Strawberry Hayes (Charlie Hayes @thestrawberryhayes)

[daisy2809]

unfortunately I feel like you see this archetype far too often. being a young mum is almost advertised as an alternative career path these days, with ‘free money’ (ie UC) and a ‘free’ house being almost glamourised and flexed online. what motive is there to work or pay your own way? granted some people are housed in terrible conditions, but certainly in my area it’s big new build houses with big gardens. i’m very early twenties and I’d say 65% of the girls I went to school with are now single mums. these girls then have soo much time on their hands that they lead such turbulent and drama filled lives, to the detriment of their child/ren.

the point i’m making isn’t in any way intended to be classist or bigoted and I hope no one takes offence to it. my point is that so many children are now born to young, emotionally immature and generally ‘unready’ parents under the premise that they’ll receive a better life for having the child. of course everyone should be entitled to a roof over their head, but seeing people like Charlie having the audacity to try and pick and choose what she wants, and then flex it online is just crazy behaviour. I worry so much for the children born into these situations, and can only think that for many of them the cycle will just be perpetuated. it’s totally unfair for children to be mixed up in these lifestyles of instability

 

[Mrsburns]

Scrounging and crying when she put herself into that situation, yet it’s alright cos everyone else will pick up the pieces to your crappy life choices! Country is fucked and on its knees cos these people walk beside us!

 

[kinderbuenobaby]

unfortunately I feel like you see this archetype far too often. being a young mum is almost advertised as an alternative career path these days, with ‘free money’ (ie UC) and a ‘free’ house being almost glamourised and flexed online. what motive is there to work or pay your own way? granted some people are housed in terrible conditions, but certainly in my area it’s big new build houses with big gardens. i’m very early twenties and I’d say 65% of the girls I went to school with are now single mums. these girls then have soo much time on their hands that they lead such turbulent and drama filled lives, to the detriment of their child/ren.

i totally agree but if feels like you are still so poor unless you get additional money for disability or cash from baby dad. my friends brothers baby mum is like that - she wants him to go back to selling drugs to support her and her job less / benefit lifestyle (over being at uni) gross. but then if idiots will procreate i can’t see how it can be stopped

 

[LloydsBoosters]

Not safe for her to live at Sam’s but perfectly ok to go round for bubble baths, cups of tea, has the spare key so she can sit there today and wait for post, turn up whenever she wants to collect her items etc didn’t she need police escort to get her stuff a few days ago?

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A flight risk? For someone who uses so many words she’s so stupid lol. That isn’t what that means dear

Also, DV isn’t just being ‘battered’ (nice of her to use that term). You said yourself he was a gaslighter and manipulator. That is also abuse. Don’t backtrack now to fit your narrative.

 

[moonmam0f2]

Its sad people are commenting they are in a hotel or a room for months how did she get a flat so quickly and she's just being so smug about it

 

[tellmewhy]

Just to comment on the guarantor thing, the guarantor would have to agree to be the guarantor for you both. I’m sure her living there would have been against their tenancy agreement though as both adults legally have to be on the agreement, if she had defaults or ccj’s then they would probably refuse to rent to her even with a guarantor, assuming they got around it by pretending it was just Sam living there.

 

[Sazza25]

Its sad people are commenting they are in a hotel or a room for months how did she get a flat so quickly and she's just being so smug about it

So tasteless isn't it, I'm in a refuge duck knows how long till I can move

 

[potatopotato2988]

A flight risk? For someone who uses so many words she’s so stupid lol. That isn’t what that means dear

Also, DV isn’t just being ‘battered’ (nice of her to use that term). You said yourself he was a gaslighter and manipulator. That is also abuse. Don’t backtrack now to fit your narrative.

the backtracking I find very interesting. Because when Sam was texting her claiming it wa wasn’t DV because he never hit her, she was very quick to
Tell him what was what. Now people are saying it’s DV and because it doesn’t fit with her choices, she’s justifying that he didn’t hit her.

 

[goldie341]

Who the duck puts magnets on a microwave

 

[moonmam0f2]

Why isn't she getting UC???? She must be claiming it so would get something like £700 for both of them a month plus child benefit but acts like she has no money? Plus wages from her job. She said about paying the 2k but that was months ago. Or has this been touched on ?
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Who the duck puts magnets on a microwave

A they/them.

 

[goldie341]

A they/them.

Might have posted that in the wrong thread but valid point lmao

 

[casperon]

she will be getting UC now she’s paying rent
ofc she would never spend her own money
it will be through donations or uc

 

[Pandazdranagirlzz]

It's evident from the outset that their relationship lacks stability. She frequently invokes the homeless narrative, yet there appears to be a lack of decisive action. One might question why she hasn't chosen to depart from this situation. Although she asserts that they are no longer under the purview of social services due to her protective measures for her son, a thorough evaluation by any social worker would likely reveal the instability of their relationship, raising doubts about the effectiveness of her protective measures. Claims of domestic violence (DV), as evidenced in prior statements, should not be retracted or amended. Consistency and transparency are paramount in such matters. It's foreseeable that discrepancies in her narrative will become apparent to members of her Discord community in a matter of days, revealing the inconsistencies in her story.

 

[whoareyouu]

Tbh it sounds like Sam has been trying to get her out for years. She’s refused to go and now he’s finally snapped. I mean, how can he really move on fully with her there? No one would entertain him for a relationship. Could this be why he had arrears, was hoping they’d get evicted and then she would leave? I am just surmising.

I am sure he does care for J but ultimately he is not his responsibility.

 

[Pandazdranagirlzz]

Tbh it sounds like Sam has been trying to get her out for years. She’s refused to go and now he’s finally snapped. I mean, how can he really move on fully with her there? No one would entertain him for a relationship. Could this be why he had arrears, was hoping they’d get evicted and then she would leave? I am just summoning.

I am sure he does care for J but ultimately he is not his responsibility.

It seems like he's afraid to be apart from her, as if he's unfamiliar with anything else.

 

[elephant98]

It seems like he's afraid to be apart from her, as if he's unfamiliar with anything else.

I feel like Charlie manipulated Sam into her staying saying jasper wont have anywhere to go etc, definitely played the guilt trip card

 

[Renegade121]

When I was in her discord I got the vibes she wanted Sam when it suited her. When she wanted to get laid quick or whatever. They would break up and shed make it very clear she knew he'd take her back whenever she wanted

I do honestly think he was just so fed up he snapped

 

[Boblebob]

i totally agree but if feels like you are still so poor unless you get additional money for disability or cash from baby dad. my friends brothers baby mum is like that - she wants him to go back to selling drugs to support her and her job less / benefit lifestyle (over being at uni) gross. but then if idiots will procreate i can’t see how it can be stopped

She claims she has autism so probably gets pip. She is trying to get her so an autism diagnosis as well

 

[Emzykins]

Wonder how her first night in the flat of dreams went? Maybe she dreamt about how much storage she wishes she had

 

[Frankysaysrelax]

Wonder how her first night in the flat of dreams went? Maybe she dreamt about how much storage she wishes she had

Where is she gonna hang up all he clown outfits ?