Talia Oatway & Aaron Chalmers #43 Aaron’s thrown in the towel, Jodie’s got a sitter and is out on the prowl

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Aaron’s a flop, he’s threw in the towel..
whilst Jodie’s got a sitter and out on the prowl.

Short recap

Aaron got leathered by Idris and as if that wasn't enough, he then went on to twitter and got leathered some more. Oh but that wasn't him, that was his management 🤥

Jodie had her tits done because it was a life or death situation so of course they had to be prioritised over her hospitalised medically complex situation. She's such a warrior 🥺

Oakley was finally discharged from hospital much to the dismay of his mother. But fear not, he's back in now following more medical neglect and playing Russian roulette with his life.
 
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I would like to clarify my comments re Siennah’s teeth weren’t directed at Siennah and I’m not even sure how anyone could have assumed that given I had specifically called Talia a scummy bleep. Her teeth are awful-it’s a fact, but it’s not the child’s fault. I had awful teeth as a child because my mother never enforced brushing them and let me drink as much coke as I could physically drink; I remember other kids commenting on my ‘yellow teeth’ when I was 8/9… My mother, like Talia, believed merely keeping me alive made her a good parent. And like Talia, my mother spoiled me with anything I ever asked for. As soon as I was old enough I paid for a brace and had my teeth whitened & properly shaped (no composite or veneers for me lol) Talia is too busy taking care of Talia to give a tit about her kids mental & physical wellbeing, she’s a narc. But don’t come at me accusing me of bullying a child when it’s far from the truth and thank u to those who actually seen what I was saying.

Re the carer - Is it not likely that she’s reporting everything back to social services and Talia is just too dumb to even realize this is a part of her assessment to see if she’s a fit & capable mother? Talia’s just thrilled to have a 12 hour babysitter and no begrudged hospital visits, there’s no way the carer isn’t reporting to someone about what Talia actually does when the carer is there-presumably some type of diary?

Also plot twist: Tanya dislikes Talia and is just using her for free lunches and is deliberately butchering her face to make her as ugly as possible. Girl looks like she’s in permanent anaphylactic shock solely confined to those overfilled sausages.
 
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Why does she look so thrilled her baby is back in hospital if she’d got him treatment when he started to become poorly it possibly wouldn’t have come to needing to be admitted!
 
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Why does she look so thrilled her baby is back in hospital if she’d got him treatment when he started to become poorly it possibly wouldn’t have come to needing to be admitted!
She didn't care he was poorly, maybe that was her plan. Any normal parent would of kept their poorly child home especially if they have complex medical needs, but not jodie not only did she take her sick child out she put other vulnerable people at risk, but as long as she's ok then it's fine
 
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No way they chest X-ray her !
she does not look poorly she isn’t struggling breathing so no reason to give her a chest x ray .

she’s such a liar 🤥
 
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She didn’t need a chest X-ray when she was sat in a restaurant tucking into plates full of lovely food did she !! Absolutely boils my piss she does !
 
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I think she loves when he's in hospital because he's looked after by doctors/sleeping, so she can sit around and get a break from him and all then other kids
 
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We should have done a poll on how long Oakley would be home before being admitted again, how long actually was it????
Whats so wrong is how we so called 'trolls' who mostly have no medical knowledge or a child with complex medical needs (yes a few I know do) but we have a Huge amount of common sense and would know immediately when Oakley 1st started being sick that he needed to go the the hospital, to his specialist consultant/team not out on lunch dates sat in a pram with the hood down, that is of course if he wasn't left at home with the carer, I wonder too if the carer said to her a few days ago to take him to the hosp??? She could have waited days and days before that little brain of hers thought about getting him looked at,but only for her feeling ill did she decide to see a Dr!!! This whole situation is crazy!!!
 
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We should have done a poll on how long Oakley would be home before being admitted again, how long actually was it????
Whats so wrong is how we so called 'trolls' who mostly have no medical knowledge or a child with complex medical needs (yes a few I know do) but we have a Huge amount of common sense and would know immediately when Oakley 1st started being sick that he needed to go the the hospital, to his specialist consultant/team not out on lunch dates sat in a pram with the hood down, that is of course if he wasn't left at home with the carer, I wonder too if the carer said to her a few days ago to take him to the hosp??? She could have waited days and days before that little brain of hers thought about getting him looked at,but only for her feeling ill did she decide to see a Dr!!! This whole situation is crazy!!!
Think he’s been home 2 weeks?

