The Chateau Diaries #122 A Whole new level of Ugliness that makes my skin Crawl

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Perplexed bee

It would have been better for me to stay away, this is getting worse and worse: Stephanie Jarvis is nearly euphoric about thinking she has to report a breakup (that she maybe enabled?), having a "refugee" she can exploit for even more money, and making twee handcrafting with her scruffy enabler (sorry, soulmate). She is ignoring the Selmar vs. Nati issue and messing up the whole panelling project timeline just to be on TV. And what about the famous accounts? Why does anyone with some intellect even remain at Lalande? And why does anyone with at least one grey cell still send her money?
 
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Trollda


I think Fanny would be happy with ANY thread title that doesn't include the word "ACCOUNTANT" at the moment.
 
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Hemerocallis

Madame de Pompanddoodoo said:
Yes I wondered that. Who the fuck travels with jar openers?..
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Somebody who desperately needs them to open a jar because he has not enough power to do it without, like my 96y old MIL......
ALways thought Philip Janssen was only old at heart but obviously he has the power of an old lady too.
 
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pasta_aldente

"Thank you to all of the viewers of Chateau Unwrapped! because the ad revenue from this channel goes to charity and your views have enabled us to send €2019 to the Red Cross to help sustain their vital work in Ukraine." Farmhouse in the middle of nowhere's Facebook page.
 
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lulublugirl

après-le-déluge said:
Holy shit l’m so behind in watching these videos.
It’s repulsive enough to have to make myself watch CDs let alone Dans pathetic drone videos.
Ok have to leave now and catch up.
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Me too! I take my eye off the ball for a couple of days and it’s all change!! I don’t watch Dan’s vlogs and don’t take much notice of the peripheral dramas. However, you Tattlers just about got it right again. Many of you did smell a rat of some sort, particularly when he was hanging around the shitoo late at night etc. Hats off to your sleuthing skills yet again you clever bunch!
 
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Albee

Oh yes! That would be @missartemis
 
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MrsNeelie

MRShavershamsdress said:
And quite often by people who don’t know it’s history as a term for mental abuse/manipulation. Not to mention my favorite Ingrid Bergman preformance.
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Yes. I think telling lies to present the best view of yourself cannot be considered gaslighting. It is just lying. Gaslighting was/is considered the practice of deliberately misleading a person (one person) to undermine their grip of reality and cause mental distress. On that basis, you can't be accused of gaslighting if you hoodwink thousands of people to put yourself at advantage financially and socially? I wish people would stop using the term so freely.
It's like the whole bullying thing. If someone says something to you that you don't like you immediately accuse them of bullying? Really?? It might be that you deserved to be told that you had done something wrong surely? Possibly Selmar was out of order over something - I suspect assuming that space for his new girlfriend was going to be found at the chateau without actually checking first or that she turned up not as a paying guest but expected to treated like a paying guest. There are two sides to every story. Having said that, I think that Natty can probably be a little sharp with her tongue. But why is it bullying? I didn't take to Tatyana on first sight, I thought her to look sly and scheming. Natty looks sly and scheming too so there was bound to be a clash surely.
However, there is so much conjecture going on around all of this and distracting from real issue of the half million £s that her vagesty has received for about £5 worth of work achieved thus far. And the fact that, once again, she has conned more money for a project from the Patreons but has offered it to UK tv channels for exclusivity. disgusting!!!
 
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spuggy

Reader's digest said:
I bet she will lose some weight soon, now she's got rid of Dan.... but anyway she is beautiful inside and out so I am sure she will find love again
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I hope she finds love and happiness and her and the boys can move on from this.
He is going to miss out on the best years of the boys lives to live at the scruffy play house!
He’s clearly not very bright and is consumed by fame and fortune which can bring its own misery.
I feel so sorry for A and kids as well.
His vlogs are boring now and I have also stopped following him.
Maybe Annalise should start her own vlog about living in France as single mum as she is is an inspiration to many.
I hope she finds love again and a very happy ever after for her and her boys. And then it will be too late for him to regret his actions and go back home.
Annalise your a wonderful mum and a pleasure to watch and I hope you know people support you.
I do hope as well she reads these comments.
She needs a real MAN not a pussy whipped chateau wanna be
 
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lulublugirl

He most likely has nowhere else to go!
 
