Hi, he said it didn't give him the cash.
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Could you ask the place for CCTV? So you know exactly what happened/feel reassured. My Nan was the same before but turned out it was early dementia signs unfortunately. Your dad may well not have this but if you saw the footage it might explain what went on
We all have moments like these I bet you can think of times you did something without thinking or knowing how something happened. It's more likely to happen with things we do on autopilot. I once walked away after taking my card and forgot to take the money. I was in my 30s I've never done it again.
Can you check his bank to see if money has left his account? Find out if he has actually withdrawn cash? The cashpoint acting up is a possibility, as is him making an error while using it.
You could keep a diary of any behaviour he displays that concerns you.
Thanks everyone for your replies, I spoke to mum and found out more detail and he was saying the machine was making a weird noise (you know when it is counting out the cash, but it sounded like something was wrong) - he would tend to get flustered by things, so it was probably to do with that. He will definitely be more careful in future.
Thank you for this - and oh definitely - me, mum and my other half have all done that same thing as you said too and there's been many other things I'm sure. A few weeks ago I totally forgot about an appointment I had made, just a complete lapse in memory.
Tried it- didn’t work
Can anybody please tell me wtf has bitten me and how to ease it? It’s absolutely killing (I gave birth 3 months ago and I’d rather go through that again right now 
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Ding doctorTried it- didn’t work
Horsefly maybe?Can anybody please tell me wtf has bitten me and how to ease it? It’s absolutely killing (I gave birth 3 months ago and I’d rather go through that again right now
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Could it have been a wasp/bee sting? You can get cream for bites to stop the itching or calomine lotion. Piriton can help tooCan anybody please tell me wtf has bitten me and how to ease it? It’s absolutely killing (I gave birth 3 months ago and I’d rather go through that again right now
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I often blame my mum, who’s memory isn’t the best, for things only to later realise it was actually my mistake or she was correct and I just assumed.
couod the machine have swallowed his card and not given the cash because he actually put a different, wrong card in? I don’t know if it works like that but it would explain it. Did he have any other cards on him that he could have used by mistake?
I often blame my mum, who’s memory isn’t the best, for things only to later realise it was actually my mistake or she was correct and I just assumed.
Whatever it is put a plaster over the bite because other things that bite bloody love an open would to go in again. The amount of times I’ve become an all you can eat buffet for bitey things I cannot tell you.Can anybody please tell me wtf has bitten me and how to ease it? It’s absolutely killing (I gave birth 3 months ago and I’d rather go through that again right now
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I truly wouldn't worry overly at the moment It's such an autopilot type of thing that I doubt it's indicative of anything. Is he worried about anything at the moment, enough that it could be distracting his thoughts?
Thank you both! He was talking more about it this evening and feels very silly. He realises he took the card. He was waiting for the drawer bit to open with the money and it didn’t but kept making strange noises, so it seems he took the card automatically while not looking.
Thanks for chatting this through with me everyone - I’m just such a worrier about my parents. Dad’s sister has dementia and the thought of the same thing happening terrifies me. I don’t even like to say that or think it.
My grandmother had dementia so I understand your concern. My parents are in their 70's too and it's something I worry about a lot (and I know they do too).
I came to say this - I once put a LOYALTY card in a bank machine and didn’t realise until it finished whirring
My dad is showing similar signs so I totally understand how worrying it is- according to my mum (ex GP) there’s a decrease in something which leads to an increase in brain fog etc around that age in men. However do keep monitoring it because it’s when they repeat the same thing over and over that you should worry. If it would settle you definitely contact the bank and ask for CCTV
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Robe - ideally a towelling one that feels like one you get at the spa?
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Jumpers - any recommendations for soft jumpers? Possibly cashmere or merino wool?
Trousers - comfy stylish trousers that are not jeans?
Coat - something warm and waterproof that won't make me look frumpy
PJ's - a top and trouser bottom set that is really soft and comfy
Robe - ideally a towelling one that feels like one you get at the spa?
Trainers - what trainers is everyone wearing these days? Ideally would want something that goes with most jeans/leggings etc
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Jumpers - any recommendations for soft jumpers? Possibly cashmere or merino wool?
Trousers - comfy stylish trousers that are not jeans?
Coat - something warm and waterproof that won't make me look frumpy
PJ's - a top and trouser bottom set that is really soft and comfy
Robe - ideally a towelling one that feels like one you get at the spa?
Trainers - what trainers is everyone wearing these days? Ideally would want something that goes with most jeans/leggings etc
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Jumpers - any recommendations for soft jumpers? Possibly cashmere or merino wool?
Trousers - comfy stylish trousers that are not jeans?
Coat - something warm and waterproof that won't make me look frumpy
PJ's - a top and trouser bottom set that is really soft and comfy
Robe - ideally a towelling one that feels like one you get at the spa?
Trainers - what trainers is everyone wearing these days? Ideally would want something that goes with most jeans/leggings etc
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Jumpers - any recommendations for soft jumpers? Possibly cashmere or merino wool?
Trousers - comfy stylish trousers that are not jeans?
Coat - something warm and waterproof that won't make me look frumpy
PJ's - a top and trouser bottom set that is really soft and comfy
Robe - ideally a towelling one that feels like one you get at the spa?
Trainers - what trainers is everyone wearing these days? Ideally would want something that goes with most jeans/leggings etc
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Also I’m 33!
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