I am so very sorry to hear thisI was married for almost 19 years to my late husband. He died suddenly in front of me and my daughter, who was 14 at the time. It was a massive shock. My daughter was so close to her dad; he would call her his shadow as she was always with him. I couldn't grieve because I was so worried for her and her wellbeing.
My husband was a widower himself and would say to me he would hate for me to be alone for the rest of my life as I have a lot of love to give. He found love with me so said if I met someone, he wouldn't have a problem.
I never, ever thought I would ever find love again, until 16 months later when I started a new job and me and my boss got on really well (it's a long, long story).
We've now been together almost 7 years next month.
But.............
I have terminal cancer. Was diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer which spread to my lungs and now has spread to my pelvis. I've been told I have months to live. I'm 49 and in a care home because I need care and support.
It breaks my heart because I won't be an elderly mum to my daughter. I fear missing her settling down, having children, living a good life.
It breaks my heart that me and boyfriend won't grow old together.
Daughter and me have spoken about my death. I just want her prepared for the worst. Unlike her dad, at least I know I will die at some point, so won't be such a shock to get the way her dad died.
Boyfriend has taken it hard as we both worked in security and saw how fit and active I was. Now I need a zimmer frame and wheelchair to get around.
But I try to remain positive, especially as care home is on lock down so I haven't seen them since March. I want to be alive when things get back to 'normal'.
But I feel this Simon fella exploits his poor son.
Sorry for long post.
That is pretty disgusting. Can’t believe I was every emotionally invested in this man,he sickens me now and I just feel so sorry for EthanHe’s put a post on Twitter saying my boy Ethan lost his mum. Remember Simon, she was also your wife!
Is she super religious do we think?It’s like he’s trying to erase the fact he was ever married to Gemma. I feel so sorry for her family and of course Ethan. She was his wife before she was the mother of his son. I think because he’s with his new partner he’s trying to act like she’s his first woman with him being so religious etc. Either way I want to punch him in the face for acting as though his wife was just his son’s mum.
He met her through church and there is a massive age gap. Wonder if they are waiting to have sex until they are married like he did with his first wife.I think his new bird is the daughter of a priest.
Yep, she’s the daughter of the minister at Simon’s (formerly Simon and Gemma’s) church. Did a few things to support him after Gemma’s death, and they fell in love (allegedly).I think his new bird is the daughter of a priest.
No doubt it, i expect that's why he's selling the house to raise some extra money.He sickens my arse. Smarmy!
does he have a real job yet?
I reckon I can put my (wedding) finger on it... Re-booked for next year with more than 30 guests perhaps?I’m convinced they are at least engaged, notice her left hand is allllllllways covered! Did anyone see the car boot sale they did the other week? She had the sleeve pulled completely over her hand. The story is in his highlights somewhere, can’t remember which one. Also, wonder what Derrina was supposed to be up to this weekend? He put a story up saying it was her big day and it would happen again next year or something along those lines. I’m not bashing the fact he has moved on at all but I just feel like there’s something a bit off the whole situationcan’t put my finger on it
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