Not really a "problem" but after some ideas. Apart from a meal out, cinema or going for a walk what is there to do for adults? I love all those three I mentioned but looking at doing something a bit different to break it up
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We’ve done:
Pool hall
Bowling
Arcades
Pottery painting/mug painting
Archery
History tours/museums
Crazy golf
Bowling, ice skating, outdoor picnic, zoo, brunch, sky bar, outdoor cinema something a bit different, painting pottery, seen people doing alphabet dating trend atm eg a arcade, b bowling, c cinema etc
Have a look on groupon and wowcher, too. We also have a national trust pass and map out our weekends around that as it’s just petrol money.
What about the theatre rather than cinema?
Spa day
Casino or bingo
Escape room
Fencing, archery , clay pigeon shooting
The races
Art galleries
The pub
Pub quiz
Not a problem but I didn't want to create a new thread just to ask this silly question... how would you describe this hair colour to your hairdresser? What sort of shade is it? Are there also highlights/low-lights/something else? It's not a million miles away from my own colour so I think it would be achievable. I get a warmish blonde colour done with a few highlights, and my own natural colour is much the same as Blake's roots/eyebrows - but I'd like to know the correct way to describe what I would like alongside showing this picture. Thank you in advance!
I imagine the picture will be enough
not sure what colour it is but surely you don’t need to say what it is as well as show them?Maybe honey as a base colour? It’s kinda beach blonde hair lights too. To be fair, her hair is iconic, I’m sure the hairdresser will know exactly what you’re talking about.
I imagine the picture will be enough
Thank you both! You're right, I should be fine with just showing the photo
I just want to be sure that I'll get what I want, as there have been times in the past where I feel the colour I got was nice but not really like the photo I showed or exactly what I had in mind.
I'd imagine the hairdresser will know, it actually looks exactly like mine but I've never dyed my hair, it may just be one colour, just the way it's pinned up an the lighting could be making it look that little bit darker underneath and on top, mine tends to go like that when it's being tied back an I've used a little bit of hairspray
It looks a little red undertoned on my phone so make sure you say if you don’t want that.
Right I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
you are not over reacting, absolute creep bag. I would confront herRight I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
Is she blonde by any chance?Right I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
iykyk
Definitely not, I’d be equally just as annoyed. That’s extremely strange behaviour, especially as she’s older you’d think she would be mature enough to move on after all these yearsRight I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
You’re not overreacting but the only power she has is in your own reaction. If you didn’t know/care it’d devalue what she’s doing. I know it’s easier said than done, she’s antagonising, but she clearly has some serious issues. She could keep making infinite fake accounts whereas if you act like you don’t know or care by not reporting or acknowledging them, she doesn’t benefit from it.Right I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
Where is she getting her information from? Are all your socials locked down? You can’t do anything about her using your photos if they’re in the public arena, but if she crosses into identity theft or impersonation with intent to defraud it’s a crime. If she is using the cane business page to slander you and your business that too would be a crime.
Omg she is a looooserrr!! Totally a valid reason to be upset. She needs to move onRight I am proper getting to the end of my tether and need some stranger advice- me and my partner have been together well over 2 years, and when we got together there was an ex (who may I add broke up with him) who kept trying to get involved with him again as she was jealous (we assumed). This said ex is about 3/4 years older than me, and a couple years older than my other half, and was making tiktoks about me "taking her man" as well as cutting her hair to the same style as me, and copying things I posted on instagram.
Fast forward 2 years, a random fake tinder profile of my boyfriend has been made (we knew it was local as one of my friends who lives close saw it, and the distance was close!) and a fake account of one of my business profiles had been made which seemed very coincidental. I have now found out she has made a new business doing what I do as a side hustle (I have all the correct experience and qualifications may I add whereas she doesnt) and I am a little bit pissed as I feel this is all very aimed.
Do I have the right to be pissed off / angry that someone who has been out of my boyfriends life for 3 years, and who is a lot older than me is still trying to get involved/ annoy us? Or am I overreacting?
Thank you
Is she blonde by any chance?
iykyk
I've not reacted other than blocking her so she doesnt see anything I do - my personal social media is all locked anyway as I don't like people knowing my private life lol, but my two business pages are obviously open, and I know one of her friends also has an issue with me so can only assume she is in on this too. I try to stay out of drama a fair bit, but I am one of those people that will be quiet until something has seriously pissed me off and the fact that this is now another thing to add to the list I'm seriously getting there
PS shes not blonde
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