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Eduardo35

I'M FURIOUS WHY WOULD THIS WOMAN INTERFERE BETWEEN A COUPLE'S PROBLEM! SHE'S SHOULD COMPLETELY MIND HER OWN BUSINESS!
 
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Rory

I do wonder which room Dan was sleeping in? Perhaps Nic's apt?
 
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spuggy

Completely agree with you. She should take it all from him for her boys.
She’s beautiful and grounded. Also a brilliant mum to three little boys (Dan being the 3rd child)
She’s the only genuine person on all the vlogs.
Her boys are a credit to her as you said and she should be so proud of herself. Working hard and bringing up two boys on her own.
I take my hat off to her and wish her every success
 
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Princess and the Pea

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This is classic Narcissistic Personality Disorder behaviour. Because everything is all about them. Stephanie Jarvis. You need help. But you won't seek it because you think that everyone is like you. You know you'll never be truly happy. The booze, the shopping, the merry go round of visiting new places. The new people to meet & fall under your spell..nothing, nothing, nothing will ever make you happy. You know there is something not right about you but hey, look how fabulous everyone thinks you are so you must be fabulous right? No. The key red flag with any narcissist is an abject lack of empathy. You care not a jot that a couple have split. In fact you love it. You're positively giddy with glee - see the 'normal' people aren't really happy either. Next red flag. Drama. You love a bit of gossip & drama - because that's all this is to you. Not real life pain, but gossip and drama. You're special. But not in the way you think.

4. Self-Absorbed Egocentrism & Lack of Empathy

Since the histrionic narcissist’s primary focus in life is approval and self-gratification, other people’s thoughts, feelings and priorities are frequently disregarded with little or no consideration (unless the histrionic narcissist has something to gain from them). One of the most striking traits of some histrionic narcissists is their ability to witness human hardship (whether in personal life or society at large), shrug it off, and express distain or even contempt if others’ difficulties interfere with their selfish plans. Such is the entitlement and conceit.
 
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KyBourbon

If Dan was already seeing someone else after his separation when SJ said “Dan, aren’t those the same clothes you were wearing yesterday?” that’s even worse. If Annalise watched that vlog, can you imagine the hurt and pain she felt? Did SJ even think about that or care? (a rhetorical question…obviously not). And Dan is choosing to hitch his horse to that faker SJ, her run down farmhouse, and all the bullshit. Big mistake. He’s seen what she has done…he’s seen the damaged people…but he probably thinks he’ll be the one who shines. SJ is a narc…his time in the light will be temporary. At some point, I have a feeling he’ll regret ever coming across SJ’s path.
 
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Espe

Maple fairy said:
That cupboard would have been greatly improved as tattlers have pointed out numerous times if washed the damn thing! Afterwards add some paint but no she has to put her pretty fabric on the door to house only a few gadgets.
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Can you imagine how unhygienic that material will become? It will never be taken down and washed! In particular, the one she made for the herbs and spice jars must be rank. I can imagine when people are in the middle of cooking, they will go to get a jar without washing their hands. Remember when she was rubbing salt and spices on that piece of pork and then opened jars and touched other things without washing her hands. That material container thing will be crawling with bacteria and would never pass any health and safety inspections. She is an idiot.
 
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Albee

The last thing Annelise should do is start her own YouTube channel. In fact she should hand over the Patreon to Dan too. She should take those boys and get on with living in the real world.
Now, back to the task at hand………How does a patron get to see the accounts of the association they belong to? Who do they contact? It is at the point now that Stephanie Jarvis who runs the association does not want to be open about the monies coming in.
As a past patron I would like to see where my money went. So I would like to send an email to someone about these missing accounts. Who do I send it to?
 
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