Sarah’s Day #38 Pushes belly out for the gram, no vax for the Tilse fam

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saltymcsaltface

Can anyone tell me about the change of baby name? I’ve gone back but can’t find when it was discussed. Did she say it in her stories?

I find that really off if she changed it because of the diagnosis, and also not making a fuss of the gender, I thought for sure it would be a massive thing she’d drag on for ages. It feels like she’s already treating him differently.
I have a child with a diagnosis and while sometimes they need that little something extra they also need to be treated just like their siblings most of the time.

The positive side of me hopes this brings her into the real world and she changes her outlook on life, it would actually be really amazing if she used her platform to promote the importance of inclusion for example. However it’s more likely she will just milk this for all it’s worth for years to come.
 
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convenientlyglutenfree


Long time lurker but DAMN you're a focking genius!!!!
 
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peridoe

The thing that gets me with all of this is Sarah's hatred of doctors and western medicine. No amount of holistic herbal tinctures, turmeric and Body Bloom is going to cure her baby's genetic abnormalities. She is going to have to listen to and trust a lot of healthcare workers going forward. She can't continue with her SOP of ignoring advice in favour of doing her own 'research'. Surely she realises this.

And about Kurt, from what you guys have said regarding his behaviour in that video (and his choice of words previously), it sounds like he's in deep denial about the situation. Like everything else in his life he's left everything up to Sarah. The decision to have a second baby, when to start trying and probably whether to keep* the baby or not.

*termination or not is ultimately down to the woman as it's her body but as a father he's entitled to an opinion on the matter. But judging by his flippant remarks about it being a Sarah problem suggests he really didn't care either way.
 
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fallingtides

Something that has really been eating at me is how she mentioned her doctor telling her (???) that she could essentially become a spokesperson for this disability. You can't have both - you can't make yourself the poster child for being a mother with a disabled child while also keeping the matter private and not letting the issue define your son.

Disabled people all over the spectrum deal with enough trying to establish themselves as a normal human being whose existence is far more than acting as some sort of inspiration porn for abled people and between sarah's ego and her evangelicalism i just feel so scared for this little boy. i hope my feelings are wrong and i do genuinely feel for sarah because this is such a hard thing, especially when you're someone who is already mentally ill (though in denial) and who has never faced any kind of real hardship before.

ALSO completely unrelated, but i'm wondering if her weird need to showcase her bump when recording exercise videos has anything to do with wanting those comments that are like "wow! i had so much trouble doing this and i'm not even pregnant " I do think she's always gotten off on feeling like shes still fitter and healthier than others despite pregnancy.
 
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carinsky

beanybeans said:
Ultimately, Sarah wants everything to be about her, so whatever this child has and however severe, we know she will play it to (what she sees as) her advantage. That's one of the saddest things about this situation
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i can already see it before my inner eye 🤌„So you guys won’t know because you only know when you have a disabled child AND a toddlah! 🤌🤌🤌 But going grocery shopping while being a boss mum is SO HARD. You won’t understand mihehehe “

 
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Yel

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So many try to smear tattle and there's nothing more tedious than someone that's only posted a couple of times flouncing and throwing vague unsubstantiated claims to disrupt.

https://giphy.com/DbfZalZydFUNW
Edit, sorry just seen that the person I quoted deleted their post, so removing my quote
 
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sissywerk

Winky said:
back on the day when she was living at mum and dads she used to eat sardines on paleo toast and crapped on about how delicious and healthy it was……she lied
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Okay but I really love sardines in tomato sauce on white toast with lots of butter
 
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lbwadoam

I guess I am one of those new members defending Sarah. I have been reading on here since her break, went back a couple of threads to get myself into the loop and only created my account when I felt I could add value to the discussion rather than just repeating other users. Is it against the rules to try add perspective?

In my opinion her way of handling her pregnancy and the SM aspect go hand in hand. Yes, there would have been much better ways to do the SM part, and yes, she did it in that typical Sez manner which led most users here originally. But to me she gets a free pass in the pregnancy related actions on SM, however arguable they may be, during the weeks of finding out about her unborn child’s disability. I think that’s what a lot of people mean, that anyone should get a free pass in her situation and this includes her SM presence, her break that was not a break and the pieces of information that she let leak (aka bait).
I do agree with @Whatthehell66 that someone else should have taken responsibility and stopped her from the manic IG activities .

I was absolutely thrilled to find this forum because I got so frustrated reading the comment section on Sarah’s IG and YT posts. Since I started reading it seemed to me like people started to nitpick on every single post instead of focusing on calling out on her BS. Do the long time members agree or is my perception wrong?
 
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Spanner14

Also this is the second sale in a few months, NO ONE WANTS TO BUY IT.
 
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raspberrysour

I like to see/hear different opinions. That’s how we learn, right?

I agree that there’s been a lot of nitpicking/reaching lately. Some of it is in good fun but some of it is a bit pathetic in my opinion.
 
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squishygrublife

I don’t think any anything justifies her behaviour on social media to be honest. It’s a sensitive, private subject and shouldn’t be drip fed on social media for millions of followers to speculate on. (This is aimed at the baiting not the recent YouTube video)
 
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Watermeloncracker

In regards to the nitpicking, I think it’s one of those things where someone has pissed you off so much, in so many big ways, that almost every little thing they do that is ‘wrong’ annoys you.
I dont mind that some people are on here defending Sarah, the different perspectives are good to have sometimes and I understand what your viewpoint is, and even agree to an extent.
I also really appreciate that you pointed out exactly what you disagreed with.
At the end of the day a lot of us with have differing opinions but I’m sure we all agree that we just hope that baby is born as healthy as possible, and lives a great life.
 
