You definitely loved him very much , you loved him so much you put him first and let him go even though it caused you so much pain xxxx I'm in awe of your bravery which was utterly selfless .We’ve unfortunately experienced this with our son and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but when we saw the brain stem test we knew our son was gone. Clearly Hollie was and still is in denial, but you can’t bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away. Nobody wants to accept their child has gone and I hope no one feels the pain of walking out of the hospital without them but the doctors and nurses in the critical care units work tirelessly to save lives. They don’t want a child to die and believe me they feel your pain, they were in tears along with us and then they do it again the next day. My son’s organs saved four peoples lives including a baby girl and little boy and it brings me comfort knowing they are still alive over four years later because of my son. Sadly this won’t be a possibility for Archie now because of the deterioration of his body. Another thing cases like this bring up is did we not fight hard enough for our child? Did we not love him as much as Hollie does because we let him go. It’s hard but our son died looking the same as he did when he went out that night not a shadow of his true self as I would imagine Archie looks like now…. And just to add this all happened on Christmas Eve as well just to add to the heartbreak…..
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The issue is,Archie is brain stem dead. People sometimes recover from being “dead” from cardiac arrests etc,but if brain stem death is determined,it’s not recoverable,there is no treatment. People cannot be brought home and looked after with assistance. I speak from experience of having lost a loved one this way. It’s an impossible thing to accept,and I relate to Archie’s families utter denial,but he has no life at all left in him. He’s gone.
Yes, that's right! Wasn't he an A+E dr as well or something? Incredible.There was a doctor at the game IIRC that assisted with the team medical crew. The man was so lucky. I’m a Bolton fan, and I still get goosebumps when I think back to the game when Spurs played us at home and Fabrice came onto the pitch to thank everyone for their support. All the Spurs fans were singing his name alongside the Bolton fans. It was incredibly heartwarming. Then they beat us
Youd have hoped by now - that poor boy. Hopefully very soon - tomorrow.
Don’t quote me but I also read that Archie was once given ear drops instead of eye drops which she used (without reading the bottle???)and then threatened legal action. Also years ago when her eldest child was a toddler he fell onto some glass from a smashed BT phone box and this made all the newspapers with the fuss she kicked up. The story says he wasn’t hurt but she enhanced it to claim he could have slit his throat etc. TBH if you see broken glass on the floor why do you let your toddler anywhere near it? Because there’s publicity to get out of it I suppose. I think there seems to be a pattern of attention seeking and like you said ‘fighting authority’…
He was a cardiologist. Here is a screenshot from the article I posted earlier.
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This has made me well up. I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy.We’ve unfortunately experienced this with our son and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but when we saw the brain stem test we knew our son was gone. Clearly Hollie was and still is in denial, but you can’t bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away. Nobody wants to accept their child has gone and I hope no one feels the pain of walking out of the hospital without them but the doctors and nurses in the critical care units work tirelessly to save lives. They don’t want a child to die and believe me they feel your pain, they were in tears along with us and then they do it again the next day. My son’s organs saved four peoples lives including a baby girl and little boy and it brings me comfort knowing they are still alive over four years later because of my son. Sadly this won’t be a possibility for Archie now because of the deterioration of his body. Another thing cases like this bring up is did we not fight hard enough for our child? Did we not love him as much as Hollie does because we let him go. It’s hard but our son died looking the same as he did when he went out that night not a shadow of his true self as I would imagine Archie looks like now…. And just to add this all happened on Christmas Eve as well just to add to the heartbreak…..
Don’t quote me but I also read that Archie was once given ear drops instead of eye drops which she used (without reading the bottle???)and then threatened legal action. Also years ago when her eldest child was a toddler he fell onto some glass from a smashed BT phone box and this made all the newspapers with the fuss she kicked up. The story says he wasn’t hurt but she enhanced it to claim he could have slit his throat etc. TBH if you see broken glass on the floor why do you let your toddler anywhere near it? Because there’s publicity to get out of it I suppose. I think there seems to be a pattern of attention seeking and like you said ‘fighting authority’…
Yes, this is the article, you’re correct.
