I have been thinking all day about what I would decide if I were on the jury. After hearing all the evidence and listening to everyone’s input, I have changed what I stated previously. I know not everyone will agree with me, and some will think I’m mad and that’s fine, but hear me out I have thought long and hard about this.
SB - guilty of murder
FS- I’d find not guilty of all charges.
I do not believe that FS should be held accountable. I know she is her mum, and I felt so strongly on this before, but I really feel that it isn’t her fault. SB manipulated her, abused her and her child. I really don’t think FS had the mentality to stop her. I know I know, but people made reports to SS, she had her family etc etc, however, we have heard her compliance score, it is pretty dam high. Even if she had doubts, and others trying to pull her one way, she was compliant to SB and the women knew it. I believe SB could have convinced FS the sky was green if she tried hard enough. We know from SB’s evidence that she has complete confidence in her abilities to pull the wall over people’s eyes. I mean not many people would confidently try and convince a court of law that a video of them attacking a baby are those people being mistaken! It’s absolutely baffling.
Equally, FS’S IQ, I know people hate the analogy of comparing her to a nine year old or a child, however, I’d say her emotional intelligence and cognitive abilities is of that, the expert said as much, so why would we doubt him? I know children can have empathy, theory of mind, know right from wrong etc etc, however, these things would not occur in the circumstances of abuse so easily. FS went through a lot with SB I won’t list them we have read it, I can see how she wouldn’t of had a clue how to cope rationally. I fully believe even if she knew the extent of SB’s abuse (I don’t think she did) she wouldn’t have had the physical strength or mentality to stop it anyway. Because of her IQ and her compliance and the abuse.
I also know children can kill and be held accountable, I’ll give the example of Mary Bell (look her up if you havnt heard of her), she was found guilty of the lesser charge of manslaughter on the grounds of diminished responsibility and rightly so she was only 10 ( and her upbringing was particularly traumatic). However, there was another little girl with Mary that day one who was 3 years older! Aged 13 and who some say could have and should have stopped Mary. She knew she had already killed one little boy, and was there when Mary killed again. But this child (even though older than Mary), was acquitted, why because her IQ was low, she wasn’t a evil or a cruel child and at the end of the day she didn’t commit the murder and couldn’t have stopped Mary. Some say she should of spoken out, could have discouraged the second boy from playing with them KNOWING what Mary had previously done and wanting to do again. But she didn’t stop any of this because her mentality made her unable, she was sucked in by Mary, most probably scared and just didn’t fully understand and it was only later she spoke out after realising the gravity of the situation. I have never heard anything more of Norma, so I assume the jury were correct in their verdict for her acquittal. I to some extent liken FS to Norma (based on her cognitive abilities). I mean Norma actually KNEW Mary had killed a child previously, but she was still acquitted, it’s a pretty old case though and I’m not sure when ‘allowing a death of a child’ became a chargeable offence. Perhaps, it wasn’t around then and if it had been Norma would have been found guilty of that. Nevertheless, I don’t believe she reoffended or posed a direct threat to society, unlike Mary or SB. (It’s important to add though Mary was rehabilitated as far I know).
I know some will say, but FS was cruel and the evidence shows she was cruel, but with the examples of sleep deprivation and star standing at the wall, I do think she thought she was doing right at the time, as deluded as it is. I think she partly did it to please SB through compliance and partly because she genuinely thought it was the correct way to parent. Also the startling Star awake, whilst so so cruel, just demonstrates her childish mentality. I really don’t think FS is evil at all or knowingly or wanted to hurt her child.
I also know people are going to say, but what about the finger biting, the water dunking, the filming her falling ? However, again, there is a pattern with all of these things SB was around or encouraged it. I also know she didn’t seek medical help for star on numerous occasions. Why because SB told her not to, she thought about it we can see that. But SB did stop her. FS trusted her first aid training, I don’t doubt SB boasted about it on many occasions. We have seen in court how she loves to big her self up!
The only time I can pinpoint FS being cruel to star without SB’S influence was when she was in town with her mother. But this again can be explained away as being a frustrated parent and being unable to cope. It’s awful to think about, Star was in pain and not being difficult for any other reason, but FS didn’t know. I think she believed SB when she said she was ‘petting’ over her leg (why would SB be wrong, she knew all about children and was trained in first aid) . Moreover, each time she questioned it SB told her she was wrong. Yes she should have known her baby was in pain and injured, but her own mother didn’t even notice that day did she.
I won’t go into detail about her going out drinking, and having numerous people baby sit, or her other obvious less than ideal parenting choices. Because to me it doesn’t really amount to much. It Just reflects her inadequacies as a mother ( because of her lack of understanding) and doesn’t make her IMO evil or culpable for murder or for allowing the death of her child.
I fully believe she was incapable of knowing how to act in her dire situation. I believe each time she voiced her doubts she was made to feel even more stupid and inadequate, which just stunted her abilities further. She took SB’s word as gospel most of the time, because she was older , more worldly and intimidating. She convinced FS she had no idea how to parent, she removed her support network and isolated her. Yes she went to SB again after she had suspicions and even asked SB have star on her own again. However, by then I feel she was completely lost. She thought SB knew best and loved them, it’s ridiculous to an outsider with a higher IQ but FS didn’t have our knowledge or strength. She just couldn’t comprehend it. She doubted her self because SB made her doubt her self. Any self worth or confidence FS had by this point I believe was gone. She was starting to take notice but couldn’t quite join the dots. I think she was in denial. SB took everything from her and over such a short space of time. To me that fact alone speaks volumes. If SB had never been on scene Star would be here and that much to me is obvious.
SB is IMO a sadist and is fully guilty for the death of that beautiful baby. I hope she rots in prison for the rest of her life.
Please no one bite my head off, this is just the way I have come to understand the situation, and of course i could be completely wrong ! Equally, even though I don’t think she is guilty I think the jury will still convict FS for allowing the death of her child, I just don’t agree with it.very true, I've had first hand experience of a manipulative per