I read on here that he cheated with someone he met on Instagram. His girlfriend posted about it apparently (i didnt see it) and then they both left Instagram.
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Thank you. It’s difficult as I did lose a lot then gained it back. All that effort and it is just so hard to come to terms I got much healthier then completely ruined it all. Now I am back at risk, incredibly overweight and struggling to find the mindset but I’ll keep trying.
Used to love her, now she makes me cringe. Really rude aswell when you mention another brand
She has always been rude from what I remember.
Overpriced tat! She’s bringing out more stuff now like bottles etc because planners and slimming world in general are not popular anymore! As I said, I used to like her stuff. She was alot cheaper then. Then I posted about fox planning doing 50% off and getting a few diary’s and I got a message which she deleted straight away, but it showed in my notifications.. when I mentioned it to a few people on Instagram they said they same, and it’s not been the first time it’s been mentioned on how rude she is. Im sad Tory from fox planning stopped doing her planners etc and it’s more gifts now, would have loved her to be more successful than Charlotte and her p husband.
I was all for some of the small businesses but I just had to unfollow them all.
I used to like her but definitely think she’s one to watch. I remember her going to home bargains and raving about their £3.99 material caddy you could keep your planners in then next thing she’s bringing PP branded ones out acting like she’s just come up with a new invention! I also find it contradictory that she talks about booking holidays on a budget, money saving tips but then flogs planners for a tenner that you can get in home bargains for £1.99! I bought a food diary when I first started SW and the quality was tit, I’ll stick to the HB ones thanks.
What’s the tea on Charlottes hubby?
I never even used the free ones in the handbook so was definitely not buying anything.
So sorry you’re struggling with it
I would recommend separating “sorting your relationship with food” and “losing the weight” in your mind. Sorting your relationship with food is more important, and if you manage to do it it’s likely you will start to lose weight anyway. I recently had my ‘wake up call’ when I weighed myself and was heavier than when I was 9 months pregnant. SW allows me to overeats, and puts certain foods that I love on a pedestal so I end up binging on them.
I’ve been off it for a while now, and just eating little bits of what I fancy and here’s some examples of things I’ve been able to do in the last week:
- not choose a big chocolate chip muffin for breakfast from work, despite them being put on and free, because I had a big dinner the night before and didn’t feel particularly hungry.
- eating 3 slices of an oven pizza with salad when having a sharing meal with my family, despite there being loads of other sides and some leftovers, because I really fancied something fresh to go alongside it not just stodge
- Make massive portions but actually put some back because I’m full, rather than eating it all because I’ve given myself the calories/syns so I need to eat it to know what I’ve had.
- opened a bar of chocolate, had two squares, then put the rest back in the fridge
Old me would’ve taken the opportunity at being “off plan” and shovelled it all down anyway.
And I’m still overweight! But I know that I’m on the right track to feeling better around food. And in a year or so if I’m still at a weight that’s higher than I’d like to be, then I’ll start adding more veg so I naturally eat less of the higher calorie stuff, or maybe even will start exercising haha. But right now, healing my brain is so much more important.
overpriced, overhyped glorified pamphlets.
I do not understand why people feel they need a £45+ item to write down what they eat. They've liked my posts on the gram, made a few comments (clearly after a sale) but to be honest I'd rather stuff wasps up my a than give those horrendacunts a penny.
and to whoever asked why sw has never featured me, I'd be here all day explaining why. Top of the list would be image. I don't have the look they like to promote and I couldn't think of anything worse than being dressed by someone else to fit into the sw way of doing things. I've been accused of bullying by them because I recreated a picture beggy ben and a muller light so they pulled a feature on me that they had written up, but when I asked them why harry pickard is allowed to go around bullshitting people about his make believe 8 stone weight loss in slimming worlds name, they told me that "we cannot control what people put on their personal instagram accounts"..but they obviously monitor it as my case proves.
Very little diversity in that magazine.
Alot of pretty white women, a tiny mens section at the back, and never seen a heavily tatted, bearded man in there because that's obviously not the look they want...when that's what alot of us women swoon over, not going to lie, might sell more mags if they did
. Can't stand slimming world.
Glad people are now wising up.
sorry how much
£45 for a ‘food diary’ I don’t spend that on my annual diary! People seriously have this money to waste in the current climate? I’m doing something wrong!
Amen! Wonderful post, took me years to undo all the harm Slimming World did to my psyche.
It took me months just to wean myself off Frylight and now I am just starting to work on my relationship with food. It will be challenging for sure but I’m feeling positive.
Seen today another account I follow from back in the 2018 heyday of SW Insta has gained all her weight back…. Seems like you just can’t go from SW to trying to eat normally without piling it all back on and them some, to maintain long term without changing to calorie counting you would have to stick to plan forever and ever which is just unimaginable! Do I want to be remembered by my future grandchildren for my syn free Christmas dinners? I don’t bleeping think so
I agree. Personally as someone who did SW, lost a significant amount of weight and gained it all back, I don’t agree with shaming anyone for gaining weight; and I’m certainly not saying you are just to be clear, more a general point, as I had not addressed my own relationship with food. During lockdown I struggled and being someone who can gain weight rapidly it piled on. I was hiding away from the outside world and just allowed it to happen.Seen today another account I follow from back in the 2018 heyday of SW Insta has gained all her weight back…. Seems like you just can’t go from SW to trying to eat normally without piling it all back on and them some, to maintain long term without changing to calorie counting you would have to stick to plan forever and ever which is just unimaginable! Do I want to be remembered by my future grandchildren for my syn free Christmas dinners? I don’t bleeping think so
I now accept that the only way I would have maintained my weight loss was if I had stuck to the plan forever and frankly that isn’t living my best life. Now I’m trying to consider how I can address my relationship with food but I would ask that we all be kind and not shame anyone for weight gain no matter who they are.
Sorry to jump into me posting on your comment it just triggered me again following my more recent posts on here about my battles.
You’re right I totally wasn’t shaming them, I should have made that more clear. I actually really like the account in question she’s very honest.
Sorry I didn’t mean to trigger you, my point was that the SW plan just isn’t sustainable long term.
I’ve piled weight back on too and I totally hear you; it’s so difficult to find the right mindset and that mindset needs to be for being healthy not just to lose weight.
No apology needed this is an open forum I get that and I genuinely didn’t think you had shamed in your comment. I totally agree the SW plan is an utter failure in truly helping those who lose the weight especially in learning how to maintain whilst living a life without stupid restrictions. It was meant as a personal suggestion / request for everyone on here to consider when wishing to comment of weight gains. I would love to see this thread being focused on highlighting the failings of SW whilst being understanding of individuals struggles. Many of us on here struggle with mental health and/or eating disorders directly or indirectly caused by heath struggles and no one should feel ashamed.
It certainly feels like SW is crumbling just a little more than it was and consultants have turned their backs on it just as members have. The idea of setting up a community group to support each other that moves away from SW and has been mentioned on this thread recently is one I hope occurs more often.
It always amuses me when you see someone get really large again after they were so bleeping rude, preachy and condescending to others. People who rammed the plan down others throats, people who had no time for anyone who didn't have 100k followers, people who clearly lied about what they were eating, but became desperate for a sw mag feature and a spice code.... I just think HA! Karma hun 
not so full of yourself now are you!
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