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Nobody would think it was fake if he hadn’t kept acting like billy big balls, pretending he doesn’t care and making jokes about faking suicide.
 
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Been there with a family member who has a personality disorder (not narcissistic personality, but alot of personality disorders are intertwined) infact still happens occasionally.
Watching that actually gave anxiety. Speaking through grinded teeth, eyes unfocused, unable to string a full sentance together.
I dont think it's an act and I think it's real.
Makes me feel sick because of what it brings back. So much more I could say on the subject from experience.
Anyone dealing with someone (family member etc) with personality disorders I'm here to talk.
I genuinely hope he gets help, and apart of that will be accepting punishment for behaviour.
I agree with all of this.

If you have had exposure to someone with mental health issues as serious as I think we are dealing with here, there are aspects of his behaviour in this video which are very triggering and cannot be faked.

I worry the only people here who are saying it’s fake are those who have not had exposure to someone in true free-fall or come down, or rock bottom.

I’d be very careful if I were people coming on here claiming that video is performance. You’d have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to have seen his rapid decline these last 2-3 days.
 
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I agree with all of this.

If you have had exposure to someone with mental health issues as serious as I think we are dealing with here, there are aspects of his behaviour in this video which are very triggering and cannot be faked.

I worry the only people here who are saying it’s fake are those who have not had exposure to someone in true free-fall or come down, or rock bottom.

I’d be very careful if I were people coming on here claiming that video is performance. You’d have to be deaf, dumb and blind not to have seen his rapid decline these last 2-3 days.
no ones saying he doesn’t have mental health problems infact we’re all saying the complete opposite. He made a very clear statement the other day about faking a suicide now forgive me for not having sympathy for a man who was just mocking suicide victims when I’ve lost not one but 2 family members to it.
 
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Does he think we’re morons? He literally told us he would do a fake video like this and now he’s done a fake video like this. I can’t stand it.....

Sounds like he’s setting up a defence of mental illness. Which I’m sure he has, but not to a point where voyeurism and revenge porn would be excusable.
“Defence on the basis of mental illness” in criminal matters is not as easy as you think it is. Trust me, it’s not. It actually needs to be of such a degree that he doesn’t understand the consequences of his actions. So no, mental health will not be able to be used in his defence here. You’ve watched too many movies from LA.

no ones saying he doesn’t have mental health problems infact we’re all saying the complete opposite. He made a very clear statement the other day about faking a suicide now forgive me for not having sympathy for a man who was just mocking suicide victims when I’ve lost not one but 2 family members to it.
Do you not think that the “clear statement the other day” was actually part of the whole mental health issue too? This guy hasn’t been making clear statements about anything in days. He actually needs help. Like, real help. Immediately. And I’m hoping help is there with him now.
 
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“Defence on the basis of mental illness” in criminal matters is not as easy as you think it is. Trust me, it’s not. It actually needs to be of such a degree that he doesn’t understand the consequences of his actions. So no, mental health will not be able to be used in his defence here. You’ve watched too many movies from LA.
No, I’m assuming that HE thinks he can do that. Because he’s watched too many movies and thinks he can get out of criminal behaviour by having a cry online.
 
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“Defence on the basis of mental illness” in criminal matters is not as easy as you think it is. Trust me, it’s not. It actually needs to be of such a degree that he doesn’t understand the consequences of his actions. So no, mental health will not be able to be used in his defence here. You’ve watched too many movies from LA.



Do you not think that the “clear statement the other day” was actually part of the whole mental health issue too? This guy hasn’t been making clear statements about anything in days. He actually needs help. Like, real help. Immediately. And I’m hoping help is there with him now.
I genuinely have no sympathy for him, he laughed and joked about flinging a rope around his neck then said he was stronger than that whilst there’s people out there grieving lost friends & family to suicide . Yes I hope he gets the help he needs but no I won’t feel sorry for him.
 
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I posted earlier in the thread to say he reminded me of someone I know in my family before they had a mental breakdown. The grandiose behaviour, acting invincible and then this....

I would say this is completely real, it is heartbreakingly real for anyone who has witnessed someone going through similar. My close family member went on like this for years before he got the help he needed, destroying all relationships in his life in the meantime. I have absolutely no doubt if he wasn’t sectioned when he was, he wouldn’t be here now.