She’s too busy on SM verbally attacking anyone who dares have a negative opinion. Got just as foul a mouth as her mother and brother as well sadly……
Hollie herself escaped a 3 month jail term for GBH against two women. Ended up with community service instead, she’s no stranger to standing up for herself in court.Don’t quote me but I also read that Archie was once given ear drops instead of eye drops which she used (without reading the bottle???)and then threatened legal action. Also years ago when her eldest child was a toddler he fell onto some glass from a smashed BT phone box and this made all the newspapers with the fuss she kicked up. The story says he wasn’t hurt but she enhanced it to claim he could have slit his throat etc. TBH if you see broken glass on the floor why do you let your toddler anywhere near it? Because there’s publicity to get out of it I suppose. I think there seems to be a pattern of attention seeking and like you said ‘fighting authority’…
So sorry you had to go through thisWe’ve unfortunately experienced this with our son and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but when we saw the brain stem test we knew our son was gone. Clearly Hollie was and still is in denial, but you can’t bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away. Nobody wants to accept their child has gone and I hope no one feels the pain of walking out of the hospital without them but the doctors and nurses in the critical care units work tirelessly to save lives. They don’t want a child to die and believe me they feel your pain, they were in tears along with us and then they do it again the next day. My son’s organs saved four peoples lives including a baby girl and little boy and it brings me comfort knowing they are still alive over four years later because of my son. Sadly this won’t be a possibility for Archie now because of the deterioration of his body. Another thing cases like this bring up is did we not fight hard enough for our child? Did we not love him as much as Hollie does because we let him go. It’s hard but our son died looking the same as he did when he went out that night not a shadow of his true self as I would imagine Archie looks like now…. And just to add this all happened on Christmas Eve as well just to add to the heartbreak…..
So she will be secretly loving this then?Don’t quote me but I also read that Archie was once given ear drops instead of eye drops which she used (without reading the bottle???)and then threatened legal action. Also years ago when her eldest child was a toddler he fell onto some glass from a smashed BT phone box and this made all the newspapers with the fuss she kicked up. The story says he wasn’t hurt but she enhanced it to claim he could have slit his throat etc. TBH if you see broken glass on the floor why do you let your toddler anywhere near it? Because there’s publicity to get out of it I suppose. I think there seems to be a pattern of attention seeking and like you said ‘fighting authority’…
She’s vile.
Anyone else think the dads heart attack was another attention seeking thing?
It sounds like she has been talking to press again outside of the hospital. Fresh words from her on Sky News.
He was a cardiologist and was able to get Fabrice taken to a specialist hospital straight away. There is a really moving (and interesting) video on YouTube where they meet up and discuss what happened, it's lovely to watch.There was a doctor at the game IIRC that assisted with the team medical crew. The man was so lucky. I’m a Bolton fan, and I still get goosebumps when I think back to the game when Spurs played us at home and Fabrice came onto the pitch to thank everyone for their support. All the Spurs fans were singing his name alongside the Bolton fans. It was incredibly heartwarming. Then they beat us
I don’t think the act itself was (apparently he had a heart attack prior) but Hollie splashing it all over the internet and blaming the trolls for it and then not updating anyone and letting them run with the story that it was a heart atttack when it wasn’t absolutely was attention seeking.
Oooh I’ll have to look that up. Thank you x
She hasn’t even spoken to his dad all weekend so god only knows what he thinks of her saying things like this.
Much love to you and others that have sadly walked this path xWe’ve unfortunately experienced this with our son and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone but when we saw the brain stem test we knew our son was gone. Clearly Hollie was and still is in denial, but you can’t bury your head in the sand and hope it goes away. Nobody wants to accept their child has gone and I hope no one feels the pain of walking out of the hospital without them but the doctors and nurses in the critical care units work tirelessly to save lives. They don’t want a child to die and believe me they feel your pain, they were in tears along with us and then they do it again the next day. My son’s organs saved four peoples lives including a baby girl and little boy and it brings me comfort knowing they are still alive over four years later because of my son. Sadly this won’t be a possibility for Archie now because of the deterioration of his body. Another thing cases like this bring up is did we not fight hard enough for our child? Did we not love him as much as Hollie does because we let him go. It’s hard but our son died looking the same as he did when he went out that night not a shadow of his true self as I would imagine Archie looks like now…. And just to add this all happened on Christmas Eve as well just to add to the heartbreak…..
People claiming to have ocd because of being clean and organised make my blood boil ! I have ocd and it’s not just about cleaning (it can be ) I’m terrified of my house catching fire it stops me at times leaving the house because I can not stop checking all the plugs are off and no fire hazards are left ! And when I go out and smell fire I go straight home because I have a thing in my head that tells me it’s my house that’s on fire
Did she say 'execute' again ....
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