Selfloveliv #2

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Just seen the ‘pigeonholed’ stories. Completely agree with others who have said that she’s put herself in a box, and to be fair to Liv she does seem to recognise that. I think people tend to follow different accounts for different things. People probably follow her for her MH content because she’s willing to show herself when she’s really low & talk about aspects of MH that other influencers might avoid. Her home & lifestyle content is a bit more of an acquired taste, as is her fashion & makeup, and I can’t imagine any of it being the main reason anyone is following her. There are loads of other accounts I’d personally look at for that sort of content before I thought of Liv. It’s her account & she should be posting whatever she wants on there, but she might have to just accept that moving away from MH could mean losing interest from people who are only following her for that.
To be honest I think you’re totally right. I came across her page and (initially) found her openness about mental health and body positivity to be quite refreshing. That was how she positioned herself and that was the demographic she was going for. As times passed I’ve realised that actually, she’s not doing much for me and probably many others any more, as she dips in and out of the self love stance and (seems) to only open up about her mental health when she’s not getting the engagement she needs. I, like most other people my age (30🤢😂) have go to accounts for lifestyle, home decor and fashion - and while liv clearly enjoys posting about these things, I wouldn’t say that it’s her area of expertise. Her clothing line is expensive for what it is, and likely out of budget for a large chunk of her followers. I don’t personally like her hair and makeup choices, and everyone is obviously entitled to their own opinions on that. She started her page as a mental health community, grew her followers based on that, and is clearly trying to branch out but just isn’t getting it right. She’s put herself in the box, nobody else is to blame for that. I’m sure it does make her sad and drained but when you choose the influencer life you need a thick skin and I just don’t think she’s cut out for it personally 🤷🏼‍♀️
 
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Wonder if she has congratulated the winner of the influencer of the year award.
How long till we get a sad post about not feeling good enough or whatever
 
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I love all her Halloween stuff, I’m really into cute wee mugs and stuff and obsessed with candles. So her home decor could be good. She needs to find out what she really loves to talk about and do and could thrive. She puts too much pressure on herself to cover everything when she doesn’t need to.
 
Says she doesn’t wanna be the “mental health girl” but her stories haven’t actually moved away from that
 
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Says she doesn’t wanna be the “mental health girl” but her stories haven’t actually moved away from that
She won't move away from that because she often likes the attention through her crying stories. Also she wouldn't be able to mirror her idol Demi Lovato if she didn't talk about mental health
 
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That's all her stories have been about since she said it, make your mind up Liv!
Exactly!! She obviously reads here and though oh tit yeah. I don’t dress that great and not everyone is into my seasonal Halloween home. So let’s go back to mental health
 
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Back to the YouTube rit 🙄 why bother going back to something you cannot keep up with and cannot think of your own content for?! Oh and that you can’t edit and process for yourself either…. Poor James, all the tit he does for her career must be like having another job! He should def get paid for it. I don’t see why she doesn’t teach herself to use editing software and video programmes.
 
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Back to the YouTube rit 🙄 why bother going back to something you cannot keep up with and cannot think of your own content for?! Oh and that you can’t edit and process for yourself either…. Poor James, all the tit he does for her career must be like having another job! He should def get paid for it. I don’t see why she doesn’t teach herself to use editing software and video programmes.
Let’s be fair to her, she might not have enough time to do that, what with all her friends and her busy job…oh, wait.
 
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Sorry if anyone else has mentioned this and I haven’t seen it but does anyone else find it weird that her partner draws loads of half naked models? He obv follows them all on Insta and doesn’t follow any self love accounts etc. Seems a bit of a slap in the face to old Liv …
 
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James designs her pidge? So what does she do?
duck all!! Doesn't he edit her videos too? Liv, in all the time you have to spare please can you learn how to apply make up, that orange eyeshadow and blusher are awful
 
So she’s apparently lonely cos she has no friends.

That’s the thing with this Instagram malarkey, lots of followers mean Jack tit when you’ve got nothing meaningful. Sad.
 
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Less time on social media and more time making friends and enjoying her life?
 
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Find stuff like this quite odd and very patronising, but if it helps others then great. What I don’t understand is, on the clip she was saying she’s right there beside said person struggling, but then weeks ago was saying she can’t possibly be helping everyone that messages her and that it was quite overwhelming.

Stories like this will surely invite that kind of interaction?
 

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