Stephen Bear #2

[MrsD_89]

I thought tattle was brutal but Twitter is on another level I don’t use Twitter because I find it very toxic & negative (says me sitting on tattle threads we’re not terrible tho I don’t think) but he’s definitely not getting sympathy over there

what they saying I don’t use twitter

 

[CallingOutTheBs]

The way he was biting his hands and his eyes couldn’t focus, he’s either on something or he’s seriously unwell and has stopped taking his medication.

He’s on a mammoth comedown, I bet he’s been on the coke since he got there. No tears from his apparent crying, but his nose is blocked when he sniffs. I’ve got no sympathy I’m sorry, none at all. He said he was going to do this!

 

[Lollser73]

I can’t take him seriously after joking about suicide not so long ago

Exactly, I can't either, I lost my dad to suicide and I absolutely hate Bear for joking and mocking about it the other day, he sickens me to be honest!

 

[Mcjlxi]

Typical narcissistic behaviour.

100% it’s textbook

 

[Piff paff puff]

Didn't know he was on medication? IMO the video is real, his nose is blocked like when youve been crying a lot. Maybe this is how he is and he never showed it before, it would make sense if he's always so energetic and jokey then surely when he's sad then that must be amplified too? Hope someone's looking after him

 

[Henearne129]

He’s on a mammoth comedown, I bet he’s been on the coke since he got there. No tears from his apparent crying, but his nose is blocked when he sniffs. I’ve got no sympathy I’m sorry, none at all. He said he was going to do this!

Exactly this.
You can cry at the drop of a hat on a comedown. This is all it is. Someone needs to report him to the authorities in Dubai and get him sent away. He is pure evil.

 

[Pansypotts]

Nah I’m calling bull

 

[brunette-barbie]

Looks like he's deleted his stories. Not sure which thread I saw it on maybe Sean Pratt - but does anyone know the site where you can still view deleted stories?

 

[Henearne129]

Looks like he's deleted his stories. Not sure which thread I saw it on maybe Sean Pratt - but does anyone know the site where you can still view deleted stories?

What stories were there?

 

[Thankyouverymuch]

I genuinely don’t know how to feel about it. Half of me thinks it’s real & I would never wish anyone to be in that state, regardless to what they have done. And I hope he does get the help he needs. His brother is literally there with him so needs to step in now, get him the help, & get him home.

the other part of me has dealt with a narcissist that faked & lied about having cancer/serious kidney problems & then faked the suicide thing when I ended the relationship. There were no actual tears in that video & the biting could have been to stop him Laughing. I’ve had conversations of that exact nature sent directly to myself & turned out he was absolutely fine, was actually out socialising but telling me he was on a bridge. Bear literally said 2 days ago he would do something like this too? This is why I’m torn.

he clearly has got issues. I’ve thought that before all this. But is this purely because it’s all finally dawned on him what’s happening - no money, no job, likely no future jobs, a conviction, potential prison time & family/friends/public hating him. Is this him trying to excuse his behaviours? Give reasons? Make Georgia feel bad so she drops any case? Or is this genuinely a cry for help of a broken man? I really really don’t know but either way, he still needs professional help.
I dislike him, massively, but I also don’t wish him to harm himself.

This is exactly how I feel. Irrespective of if he’s faking it or not the guy clearly has some serious issues which need addressing. I’ve been rock bottom and it’d never cross my mind to film myself at my lowest point and I guess that’s what I’m struggling with but I appreciate everyone deals with things differently. Problem is because of his posts and behaviour of late people will 100% think it’s fake and attention seeking. I don’t like the guy and his behaviour of late is inexcusable but if this is real then I really hope he gets the help he needs and fast. It’s a really hard watch.
Where is his brother who is on hol with ?

 

[Itsmethatlikesamoan]

I’ll give him his dues he is a master of manipulation and a class act when it comes to narcissism all these folks still buying his tit even when he has already said he was going to fake a suicide are enabling him.. Once he has come down from the coke he’s obviously been sniffing all day the content will be removed by the morning... and he will be billy bullshitting about his new life in Dubai.

 

[righthererightnow]

TW suicide.

Absolutely shocked by that video and my heart goes out to anyone who has had suicide - or thoughts of suicide - affect their lives.

