I don’t think anyone is debating that?We are all kind of projecting what we would like to do in her place. But that doesn’t mean she wants to or cares to do those thingsWe are all free to decide how to spends our lives after all, and if she wants to be lazy and not do anything, it’s her right
You know this isn’t a tribunal deciding on Jess’ future right? We all know our opinion will have no bearing on her life lol.We are all kind of projecting what we would like to do in her place. But that doesn’t mean she wants to or cares to do those thingsWe are all free to decide how to spends our lives after all, and if she wants to be lazy and not do anything, it’s her right
I’m stating my opinion, just as everyone else. No one is talking about this being a “tribunal”.You know this isn’t a tribunal deciding on Jess’ future right? We all know our opinion will have no bearing on her life lol.
You are missing the point. Of course it’s her right. It’s not projection at all. What I’m saying & I think others are saying is that she doesn’t seem happy. IMO post uni she seemed at a bit of a loss. I’ve no doubt YouTube is easy money but I’m not sure how much she enjoys it. She doesn’t reply to comments in general. Her videos are often late. She mainly films in two rooms.We are all kind of projecting what we would like to do in her place. But that doesn’t mean she wants to or cares to do those thingsWe are all free to decide how to spends our lives after all, and if she wants to be lazy and not do anything, it’s her right
I agree with you completely about all those things. I think she’s lost and depressed, but she’s also gotten incredibly lazy after she finished her degrees. It just annoys me that some posts are downplaying her pregnancy because they aren’t happy that she’s not doing XYZ instead of motherhood.You are missing the point. Of course it’s her right. It’s not projection at all. What I’m saying & I think others are saying is that she doesn’t seem happy. IMO post uni she seemed at a bit of a loss. I’ve no doubt YouTube is easy money but I’m not sure how much she enjoys it. She doesn’t reply to comments in general. Her videos are often late. She mainly films in two rooms.
I’m Jess was lying in a bath all day reading but grinning away, I’d still think she was lazy but if she seemed happy so be it.
IMO pre baby she didn’t seem happy, her house doesn’t appear to interest her that much, she seemed lacking in energy constantly, & recently she randomly started talking about studying science. Her energy was different in Edinburgh. Her energy around her girlfriends when she sees them is different. In both those situations & in the baby announcement she seems happy. Otherwise she seems a bit meh.
Motherhood is fantastic & she seems very happy. She doesnt have to be some career power woman but for her own sake I wish she’d do something that would give her a bit of a buzz. She has become quite lazy so I expect she may decide baby plus what she’s doing now is enough. But in ten years where will that leave her?!I agree with you completely about all those things. I think she’s lost and depressed, but she’s also gotten incredibly lazy after she finished her degrees. It just annoys me that some posts are downplaying her pregnancy because they aren’t happy that she’s not doing XYZ instead of motherhood.
I don’t feel that critical of her, I more feel a bit disappointed for her that she can’t get out of a rut. She’s had stresses recently but unfortunately life is horribleIn fairness to her about being happy, since leaving uni her auntie passed away with cancer, her father and step family moved to America and her mother was diagnosed with cancer, on top of everyone else’s unhappiness/anxiety of being in lockdown for most of the year. If we’re going to say she’s young to have a baby, I imagine that’s a lot for a young person to deal with.
Promise I have criticised her in the past in this thread, just never understood the argument she should go get a job, because most jobs are bloody awful.
Jess doesn't seem to want to follow the upper middle class route. She appears to want to appear edgy and cool. The multiple piercings and excessive (and ghastly sorry) tattoos. That doesn't scream upper middle class. I was surprised that she's having a baby. I would have thought she would go down the traditional route, but she doesn't seem to be doing much with her life. She's not career driven or anything. Having a baby is giving her something to do.I think it’s unplanned too. She’s pretty young to be having a planned baby, especially in the upper middle class circle she’s in. I thought she’d follow the traditional route of house, dog, marriage then baby at around 30.
She doesn’t appear driven by anything. She’s procrastinated on everything including her new house. The baby appears to have given her purpose.Jess doesn't seem to want to follow the upper middle class route. She appears to want to appear edgy and cool. The multiple piercings and excessive (and ghastly sorry) tattoos. That doesn't scream upper middle class. I was surprised that she's having a baby. I would have thought she would go down the traditional route, but she doesn't seem to be doing much with her life. She's not career driven or anything. Having a baby is giving her something to do.
Lol. Honestly though, would we have been able to guess without her major slip-up via Goodreads? Like, what were the other signs? She gained some weight and she mentioned feeling tired and sad. But like, I've gained weight and have been tired and sad lately too, cuz ya know 2020i was just watching her latest vlog and she mentioned she was pregnant again and wow guys like. we really did that. we really guessed that
Still catching up, but she is more likely to sprout wings and fly then study medicine, i doubt even with straight A's she be excepted. She could be s teacher but again, hard work even in a cushy private school.I think she just wants a purpose, and studying clearly made her happy
What was about the pumpkin? Sorry, I am not up to date with everything.Lol. Honestly though, would we have been able to guess without her major slip-up via Goodreads? Like, what were the other signs? She gained some weight and she mentioned feeling tired and sad. But like, I've gained weight and have been tired and sad lately too, cuz ya know 2020. And I'm definitely not pregnant lol. The pumpkin was one of the biggest giveaways for me, but that was likely only because I was already suspecting it so I was looking for clues at that point. I'm not sure if I would have seen it coming without the book situation.
What do you all think?
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