Sarah’s Day #38 Pushes belly out for the gram, no vax for the Tilse fam

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PinkTuna

And also, she already added too many details about baby's condition. She is fucked, I don't know why people are leaving these threads now and looking for a problem here - Sarah CHOSE to create a huge drama on social media. She could've kept it completely private. And don't tell me it's her coping mechanism. She's a grown up woman and if that's the way she "copes" with problems, she should start seeing a therapist, it'd benefit all of them.
 
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Itsahellahello

ret12 said:
I cannot believe some of the comments I have read on this board over the last 24 hours - absolutely sickening.
Really makes me question humankind.
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Any examples?
Are the comments as sickening as doing a photoshoot with devastating bushfires in the background? Or as sickening as appropriating someone’s culture and not being able to admit she made a mistake, instead silencing people of colour while creating a highlight on her instagram named BLM?
or is it as sickening as destroying and bullying a small business (hell, you probably were one of the lovely humans commenting SCAM on Sabi and Soul) over two pillows? Realising it was HER OWN MISTAKE (she had been refunded a month ago) and still deciding not to rectify and let her follow continue to bully a poor woman who did the right thing with her business.
I think it’s even more sickening the fact that she glamourises eating disorders, because it makes her rich to the point that she owns two houses in a very expensive neighbourhood. Even going to the length of photoshopping her body and selling a false image because people pay her to teach them to achieve her body.
The fact that the use words like faggot is pretty fucking sickening to me, don’t know about you. I guess if it’s someone white and rich then it’s ok to use it yes?
All I’ve seen in this thread is a reaction on her month long baiting, which has affected many woman who have gone through unspeakable pain. Had Sarah not been baiting, I can guarantee these news would’ve been taken with a lot more empathy than she deserves. And even knowing what we know of her, most people here have still managed to wish them well and praise the way she handled that video. She has been baiting things regarding the name, pointing out that the issue was to do with her and not Kurt. Of course people are gonna have an opinion, this is a gossip forum darl. As Sarah would say, if you don’t like it, please unfollow
 
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nbx512

ret12 said:
I cannot believe some of the comments I have read on this board over the last 24 hours - absolutely sickening.
Really makes me question humankind.
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Care to elaborate? Everyone seems measured in their responses, supportive of Sarah's decision, disappointed in Kurt and a bit critical of how it was initially handled given their claims for privacy and staying off-line.
 
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Maxibon

oh my god I am crying!!!!! I can not get over how good this is
 
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ActivatedAlmonds

ret12 said:
I cannot believe some of the comments I have read on this board over the last 24 hours - absolutely sickening.
Really makes me question humankind.
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Hey guys, posts like these are actually against Tattles rules so just report and ignore them. They’re clearly stans who have found this thread via their googling of what’s specifically wrong with Sarah’s pregnancy because that’s what she’s baited them to do (oh lord, the irony) so just report and the mods will sort it out soon enough.
 
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shaaanxosucks

Recap Remix
Na but forreal, this right here….
Let’s all not forget why we are here!!!!
Just because a horrible person is suffering, does that suddenly excuse all the horrible they have done ???? Shall we all just turn a blind eye now to everything because poor Sarah is having a hard time ??

This man brutally murdered 200 people but his mums got cancer so should we let him out of prison to say goodbye ???
fuck right off


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ActivatedAlmonds

I think someone mentioned this post earlier but I am sorry WHAT!!!! What. Is. This.
If you’re that pressed about showing collarbones at all times, don’t wear high necked tops.

 
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Whatthehell66

So I wasn’t going to comment my thoughts on her last video but after having some thought I just wanted to provide another perspective.

What has happened with their unborn child is horrible and I would not wish that upon anyone. Let’s class Sarah’s posts and stories on Insta as work. So I went through a traumatic experience last year where I was all over the shop emotionally and honestly in a manic state. (I did seek professional help) Now I overshared and jeopardised my job as my fiancé would not communicate with them on my behalf to explain what was happening. They ended up giving me a month off for mental health. Now in Sarah’s position I do think she was in the same manic and in shock state when she first found out. Why didn’t Kurt or anyone step in to control the situation. Change her Insta password or post on her behalf for awhile. Or atleast get her to a mental health professional.

While I sympathise with them I do believe if someone stepped in to help them they wouldn’t be in this position now.

This will either mature them both rapidly or will drive them further into anti-western medicine area and we will see a swift change to their online content. Only time will tell but I personally think Kurt was a pretty shitty husband.
 
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sslouise

I made this account in June 2020 and still show up as a new member. I think the member “status” must be related to posting/interaction. Maybe a lot of people who have never posted are coming out of the woodwork given the heavy nature of the topic.
 
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Mel.6

Woweeee some people acting like having a disabled child suddenly means you can't say anything bad about Sarah going through a tough time is never an excuse to be a shit person. It may explain some behaviours but it doesn't excuse.

I hope she accepts this kid as he is, and doesn't try to become some hollier than though saviour for raising a disabled kid. I also hope she doesn't force this kid to still be a stereotyped surf grom boy... or potentially even worse limit him because of his health issue.

Ps if the thread makes you uncomfortable you don't have to announce your departure, you can just go
 
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pippyforyou

This!

I would love for the next thread to be titled something super simple like “Sarahs day: why Sarah is problematic”, then the recap could be something like this. So the thread comes up easily when people search and the first post they see is something outlining all the shit she has done!

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Ps if the thread makes you uncomfortable you don't have to announce your departure, you can just go
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Especially when majority of the people were “new members” and never even entered the thread in the first place
 
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ActiVaTed_OrgAniC_TodDlaH

In the last thread I expressed how as an influencer she can’t just pick and choose what she shares. If she truly wants to be an influencer she needs to share everything within reason and not bait or gaslight. But I think there are a few exceptions to this now.
I find it strange that she would share that she and kurt have sex with fox asleep in the room yet sharing details that actually matter, she won’t share. I’m sorry but we don’t need to know about your sex life. And we also didn’t need to know about your child’s disability. These are the small exceptions.
I also think she shares to much of all the wrong things.

