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[Curiousior]

she always used to bug me with her ‘I can’t stand bad grammar or spelling’ and ‘ pride myself in being excellent with my 20 million degrees and amazing job in law!’ And she always misused ALTHOUGH. Example “everyone is different although” instead of though. Sounds silly but nothing grinds my gears more than a preachy grammar natzi who hasn’t got a clue themselves!!

The fact she puts speed free rather then speed really pisses me off petty i know

 

[sick of the liars & #ads]

Yep tell her she’s wrong! I’ve personally had a child in SCBU and also support parents with babies in NICU, they are different levels

I can’t believe this ridiculous thread.
I work in a hospital. We have to visit the neonatal unit. The neonatal ward is one thing and it encompasses NICU and SCBU under the one roof. In MY HOSPITAL. We all tend to call them same thing as when go there we are directed to which area we are needed. I’m pretty sure parents who are there wouldn’t really know the difference at first and in some hospitals the difference may be more obvious, ie bigger hospitals might have SCBU and NICU in different areas, even floors. Some hospitals may only have NICU as SCBU they ship out back home. Can we just shut this stupid nonsense thread down now please. It’s pathetic and embarrassing and everything Tattle is NOT meant to be.

 

[Coffeetrampbiatch]

What a fucking idiot

How dare can she not expect criticism. Being your personal journey/opinion doesn’t mean that you won’t upset people. If I said I fucking hate Liverpool FC, I wouldn’t expect everyone to sit there and take my word as bible. I definitely feel less of a bond with my daughter as I “had” to carry her for 42 weeks, if only she came earlier the struggle might have meant I loved her more (Sarcasm obvs) absolute bell end .

She’s absolutely ridiculous. Making out that she loves and appreciates her babies more because they were premature. Why would you decide to pit yourself against other mums like this ? The majority of Mums love their babies more than anything in the world, regardless of how hard their journey was to get there. I’ve got a friend who had IVF a couple of times before having her first, he was slightly early and had open heart surgery at a few months old and then against all odds she got pregnant again naturally, she doesn’t love or appreciate one over the other. They are both her babies and they are both just as precious. What an absolutely weird thing to say.

 

[Longjohnsilvers]

This isn't the place for politics.

 

[TJ90]

Is now really the time in her life to be posting an AD for jelly FFS

 

[Scousewife37]

So have I. I was in her slimming world group. Not a good group leader at all. No decent advice, took too long going around everyone’s losses for anything else, barely anyone got any time to talk to her past new members talk, (and no, not with more members than other people). Admittedly she was new to it but as a long standing member she must have known what makes a half decent meeting. She has put a lot of weight back on which she’ll blame on pregnancy but was back there pre pregnancy. While she was hiding away claiming to be losing in time for this summer, she just did the opposite. I’m a big girl, don’t get me wrong, I’ve lost and gained all back etc. I did not hide it or fib about it after acting like the biggest authority on slimming world and dieting. She’s just not a nice person in general. Thinks she’s cleverer and more righteous than anyone else.

 

[HereForTheLols_]

I think many people are forgetting here that Tory cuts happened (forcing us into a period of austerity) as a result of Labour being in power and significantly overspending between 1997 and 2007!
It’s incredibly uneducated and oversimplistic to suggest that austerity and poverty are the Tory’s fault when labour got us into this financial mess anyway and conservatives are trying to clear the horrendous debt labour have left us in. We are forced to pay back an overdraft that Labour seriously got us into and yet Labour want to cancel out all the money we’ve repaid by overspending now based on their manifestos!

 

[Wowwwwwwwww]

Everybody sucking her clit over coming back to SW calling her an iNsPirAtIoN. Boreeeeeeeeee offffffffffffffffffff!

 

[Theyallneedarealitycheck]

I had pnd and ptsd. Does it mean I’m a terrible parent then? No - mine was because I was so terrified that harm was going to come to my children that I stopped child #1 doing anything I perceived to be dangerous (some of these things I realise now were completely ridiculous) because as a parent it’s my job to keep them safe. Was it because I was wallowing in self pity Jen? Please tell me, I really need a sanctimonious new mum with no health care or early years professional credentials to tell me where I went wrong.

 

[Nattynoodoo]

I just want to see a pic of her I know that’s mean but I bet shes massive

 

[StrawberryCream]

I assume all the people commenting on her weight were size 8 throughout their whole pregnancy and ate nothing but fruit, vegetables and lean meats I’m not Jens biggest fan but I agree with the comments above she’s got 2 tiny babies fighting for their lives and god forbid anything happens to them and she has to read comments like this in the future knowing people were concerned about her ‘chins’ while she was sat in hospital terrified for them. Nobody deserves that no matter what you may think of them!

 

[Anotherct]

they can’t post ads because that’s cheating a living but if they post about something worthwhile it’ll also be scrutinised.

I’d rather her post about politics than an ad for pot noodle tbh

 

[MrsB76]

Wrong website if “don’t like it, fucking scroll by” is your mantra. Could say that about everyone posted about here then, no matter what their circumstances.
I never said she was posting for my benefit, in fact my point about her ego shows in fact she is posting for her own. No one can deny she has an ego.
I’ve said in a previous post that it’s a terrible thing to happen, but I stand by my opinion that a lot of terrible things happen to people daily, and those people don’t think about Instagram. Don’t like my opinion, scroll on by ....

Thing is, most people have a conscious. Even people on here, may be buried deep, but it’s there. If you notice, most people who originally posted on this thread have stopped.

That should tell you something.