I have had two suicides in my family and truly nothing can prepare you for the aftermath. One was my uncle who had schizophrenia. Everyone is different, but schizophrenia is incredibly hard to medicate and control and unfortunately many people deteriorate rapidly, and it has one of the highest rates of suicide under any mental health illness. Hearing Bear mention the 'voices in his head' and meditation, just doesn't sit right with me. There is just no way you could drink and take drugs on schizophrenia medication. He 100% needs help but he shouldn't be making claims about things which are likely untrue / illnesses he doesn't have.

Dont really know what my point is. Just disturbed me and needed to vent.

 

[brunette-barbie]

Wasn't nice to watch, and if he's ill I hope he gets urgent help. Unfortunately he's either done too much gear or acting. Feel it's the former but in any case he needs to get urgent help and face up to his actions. He's probably tried blocking out what he's done with drink and drugs but it will always catch up on you.

 

[Slaykay]

Absolutely looks to be coming down, I do believe he has mental health issues that he needs to sort out but also as someone who works in mental health it’s not an excuse to be a complete year. The video looks fake to me, he’s coming down, feeling overwhelmed and sad possibly with the gravity of the situation, but I don’t condone and won’t be posting comments on his post. I have zero sympathy for the guy I just can’t, I think someone else mentioned the biting of the hand to me is probably trying to stop that stupid smirk. But I also don’t think anyone needs to comment hate on his posts, it’s only increasing his engagement anyway, literally making him money!
Also says he won’t take the medication but will happily suck down nangs. Taking medication doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong because you’ve decided you want better for yourself and those around you

 

[brunette-barbie]

Looks fake to me also - going on about voices in his head? Schizophrenia? Not buying it. Have friends with severe mental disorders, he's making a mockery of it. He does too much gear - this is what happens on a bad comedown.

 

[Tigger20]

Absolutely looks to be coming down, I do believe he has mental health issues that he needs to sort out but also as someone who works in mental health it’s not an excuse to be a complete year. The video looks fake to me, he’s coming down, feeling overwhelmed and sad possibly with the gravity of the situation, but I don’t condone and won’t be posting comments on his post. I have zero sympathy for the guy I just can’t, I think someone else mentioned the biting of the hand to me is probably trying to stop that stupid smirk. But I also don’t think anyone needs to comment hate on his posts, it’s only increasing his engagement anyway, literally making him money!
Also says he won’t take the medication but will happily suck down nangs. Taking medication doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong because you’ve decided you want better for yourself and those around you

You work in mental health and you make these kinds of comments? Yikes.

 

[brunette-barbie]

It's not 'yikes'. Maybe it's a cry for help and if so, someone needs to get to him urgently. But as someone who's seen more comedowns then hot dinners, and with mental health issues myself, I'd say she's not far off.

Wasn't bothered about his mental health when he was smashing MD and gear in his room in Marco Polo Ibiza around 2012 with your mixed race friend either were you Bear? Before your shift in Linekars.

 

[Henearne129]

You work in mental health and you make these kinds of comments? Yikes.

He’s a sex offender babe.

 

[brunette-barbie]

Think it's safe to say he's allegedly 'sex pest' and 'narcissist' though babe.

1. Don’t call me babe. I have no idea who you are and it’s patronising as duck.
2. He isn’t a sex offender until a court says otherwise.

I'm all for giving the benefit of the doubt and I don't judge. But if you've met the guy - which I assume you haven't - then maybe you'd take a different view. As I said, I've seen him in action so let's agree to disagree

1. Don’t call me babe. I have no idea who you are and it’s patronising as duck.
2. He isn’t a sex offender until a court says otherwise.


She could be right but if I, as any old person coming in to wherever it is she is provide those mental health services, were to receive that kind of judgement straight off the bat, that’s frightening.

Look, the guy is an absolute curd. If he has done what he has done then he needs to answer to the courts about it.

But half of his behaviour IS a mental health issue. Narc Personality Disorder is a diagnosable illness on the DSM. Lying about his mental health is a mental health issue in itself.

But the polarised “he’s lying vs he is unwell” rhetoric here (and no grey area in between) just shows how messed up our society is on mental health commentary.

 

[Tigger20]

Happy to call him a sex pest and narcissist alongside you, “honey” but narcissist personality disorder is actually a diagnosed mental health condition so it makes no sense for anyone to say “he is a narcissist, not mentally unwell”. He is mentally unwell by being a narcissist.