My sister was upset when she had a second boy and she has never fully bonded with him and he is a teen nowGender disappointment is a real thing.. my friend couldn’t speak when she found out she was having a 4th boy and had a cry. She adores her boys though.
I don't have problem with her having a preference. I do think sometimes that is a bit of a subconscious thing that you can't help.At the risk of being a devil's advocate, I want a girl. I've outright said it to everyone. I'd love whatever I had, of course, but I think it's natural to have a preference. My mum wanted a boy and yet we're the closest you can imagine and always have been; we're utterly best friends, but she always wanted a boy "to play cricket with dad" and hoped I would be one when she was pregnant. I'm not traumatised by that knowledge! Because once I existed she fell in love with me immediately regardless of of her preference. I hope Sophie would be the same. I want a girl, but if I had a little version of my partner running around that would be wonderful too!
Yeah it's the type of thing you can talk about with family and friends when you know their circumstances around fertility/childless and how those comments would be received.Oh yeah, I completely agree with that. And heck, even if she DOES feel that way, I think probably keeping it to yourself is probably for the best when you're an influencer or have any social media influence.
Totally agree. I thought the parents weren’t meant to know at the gender reveal, as part of the excitement for guests is seeing the parents’ reaction as well as whether the baby is a boy or girl.The reveal was pointless.. They already knew and no one looked interested.
Traditionally if you have a baby shower it's meant to be arranged for you - would someone do this for her?Totally agree. I thought the parents weren’t meant to know at the gender reveal, as part of the excitement for guests is seeing the parents’ reaction as well as whether the baby is a boy or girl.
Maybe I’m not very sentimental, but I wouldn’t drag my family and friends over for a gender reveal party. It looks like they got presents too, and she’ll have a baby shower too I bet, I think it’s asking too much of people.
They will probably have a baby shower as well closer to the timeTraditionally if you have a baby shower it's meant to be arranged for you - would someone do this for her?
I recon Mummy Belle and Sisters will be expected to, but it does seem like you could amalgamate the baby shower with gender reveal tbh.Traditionally if you have a baby shower it's meant to be arranged for you - would someone do this for her?
I think they're going to call him Sebastian.My thoughts are with sophie and Dave at this time.
you know the worst part, they can’t even call the kid chip.
I think FlynnI think they're going to call him Sebastian.
The apple didn't fall far from the tree.Sorry but why the heck would their grandma buy a girl’s outfit when they didn’t know the gender? Seems a bit stupid and impulsive
Used to wear big jeans like that in my grunge/emo phase when i was 14What the hell is wrong with his jeans?
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That Cheryl Whatshernamethisweek always wears her trousers like that. I've seen Victoria Beckham doing it too. I have no idea why, it's not a flattering look for anyone, whatever your shape or size.What the hell is wrong with his jeans?
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