 

[Queenie2019]

Wrong website if “don’t like it, fucking scroll by” is your mantra. Could say that about everyone posted about here then, no matter what their circumstances.
I never said she was posting for my benefit, in fact my point about her ego shows in fact she is posting for her own. No one can deny she has an ego.
I’ve said in a previous post that it’s a terrible thing to happen, but I stand by my opinion that a lot of terrible things happen to people daily, and those people don’t think about Instagram. Don’t like my opinion, scroll on by ....

That definitely says more about you as a person to be honest. There’s threads on here that get taken down if they get started eg - featheringtheemptynest because she has been through the unthinkable 3 years ago. So even ‘a site like this’ has a conscious.

You’ve obviously never been through anything remotely similar, so have no compassion whatsoever. Those babies are still fighting for heir lives regardless of how much time has passed.

But you keep being you

 

[little07miss]

I disagree with saying if you’re fat you’ll always be fat but I think it depends on how you arrived there.

My dad put on 3 stone,probably just a combo of portion size and retiring and not being as active. There was a big family wedding and he cut back on his portions and started going on the exercise bike and lost it - this was 10 years ago and he’s maintained. He’s 81 and likes to be trim. I think of this as your fopperholic school of gain/loss. He was fairly briefly fat as the result of his lifestyle in that time period and sorted it out.

Then you have the people like me and jsg. I’m at my fattest now and am in the overweight category,need to lose 2 stone and I’m currently working on it. I have done this literally my whole adult life because I am an emotional eater. I’m just too vain to allow it to go by a certain point. Food is my vice. We are the people who will most likely always struggle to maintain because it’s a mind problem rather than a food problem like my dad . He wasn’t eating because he was stressed or sad or because food was the biggest pleasure in his life. I binge eat and love the feeling of being stuffed.

Totally agree with this. People who have a blip and add on a big of weight will scale back and be back where they where and maintain it. Fopps is a perfect example, got a bit chunky once at uni 20 years ago and has been peddling it ever since.
JSG obvs has some deep rooted issues with food and yes you can lose the weight but unless you truly deal with the underlying cause the weight will eventually go back on.
Me and hubby always enjoy getting a bit chunky over christmas but by a few weeks into jan that extra half stone will be off.
It's the crazy SW that get my blood boiling. If you need to cut wraps up to make fake doritos or attempt to make haribo out of jelly and yogurt then you're not dealing with your food issues.

 

[instagramlifestyle]

Are you even a SW Instagrammer if you don't try to peddle those shite 10cal jellies to your followers??

 

[Fomohomo]

I lost loads on SW, the support wasn’t there when I hit target. I had no idea what I was doing. “Oh just have a few extra syns and see how it goes”. It slowly started creeping on again. Have dabbled with calorie counting, shakes, starving myself, laxatives, binging, restriction, burning off exactly what I consume, just eating soup, Atkins, one meal a day.... It really messed me up trying to get back to where I was. I’m ok now, a lot happier after seeking some help. I really really wish JSG would just own it, there’s SO many others in the same position as her. Most of the SW Insta people I follow have gained some of their weight back, speaks volumes. She just hid herself away like she was ashamed. Which in turn places shame on people like me who have also gained it back. Should I be hiding away too? Is this something I should be feeling bad about? It doesn’t need to be like that!!! She needs to stop looking back to who she used to be and look forward xx

I'm a classic tale of losing loads and gaining it back. its inevitable with dieting unfortunately. you cant maintain that plan once at target unless you starve yourself and have no life.

I had the pleasure of being passive aggressively being bitched about by her when I started to talk about the negative effects diet culture has had on myself and so many others. I gave all the scientific research and stats and yet was told I was greedy, the plan works if you stick to it etc etc.

you just have to be gracious and honest when your weight comes back on,you're only human and it happens no matter how hard you try. some people choose to hide it and ride on the coat tails of their past glories, maybe in time they will just accept how they are but the truth hurts and sometimes people doht have the capacity to accept that.

it's a shame because back in the day she was alright. insta fame can be a crappy double edged sword and far too many have fallen foul of the need to be publicly liked and worshipped and will keep up.a facade to keep that spotlight on them.

 

[Seththebunny]

Did I read right that she’s raising the babies vegan? I wonder if she has managed to with them being so premature

So she doesn’t want to post them online so they can make their own choice but she’s raising them vegan without a choice? Hmm

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

If ever anyone thought she was using her status and following as any more than a business and money making scheme that right there is your proof..

I doubt very much there’s a company in this country that would exercise their contractual rights for set advertising against a mother who has just given birth to two severely premature babies, so that’s all her choice.

Definitely in poor taste in my eyes and lacking any sort of authenticity.

 

[Cantstandspanj]

I always think the more people boast and gush ok social media, the more problems behind closed doors. I know from my friends the ones who are always posting declarations of love on Insta are the unhappiest and in the worst relationships, it's like they're trying to convince themselves their relationship is incredible. But the ones that are happy and contented rarely post. I know it's been a tough couple of months for them and what has happened to to them would have put strain on even the strongest relationship, that's why I think she's so full of shit.

She definitely is! I agree with everything said here about how false and odd it seems to constantly be making such public declarations of love!
My husband is amazing! He does lots rounds the house and all of the cooking when I am at work as I have a longer commute!
We are very happily married but I never talk about this on social media. In fact rarely mention him there!
However all that being said, I also had a baby round when JSG did. My husband is fab with our little girl most of the time. I do know I am very lucky, but let me tell you, there is also nothing like a baby to highlight how incompetent men can be at time’s and how the ‘little things’ are just so unknown and undetected by them! At several points over the last few months I’ve wanted to shove my husbands head in the oven, poison his coffee and several other ways to get rid of him from under my feet .
So what with them having had two babies I can only imagine this is doubly true for her so definitely refuse to believe her declarations of his perfection etc etc!