Someone said in the last thread that “she said she didn’t want this disability to define the child before it’s born, but here she is sharing the disability and already allowing it to define her baby”
I agree, although I’m not saying she can’t speak about her experience. But like others have said why couldn’t she take time completely off social media and comeback later and tell us.

Her decision to keep the baby or not is not the issue most people have. The issue is that she baited a serious topic and offended so many women struggling with conceiving, miscarriage and disabled children.
Sarah has the resources to raise a disabled child and many don’t. I can imagine they would’ve felt so upset by Sarah baiting when financially she is wealthy enough to receive therapy through what no doubt is hard time for her.

I feel like I kinda repeated myself a bit and didn’t make sense. But maybe to some it might make sense.
 
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MunchMel

Itsahellahello said:
The fact that the use words like faggot is pretty fucking sickening to me, don’t know about you. I guess if it’s someone white and rich then it’s ok to use it yes?
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Thank you. I find the scrabble incident one of the most revolting and sickening things I have ever seen from these two.
 
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password123456

Side note, it’s against the tattle rules to announce a departure.

This whole situation could have been handled so much better.

-We never needed to know she was going through this. That’s where privacy for her baby needed to start. She could have easily said that she was busy working on a project and baited that (business as usual).
I don’t understand why she started this drama in the first place.
-She could have done a cute gender reveal at home to Focks and Durt with balloons or whatever.
-Sarah picks and chooses how much she chooses to share, often over sharing and then often blasting her followers when they step over the imaginary line she draws on some days. I’m still annoyed at how rude she was to everyone asking if she was pregnant before she was pregnant. She was the person talking about. The most, leading followers to be interested. And then she ended up being pregnant.

Along with the long list of what she’s done before all of this that lead us to move away from her ‘influence’.
Sarah’s day is problematic.

Edit: activated organic toddlah said what I was trying to awkwardly say but better
 
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ActivatedAlmonds

I'm going to give this person the benefit of the doubt and assume she hasn't been reading the last page's discussion about how it's against the rules of this site to annouce you are leaving and just say this.
Aitmiswwi, if you don't want to engage in the conversation of the problematic behaviour of others then you do not have to and you do not need to announce your disengagement of it either. These threads have helped a lot of people realise things about the toxic social media they've been consuming and opened a dialogue between people who have suffered as a result of said media we've been fed our whole lives.
The reason many posters on here are "older" than you thought is probably because we've lived through the 90's and 2000s, the birth of internet and social media combined with the knowledge of how media influences women in particular (for example the pro ana movement on tumblr - what a horrific time) and then we see how absolutely fake influencers are online and put 2 and 2 together. Suicide and suicide attempts are at an all time high and amoung young girls, it's reported that the main cause is because of instagram.
Don't engage if you don't want to but conversations still need to be had when it comes to this BS.
 
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leiadeler

I honestly have been on this thread a lot more after finding out what’s wrong with their baby (I didn’t come in here much beforehand just occasionally because Sarah’s threads move very quickly). And I haven’t seen one person wishing harm or being gleeful regarding their unborn son’s health. So I’m not sure if members that are leaving this thread are referring to harsh comments in which I haven’t seen prior to their last video upload. In saying that, there’s nothing wrong with criticising Sarah’s actions despite the horrible situation they are facing now. As long as it is reasonable criticism then there’s no issue. And I don’t think anyone in here would ever stoop to the point of wishing anything harmful on their baby. I’ve seen all the comments saying how everyone hopes their baby is as healthy as possible and wishing them the best regarding his health. Sorry for the long rant.
 
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pippyforyou

Sorry, but when?
 
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Nodi504

@shaaanxosucks take notes for your next recap bae
 
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em2346

I did not see one “harsh” comment regarding Sarah or her unborn baby. People were commenting on how she went about it, which I agree. I think that she never needed to bring this to the internet and if she really needed to, she did NOT need to bait for weeks upon weeks about her delicate family issue. She posted a video of her crying and her toddler comforting her. She kept bringing it up at every chance she got. I think the comments people are making on this thread are justified. We all feel for her and we can understand the seriousness of the situation, but that doesn’t excuse ANY of her actions.

And if you’re going to stop reading the thread, no one needs to know. Not sure why everyone is announcing their departure. I have seen vile comments on Sarah’s Instagram but I haven’t seen any of the sort on here. So if you’re going to stop reading or participating, you don’t need to let everyone know….
 
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pippyforyou

Sorry but I’m calling BS on these posts saying tattlers are bullies and our comments are harsh. When I first found tattle, I was expecting a group of immature teenagers calling Sarah ugly. It is the opposite. The posts I’ve seen here addressing important issues such as sexism, homophobia, racism, ect, is amazing. More so than I’ve ever seen in my corporate job. Issues that not only Sarah would never use her platform to address/advocate for, but issues that Sarah actually contributes to.

The f*ggot scrabble incident, the cultural appropriation, racist remarks, body shaming, sexism, that is what’s wrong, not tattle. I have seen tattlers call our fellow tattlers if they ever over step the boundaries (there was recently an antisemetic joke made here that everyone shut down immediately).

The bullies aren’t tattlers, the bullies are Sarahs “fans”. The bullies are the ones that blindly bombarded Sabi and Soul, a small innocent business for a mistake Sarah made. The bullies are the ones commenting hate speech, fat shaming people. And the ultimate bully, and problematic queen is infact Sarah.
 
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