Edit- Okay so her grid post is 14th September so he’s literally been home 3 weeks today and he’s already been poorly once and now so poorly again he’s back in hospital. Poor baby deserves better :(
 
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We aren't even into full blown winter yet and no doubt Oakley will pick up a lot of bugs, hes been locked up for 6 months so not been exposed to normal illnesses, she needs to get use to the fact that he's going to be in and out of hospital the next few months, but she could also protect him and not take him to germ pits all the time or keep him home when he's poorly then he might get lucky and not need admitting, she didn't let him recover when ill and she has to put up with the consequences of her stupidity
 
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I think she took him out for these lunches and what ever else so she knew it would make him worse therefore leading to an admission. I genuinely think she didn’t want to take him on day 1 or 2 of the sickness because they might of been able to give him something to take at home. She’s waited knowing the longer she leaves him the more chance he’d end up staying in
 
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Oakley has an operation soon doesn't he? Bet she's tries to keep him in hospital until that and then she'll say he's too sick to come home even with 12hrs help and will push for a 24/7 carer. Sick witch.
 
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ALL SHE DOES IS MOAN 😴

me, me, me, me, me … what about poorly O?

I literally have to skip through her stories … she’s so boring & predictable 😴
 
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Just catching up from yesterday what the duck I have no words at all!

So her and Oakley are ill and she swans off for lunch you think it couldn’t get any worse but who the duck laughs at there medically complex child going back into hospital I’m actually mind blown and actually feeling upset about it, that little boy has such a sweet little sole yet he’s such a inconvenience to her😢 we all love abit ‘banter’ but that’s not it talia that’s sick and I mean actually twisted and vile!

Suppose the only good this about this is since she’s had social services involved she will have a family support worker who will visit her 1/2 times a fortnight and teach her essentially ‘how to parent’ and we can only pray that they are aware of her social media
 
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I can't believe what a drain on the nhs she is, the only reason she has a carer is because she doesn't want to change her lifestyle to care for Oakley. She still wants to be an insta mum getting her hair/nails/tits done. There is no reason she needs 12 hours a day help. She's already proven that, going for lunch how many times this week? I've one child and I can't remember the last time I had 'lunch with the girls'. She just doesn't want to put in the extra graft that thousands of family with medically complex kids do every day without a carer practically round the clock. No idea how she wangled that one, she really must have played up the can't cope card, but surely the carer is feeding all this back to the trust that she clearly can and is abusing the service? Also never seen someone so delighted that her child is in hospital, they way she kisses him and says I love you seems really unnatural for her too and just weird. Another drain on the nhs giving her a chest xray, you've got the cold love, you were out with your pal the day before, what an embarrassment, the staff at that hospital must be affronted by her.
 
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I don't know much about the carer situation and how it all works, so be kind 🙈

But... shouldn't the carer also have flagged, suggested, done something when Oakley was getting worse?

How much sway would a carer have with a medically complex child,who is poorly?

Don't get me wrong with this. Talia should have acted quicker as the mother
 
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I don't know much about the carer situation and how it all works, so be kind 🙈

But... shouldn't the carer also have flagged, suggested, done something when Oakley was getting worse?

How much sway would a carer have with a medically complex child,who is poorly?

Don't get me wrong with this. Talia should have acted quicker as the mother
The carer can advise that she should stay in with Oakley but she hasn’t got a say really. I can imagine Talia responding with “I’m a medical mummy and he’s my kid, I know what I’m doing” which is I actually do think she does. I think she’s done it on purpose to get him back hospital
 
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I don't know much about the carer situation and how it all works, so be kind 🙈

But... shouldn't the carer also have flagged, suggested, done something when Oakley was getting worse?

How much sway would a carer have with a medically complex child,who is poorly?

Don't get me wrong with this. Talia should have acted quicker as the mother
As far as I’m aware they can suggest but not enforce hospitalisation. No one can enforce you to stay/go to hospital unless you are detained under the mental health act then they can section you and enforce hospital. The carer probably told talia to go but she didn’t. Just like when she never went before until the community care worker mentioned to her a few times he needed to be seen
 
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