I think you are spot on. You can see from insta, she has no mind of her own. She follows all the trends and only does what insta tells her to. I think she felt like you have to get married and have children, I don't think she ever thought she could make a choice of doing what she wanted. I agree she would be much happier without the children. It comes across everything is a box ticking exercise. No genuine want or love is ever there. Particularly for poor L. I don't even think Rob is that into the kids. I think if Sarah had told him she didn't want any he would have gone with that. Again, he doesn't seem to have any opinions or thoughts of his own.You get the strange impression that thismamalife would be much happier if she wasn't a mama, don't you? I think she'd be happiest living back at home with her mum, having everything done for her.
I chose not to have children myself, so I definitely don't judge women who don't want or don't like children. But to have an Instagram account about mothering is rather odd for someone who seems to regard her kids as huge inconveniences.