That’s got to be one of us who is a secret journalistThe caption on this has finished me off
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That’s got to be one of us who is a secret journalistThe caption on this has finished me off
I quite agree, just wanted to clarify how I'd remembered itMy take (biased after having been through something similar but so be it) is that Boo should have had the foresight to take it offline if she wanted to offer her support.
Yep that’s my viewpoint too! xHonestly? I think he would be sick enough to pretend that he’s attempted to. As someone who’s had those thoughts and tendencies, I don’t think he has the thought process to actually do such a thing because he will never see what he’s done and doing as wrong and if anything, he would try and clear his name and make people feel guilty by blaming certain people for his ‘attempt’
Whatever happened, you aren't being dramatic. Any situation that you didn't 100% consent to is wrong. Even if you did consent to at the beginning and then felt hmm this doesn't feel right or you felt like you couldn't say no, it's all still wrong and shouldn't have happened to youThis talk is bringing up a time when something happened to me and I'm not sure if it was rape or coercion. I won't bring it up cos don't want to trigger anyone. But it was about 12 years ago and I still still dont whether what happened to me was wrong or if I'm being dramatic. I feel like it's a disservice to rape victims to say I was raped.
I don't know I'm waffling.
It really isn't black and white.
That man is so bleeping dodgyI'm sadly not suprised to see Stan Blade jumping in and doing a video accusing of Grace grooming apool...I think I've had enough internet for today
Incidents like this gets talked about all the time. I don’t think it would hinder an investigation they wouldn’t listen to these pages.Yeah like someone else has mentioned, the other place has banned all talk of Grace and the situation as they don’t want to hinder any investigations.
I’m not sure how a thread with opinions could do that. Is that something we should be doing too?
Also, graces tiktok has been banned. Looks like Paul and his minions are trying to silence her once again
Yeah I was thinking about that well known footballer - his case was all over the place before the trial so I don’t see how pages like ours could have any effectIncidents like this gets talked about all the time. I don’t think it would hinder an investigation they wouldn’t listen to these pages.
Why is his bar for accountability so low? As long as you act legally you are immune to any criticism about your behaviour?“Nothing I do is illegal” he 100% knew he was in the wrong when he wrote this. Absolutely vile.
Truly deluded. Most of the U.K. population is not on tik tok and even if they are, not all users know who he is. He lives in a different world.
You're not alone in those feelings. For a long time I thought I was just being dramatic or diminishing other people's traumatic experiences by labelling what happened to me as rape but I was wrong to think that.This talk is bringing up a time when something happened to me and I'm not sure if it was rape or coercion. I won't bring it up cos don't want to trigger anyone. But it was about 12 years ago and I still still dont whether what happened to me was wrong or if I'm being dramatic. I feel like it's a disservice to rape victims to say I was raped.
I don't know I'm waffling.
It really isn't black and white.
We're only referring to posts Grace has made publicly, which I think is fine.Yeah like someone else has mentioned, the other place has banned all talk of Grace and the situation as they don’t want to hinder any investigations.
I’m not sure how a thread with opinions could do that. Is that something we should be doing too?
Also, graces tiktok has been banned. Looks like Paul and his minions are trying to silence her once again
I don't think Paul quite understands morals and ethics.Why is his bar for accountability so low? As long as you act legally you are immune to any criticism about your behaviour?
What about morals/ethics etc? Honestly he’s so disgusting in so many ways.
Yeah it’s mad! Even children understand that right and wrong doesn’t just mean legal and illegal…I don't think Paul quite understands morals and ethics.
It's like he's only just realised that just because something is legal (like shouting hot chocky wocky at someone) doesn't mean it's a nice thing to do.
Exactly, as much as I’d like to see him get hanged by public court, I’d much rather he gets done by actual court and it doesn’t get jeopardised.We're only referring to posts Grace has made publicly, which I think is fine.
I do think we should be careful about speculating how/where/when it happened though. We know how easy it is for misinformation about Paul to spread and that could maybe be detrimental.
*TW*sorry if too controversial but was having this convo with some irl friends and interested to see what you guys think. do you reckon he’d ever commit the The Big Sleep™?
i personally think no but I know a lot of people have been ‘worried’ () in the past
My lovely, I raise my kids with this basic mantra - If it feels wrong TO you, then it is wrong FOR you. Only your perception of your experience can measure the harm caused. I'm going to take a guess that what happened to you still haunts you, therefore it crossed your safe boundary.This talk is bringing up a time when something happened to me and I'm not sure if it was rape or coercion. I won't bring it up cos don't want to trigger anyone. But it was about 12 years ago and I still still dont whether what happened to me was wrong or if I'm being dramatic. I feel like it's a disservice to rape victims to say I was raped.
I don't know I'm waffling.
It really isn't black and white.