Sarah Everard

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They don’t know but I’m guessing they feel as confident as they can without being 100% it is sadly her
I can't remember there ever being a situation where it's not turned out to be the body of the missing person in question.
 
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I’m not sure that’s the red flag. Her being Ukrainian surely makes no difference and meeting people online is so common nowadays. I’m very interested what role she had in the whole thing though.
I've wondered if it could be that she's lied about an alibi for him which has since been found to be false due to his car being seen etc, but who knows. I feel sorry for their children.

I feel sick at the whole thing but waiting to hear what has happened and what Sarah went through, whatever it is it is going to be horrific.
 
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I don’t know her but I feel so saddened by this.

I think it’s the pictures of her on the phone walking so innocently.

Also, a part of my Brain just wants the details to process this. I know that’s awful - but I want to do a “risk assessment” on this all.
 
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I can't remember there ever being a situation where it's not turned out to be the body of the missing person in question.
Yes same. I imagine the police wouldn’t want to release such information without being confident as I can’t even imagine how horrendous it would be to be told it was their body to then find out it wasn’t.
 
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I don’t know, remember that girl that went missing in Hull and was found in the Humber? The guy who did that was just driving round at night looking for a girl to grape / hurt and he saw her alone and really drunk so got her in his car. Maybe this guy was just on the lookout for a girl alone that night and she was the unlucky one.

I mean, it could well have more to it but it’s not impossible to think that it could have happened that way.
Yes people who are truly into this tit can and will do that. Even the guy who got done up north a couple years back for several counts of date grape, had a flat above/opposite a nightclub which he used his windows to identify drunk men he could go and befriend then drug. Many of the men he had assaulted didn’t even know due to the drugs - they were contacted by police from evidence he filmed on his phone.

this is what I wastrying to say I another post - that of course, we can and should take precautions, and of course, it’s horrifying how many woman have been assaulted. Howeverit will never change that in a population of millions there will be some rotten eggs/psychos/plain bad people and if that person goes looking for someone to hurt - then this is where wrong place wrong time comes in. Look at even some past famous killers. Didn’t Fred and rose west, I believe, they would go out driving looking for victims🤢
 
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Also, a part of my Brain just wants the details to process this. I know that’s awful - but I want to do a “risk assessment” on this all.
I think it's interesting but also very uncomfortable in a way that a bunch of people have pointed out that the area she was walking through was known to be rough so she was taking a bigger risk or something along those lines.
I don't agree as I imagine it's probably a common route for her, the fastest or the only one (plus very strong undertone for victim blaming) but it is this odd question of does it actually contribute to your risk? And if so, how can that be mitigated?
 
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This makes me think back to a situation where I was on a train and a man who was very clearly drunk was trying to make small talk with a female passenger, who wasn’t entertaining it. He started to get a bit nasty and a bit of name calling. I recognised his accent being from near where I am and struck up a ‘playful’ convo to take the heat off her. In hindsight, this was never taught to me, but in the area I grew up in you knew to humour a drunk man, not anger them.

Edit: I realise the context is very different, but more an example of how we are expected as women to modify our behaviour to keep ourselves safe.
Oh yes. I bet we have all experienced those men before - the ones that get nasty if you don’t entertain them. Massive problem in society
 
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I think it's interesting but also very uncomfortable in a way that a bunch of people have pointed out that the area she was walking through was known to be rough so she was taking a bigger risk or something along those lines.
I don't agree as I imagine it's probably a common route for her, the fastest or the only one (plus very strong undertone for victim blaming) but it is this odd question of does it actually contribute to your risk? And if so, how can that be mitigated?

I meant risk as in how dangerous is it to walk home after dark? Was it a one off incident? Can I trust a police officer who has a badge? Should I just stay in after 5pm?

What happened and what can we do to prevent it happening?

Was she the unlucky one that happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time or did he watch her beforehand?
 
