" just thoughts

no indeed..not even to a newspaper reporter...when something is in the press..i always want to see it first..had some very bad experiences with that..one learns...

 

[Beau Monde]

Oh, hello there MPK! We didn’t notice you there! We were too busy talking about BJJ and his sugarmommy girlfriend. Once again, he stole your thunder. Are you more jealous now?

Gods, he's an idiot, posting the same vid his brother did days ago. I suppose sis will post her version tomorrow?

 

[KyBourbon]

Teabeg, again, talking about his lack of sleep. Either he’s in a “manic” phase, or doing more of the “white stuff!” Maybe still “coming down” after the big Halloween party?

 

[Seeingitasitis]

I am not at all gloating and will keep my 'told you so's' to myself, but am over the moon that my eyes and ears once again did not let me down.

I never doubted you for a second. I am surprised Channel 4 outed them, but not surprised. Isn't it amazing - you can show people all the receipts in the vlogs and still they do not believe you. Well, now we have it from the horse's mouth and she is doing a live for her Patreons on Friday, you would think all speculation would be at an end... but some will still not believe it.

 

[KyBourbon]

Oh, hello, MPK! We didn’t notice you there! We were too busy talking about BJJ and his sugarmommy girlfriend. Once again, he stole your thunder. Are you more jealous now?

Teabeg after learning that BJJ stole his thunder…

 

[MsPitstop]

no indeed..not even to a newspaper reporter...when something is in the press..i always want to see it first..had some very bad experiences with that..one learns...

As I've said many times to my contacts when it comes to journalists, NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING, is 'off the record'.