What Bear has done is disgraceful. However he’s a human being with family and watching someone fall apart is just awful.
 
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Why the duck would you post a video like that? I feel like he’s on a come down
 
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It's a hard one because he clearly needs help. He just -has not helped matters mocking Georgia crying and breaking down, continuing to tell everyone how he's still getting with all these girls. How he's staying out there and living his best life not to mention antagonising Georgia by constantly gloating that he's got his seedy only fans back ! . Now it's all caught up with him and I imagine he's petrified as he has dug one almighty hole!! Im not surprised he's in the way he is, probably the drink and drugs don't help... Or his fool of brother who's with him egging him on!
 
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He’s an immature twit and thought he could handle it all - it’s obviously all taken it’s toll now. It also looks like his family aren’t speaking with him anymore (dad and brother unfollowed him).

Having said that, absolutely nobody should feel that suicide is the only way out. I sincerely hope he gets some help then addresses the allegations. He’s a young guy and he has so much time to redeem himself.

I genuinely have no sympathy for him, he laughed and joked about flinging a rope around his neck then said he was stronger than that whilst there’s people out there grieving lost friends & family to suicide . Yes I hope he gets the help he needs but no I won’t feel sorry for him.
 
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He’s an immature twit and thought he could handle it all - it’s obviously all taken it’s toll now. It also looks like his family aren’t speaking with him anymore (dad and brother unfollowed him).

Having said that, absolutely nobody should feel that suicide is the only way out. I sincerely hope he gets some help then addresses the allegations. He’s a young guy and he has so much time to redeem himself.
I can’t take him seriously after joking about suicide not so long ago
 
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I can’t believe what has happened the past week with it all. His behaviour is manic. Extreme highs and extreme lows. My father is much the same. I feel his management and family seriously need to stage an intervention and probably should have done long ago. His behaviour most of the time from what he openly posts on social media is disgusting and I do not like how he represents himself at all! However I would never wish him to be in this state. He needs to face the music sadly. Come back to England. Face up to what is going on and face his demons also
 
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Im no psychologists but his behaviour really does point towards Histrionic personality disorder. Or one very similar.


For his own safety and the safety of others he is physically around, he really does need help. Even if the video is “fake” and he’s sat laughing as soon as he stopped recording he still needs help. As faking something like that isn’t normal behaviour.

Everyone would have a lot more respect for him if he held his hands up and admitted his actions and is willing to face the consequences. (He probably never will, as he really does believe he’s done nothing wrong. & that is the most concerning thing)
 
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He’s an immature twit and thought he could handle it all - it’s obviously all taken it’s toll now. It also looks like his family aren’t speaking with him anymore (dad and brother unfollowed him).

Having said that, absolutely nobody should feel that suicide is the only way out. I sincerely hope he gets some help then addresses the allegations. He’s a young guy and he has so much time to redeem himself.
as I’ve said before I do not condone anyone giving any human abuse telling them to kill themself every single person who takes time out their day to go personally send him or any other human messages of abuse like that should be ashamed of themselves. As I said also I do hope he gets the help he needs, I’ve personally seen it all before from the big man act to the threatening suicide. He’s a grown man who needs to take responsibility for his actions that have put him in this position. Drugs and alcohol aren’t the answer to problems & he should go to rehab & therapy
 
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Why the duck would you post a video like that? I feel like he’s on a come down
Yep alcohol and drugs come down. Not going to lie when I’ve had a mad weekend and I’m hanging my emotions are all over the place. I hope he seeks help. He needs to apologise and come to England and sort this mess he created. He’s only done it to himself. I don’t wish ill on anyone. So he needs to do the right thing and come back. Go to rehab and face the music unfortunately
 
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as I’ve said before I do not condone anyone giving any human abuse telling them to kill themself every single person who takes time out their day to go personally send him or any other human messages of abuse like that should be ashamed of themselves. As I said also I do hope he gets the help he needs, I’ve personally seen it all before from the big man act to the threatening suicide. He’s a grown man who needs to take responsibility for his actions that have put him in this position. Drugs and alcohol aren’t the answer to problems & he should go to rehab & therapy
Me either no one should send those messages however he isn’t helping himself
 
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