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I used to live next to the road she was walking down, I wouldn't call it a rough area at all.

I don't want to police bash, but in recent days a lot of my friends have opened up about their experiences with Met officers and it is saddening and eye opening. I guess the truth of it is, many men are bad people who hate women, and police officers are perhaps no less likely to be than anyone else.
 
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I don’t think she should be blamed for walking home... at 9pm in a busy area.

From the info we know she was totally innocent.
 
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Just catching up this morning and feel physically ill. There a lot of vehicles moving on site and now they are bringing in portacabins?

This doesn't look to me like they found one single body. I hope I'm wrong but usually it's just a pathologist tent and then removal.

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I wouldn’t say it’s a rough area. It’s a busy road with a couple of council estates dotted down it. It wouldn’t cross my mind not to walk down it at 9pm. I would have done the same
 
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Just catching up this morning and feel physically ill. There a lot of vehicles moving on site and now they are bringing in portacabins?

This doesn't look to me like they found one single body. I hope I'm wrong but usually it's just a pathologist tent and then removal.

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Oh god - they do say these sorts of serial killers get careless later on because they want to get caught. It’s part of the buzz.
 
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I think it's interesting but also very uncomfortable in a way that a bunch of people have pointed out that the area she was walking through was known to be rough so she was taking a bigger risk or something along those lines.
I don't agree as I imagine it's probably a common route for her, the fastest or the only one (plus very strong undertone for victim blaming) but it is this odd question of does it actually contribute to your risk? And if so, how can that be mitigated?
Ive literally just made a post on insta about how this response disgusts me

I haven’t tbh kept up with the case, I don’t read the news too tough, haven’t been on Twitter in days. Everything on insta has been the same “type” of msg if you get me - all expressing sadness and horror and upholding the idea that womenshould be able towalk anywhere.
In fact I was getting confused why some of those last ones seemed to be quite loaded. I had no idea until coming on here that there is an actual debate going on and that anyone in their right mind has the audacity to respond to this news story with “BUT”s

that fact almost sickens me more than the story and depresses me more for sure. Because there will always be psychos Doing nasty things but what do you do when the general population responds like that?

and of course it’s the men cos If they don’t got nothing else they WILL. HAVE. THE. AUDACITY

where she was walking is fine.
 
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I think it's interesting but also very uncomfortable in a way that a bunch of people have pointed out that the area she was walking through was known to be rough so she was taking a bigger risk or something along those lines.
I don't agree as I imagine it's probably a common route for her, the fastest or the only one (plus very strong undertone for victim blaming) but it is this odd question of does it actually contribute to your risk? And if so, how can that be mitigated?
I think the bit that hits me the absolute most is what more could Sarah have done. She did everything we have been told to do, she was on the phone, she walked in well lit areas, she wore practical clothing and this still happened. What more could she or any of us do? (This isn’t saying anyone who doesn’t do these things deserve anything women should be allowed to walk alone wherever wearing whatever and doing whatever and not feel at risk of being abducted and murdered)
 
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Just catching up this morning and feel physically ill. There a lot of vehicles moving on site and now they are bringing in portacabins?

This doesn't look to me like they found one single body. I hope I'm wrong but usually it's just a pathologist tent and then removal.

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How many missing people is this man responsible for??
 
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Portlaoos, portakabins and floodlights have been installed. A truck carrying a diving team has also arrived. This is a BIG operation.

I saw someone saying they are questioning his brother, which according to the article I posted yesterday was/is also a police officer.
 
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Portlaoos, portakabins and floodlights have been installed. A truck carrying a diving team has also arrived. This is a BIG operation.
This sounds awful but if they've only found one 'part' of the remains then would they need a fairly big operation to find the rest of her remains? Hoping it's not going to be multiple victims :(
 
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It could just be possible that the body is so damaged that they need a bigger operation than a 'normal' body would?

I feel like the dots would have connected or starting to connect if other women had gone missing around the area tbh but who knows
 
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