I know right Sorry if i were on a diet i wouldnāt expect my partner to just know what heās doing calorie wise
Glad itās not just me that said thisIād just be grateful someone was making me a meal š«
think the op needs to make her own meals from now on
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Hardly jumping down your throat. Just giving a very easy and reasonable suggestion to a problem. Make your own food in advance or if he insists on making it if youāre at work etc then he can make without adding extras like sauces (which I wouldnāt want someone to do anyway tbf!)Thanks to the two people who didnāt jump down my throat or make me feel like tit for venting my frustrations.
Itās hard to cook my own meals every single night when I work two jobs and am often on late shifts. I am appreciative for him doing this, I know not everyone has this privilege, but it doesnāt change how I feel.
Iāve had countless discussions with him about his use of calorific ingredients and being more mindful of what heās actually using. He agreed heād be more considerate and use healthier alternatives. Itās only when I saw him adding a tit tonne of oil to the pan (which we only have in the house for him to fry eggs with) to cook some chicken and asked why he wasnāt using the fry-lite we had purchased that he confessed he wasnāt being as conscious as he was saying he was.
Itās also hard to not eat the food heās prepped for me for lunch on the occasions he does do it when I donāt work anywhere near a shop and our canteen closes ridiculously early.
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