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smiths

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Kurt seemed like a dick. Like a little boy. Definitely not a man I'd want to lean on or want support from
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I thought this aswell... the very beginning of the video shit me when durt said "yep family first" with that smug grin and eye shit. Like come on... if it was family first neither of you would have behaved in the manner at with they did the whole time.
He was so distracted in that video... like a child and not a supporting brotherhusband
I appreciate they are going through a tough time. One which I would not wish upon myself or anyone else. But if they really thought family first... why did scuz specifically, continue to post or even announce in the beginning. She could have easily been emotional in private but NO she wanted the attention and always wanted to make it public for views etc.
Harsh as it is.. if there is something unfortunately wrong with the little bub - unlike the other comments I do not believe they are the right parents for it. Scuz shows constant neglect towards fox and not a maternal bone in her body.
The whe thing has been managed poorly by them and as parents and expecting parents they should be ashamed of themselves for even bringing it to the public and then trying to say they want privacy.
That's all
 
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Activated_Cashew_Bod

I think that these threads act as a focus group for the Sarahs Day Show. Sarah and Kurt ( lets be honest, mostly Sarah) decide what will be on the show and shared. We react and give our opinions based on our experiences, friends and family and seems our professions. Sarah has even taken information shared on here and brought it to the show, so it works. Sadly, not all the time and for the things that actually matter. From what I read, prior to the YT vid (which I did not watch) people had their opinions of what it would be about and if it would actually line up with the behaviour she's been displaying for weeks now. people were skeptical and maybe made some comments that were harsh. I know tho, once people on here watched it or read some great recaps ( bless you all) they expressed empathy for Sarah and her unborn baby. From what I saw, no one said anything and if they did, I think they would be checked real quick on here. That said, I think given the whiplash people have experienced from Sarah and her actions it's understandable for people to want to hold out a bit and see how this goes. One thing that Sarah has been consistent on, is being super inconsistent. Ok, rant over sorry. I am going to go drink my smoothie now and not one of those nasty, watery Tropeaka ones.
 
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peridoe

lbwadoam said:
But to me she gets a free pass in the pregnancy related actions on SM, however arguable they may be, during the weeks of finding out about her unborn child’s disability.
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I would have given her a free pass if she hadn't acted in a similar way (baiting something's wrong but wouldn't say what until the vlog) with her CIN3 diagnosis, only with that, she actually did take a few days off social media to process it.

Looking back at the current situation it appears to me that she was desperate to say what was happening but because she couldn't yet she just kept coming on her stories and dropping hints instead. She was telling us without telling us. Yes, perhaps that was her way of coping. But at the same time she should acknowledge (to herself) how that looked to everyone looking in who only had these crumbs to go on, and that her getting bitchy when fans naturally speculated wasn't fair. On one hand, it's no one's business but hers. On the other, she kept talking about it when she didn't have to.

There isn't a right or wrong way to cope with devestating news, but how you handle yourself afterwards is important. She dragged it out. Even after she came out the otherside and was back to "normal" on her stories and was making vlogs again, she still kept reminding everyone she was dealing with something. People were moving on. Tattle was moving on. But as soon as it looked like people were, she brought it up again. Of course we know this is because she had a vlog planned and needed to drum up hype for it.

This is the part I won't give her a free pass on because in the end it looked calculated. It still looks that way. If her baby has a good chance of being born with mild version of his condition (I hope that's the case) they didn't need to reveal anything as no one would have been any the wiser. But now it feels like she's setting things up to cash in on it later, especially with the line that doctors apparently said she should use her channel to promote her baby's condition.

She said she wanted to address the matter in a vlog and never talk about it again but I absolutely believe that will not be the case.
 
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TickledPink

Yes sure some posts are nitpicky. I myself nitpicked on here quite a bit. Yes this is a great place for informed discussions and openly talking about Sarah’s problematic behaviour without getting deleted or blocked or attacked by stans but it’s also a gossip forum where we pick on her a bit like her hand gestures, choice of outfits etc. Fine don’t agree don’t like it - SCROLL ON!

This woman is a narcissist she likes and needs the attention it feeds her ego. This is why she can’t stay of SM even during things that should stay private. She needs people to talk about her, send her sympathetic messages etc. People fall for her tears. I have a narcissist in my family and see the patterns in Sarah’s behaviour. They love tragedy and the attention that comes with it. Everyone will know about it they can’t keep it to themselves. Because validation and attention is everything.

My family member does the same thing like vague posting on Facebook and then people commenting “are you ok”? It is so calculated and gross.

No one needed to know any of this.
One of my friends kept her baby’s Down syndrome a secret until he was born because she feared people will judge her decision not to terminate.
Even this pregnancy Sarah could have kept it private (you’ve seen her belly trick?).

Just my opinion.
 
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Noinstafame

I’ve seen nothing but people being protective of Fox on here and wanting Sezzy and Dirt to do better and raise him better. And Abbey. Now all I see is sympathy for this poor lil Bub and hope that he is well and can live a fulfilling life. The fact that sezzy is a twat doesn’t disappear just cos this poor lil Bub has issues. Sarah is a public figure. Like any they are subject to opinion, and that is discussed here. It’s healthier discussion than a lot of other public figures are subjected to on other social media outlets.
 
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squishygrublife

You’ve expressed my feelings which I struggled to write
 
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