I hate to say it but I used to have a huge amount of respect for pilots but now you just never know what they're thinking, and I know flying is the safest way to travel but if that were the case I personally believe planes would've been made safer decades ago. Just my personal opinion.
My husband is a pilot, and from my experience with him and our friends in the industry I feel like not enough is done to help pilots and their MH. They seem to live in fear of getting anything on their record, for eg, I feel that if they were feeling low they wouldn't dare have time off and ask for help. They would fear it would show up and be a red flag. But how is this right? They aren't getting the right support in that case. My husband is lucky and he hasn't suffered with his MH,and if he did ,he does have me to turn to and would support him. I'm a big advocate for men's MH and so I also keep an eye on the men around me as I feel they dont speak up as much. My husband for years worked for a well known family airline- one you've all probably travelled on, and they just don't seem to care about the pilots MH at all. Terrifying. He's now on a cargo airline and they are much better in their attitude to MH.
Before he left though, a young pilot who was 33 and recently married committed suicide whilst he was training to be captain. The poor soul didn't take anyone else with him...but imagine if his head did go there?? Again, terrifying. Why didn't he ask for help? Was he scared it would go against him in regards to becoming captain? Was there anyone he could talk to?
Another pilot in the same company killed his wife in an impulsuve act of rage and blamed it on alot of stress....these men (and women, but I beilive women open up more) can really suffer with their mental work loads and having a company and industry that doesn't seem to care is shocking.
Anyway, just my opinion- there may be lots if pilots out there who feel they've had help, but in my experience iv never seen it.