Interesting to hear your perspective @anais750185 , I'm very much a layperson here.Any genuine psychologist would have been more interested in why Sali was so over engaged in this (I'd say her overweening narcissism and crippling insecurity which make a very toxic combination) rather than analysing our posts and ascribing personality types to us so I don't buy this for a second. Unless she consulted the resident psychologist at Grazia or Cosmo or whatever who would have had to give their services for free and would have told her whatever they thought she wanted to hear.
See we can do nuance and complexity! Can we be public intellectuals too, Mr Baddiel?I had completely forgotten about Being Boring. Thanks for reminding me @Aude (and Sali I guess).
she is likely still in character following her role in the Baddiel dramatisation. If anyone has a look at her socials it would be slightly off the - poor wee Sali - message to have the usualShe has gone quiet on the old IG hasn't she? No selling videos since early Nov.
And no toilet selfies.
I suspect it is to do with the Baddiel thing. No idea why.
In fact I have quite a lot in common, including a lifelong obsession with beauty and fashion and magazines. One of my earliest memories - poring over copies of Vogue in the public library - is very Sali-esque.I don't think I have ever deliberately listened to a Smiths song- I actually have 0 in common with Sali I think, in terms of taste in clothes, music etc. Even values - I don't think there is inherent value in the beauty industry. It's nice but important? Not really- it exists due to the insecurities of human beings, perpetuated by the industry itself. I don't think that's worthy, I think it's a bit of a scam.
I think she just represents a type of extremely thin-skinned influencer, desperate to prove something to themselves, but doing so in front of the world due to social media. It's curious to me.
Maudlin, moi?
The sewer? That’s a bit rude.Oh I hadn't seen Sali refer to this as a sewer before! What a laugh.
Dr Short herself, who publishes academic research on revenge porn and online stalking,* has almost certainly encountered in her work the real cesspits of the internet.
*I googled her, and her profile on her employer's website appeared. Was not 'deep research'.
I recently had an allergic reaction and the skin on my face has become sensitised and reacts to things I’ve always used. I bought moisture surge and toleraine but the thing that’s worked best is Aveeno daily moisturising body lotion - totally calmed my face. I use it at night as no good under make-up and lipikar baume in the morning.I need to ask for a recommendation ladies! I went to get Botox in my forehead tonight (nothing but the weakest of weakest of dilutes for my beefy little face and in case you're wondering I PAID for every single fucking penny with my hard earned cash). Anyway I've always had quite oily skin but the woman who did the botox said it's quite dry on my cheeks and forehead (apparently this happens when you're perimenopausal but NOT THERE YET). She tried to sell me a super overpriced moisturiser but declined (as I'd spent all my money on botox) - is there any good, cheap, moisturiser you'd recommend that I can get in either Boots or Superdrug? Any recommendations gratefully taken!
Haven't had time to comment for ages but on the subject of her consulting a psychologist about our profiles - I've got a masters in Psychology and, even though I don't work in this area, I have a lot of friends who do and I call total bullshit on it. Any genuine psychologist would have been more interested in why Sali was so over engaged in this (I'd say her overweening narcissism and crippling insecurity which make a very toxic combination) rather than analysing our posts and ascribing personality types to us so I don't buy this for a second. Unless she consulted the resident psychologist at Grazia or Cosmo or whatever who would have had to give their services for free and would have told her whatever they thought she wanted to hear.
It’s harder to findThe sewer? That’s a bit rude.
How is discussion on here (this thread particularly) different from publicly critiquing someone on Twitter?
It's not the first time Sali has given different variations on a certain story- for instance, I've heard multiple stories on how she met her husband. She once claimed they had started chatting on Twitter because of mutual friends and it took off from there. Another story was that she met him in the Diptyque section of Liberty before a writers event. And another one again was that they met at a writers event and he hugged her and was able to identify that she was wearing Philosykos as he frequently goes into perfume counters before meetings and recognised it. And of course he happened to also be wearing a Diptyque himselfI was also struck by another slight variation in her backstory. She talks about meeting a famous-ish make-up artists, fawning over her and saying she's looking for work. The make-up artist says my current assistant is leaving do you want the job? Whereas in the original version, the make-up artist says ''Do you want to be my assistant? My current assistant is really annoying'. So, similar to how the story of how she got the Guardian column now starts with the previous columnist leaving rather than with SH tweeting that the column 'is a scandal'.
I think the different versions don't necessarily contradict each other. They met at some twitter gathering or at some comedy thing where there were others present while SH was still married and Daniel also was in a relationship at the time. At some point they met up or bumped into each other (possibly at Liberty's Diptique counterIt's not the first time Sali has given different variations on a certain story- for instance, I've heard multiple stories on how she met her husband. She once claimed they had started chatting on Twitter because of mutual friends and it took off from there. Another story was that she met him in the Diptyque section of Liberty before a writers event. And another one again was that they met at a writers event and he hugged her and was able to identify that she was wearing Philosykos as he frequently goes into perfume counters before meetings and recognised it. And of course he happened to also be wearing a Diptyque himself
I love this.complex female lead character mindset?
The thing that interests me about the variations is that - just as she dials up (hugely) the meanness etc here - she dials down any suggestion of meanness in her own backstory. The make-up assistant was leaving, the Guardian beauty columnist was leaving... their departure had nothing to do with her sharp elbows pushing her way in.It's not the first time Sali has given different variations on a certain story- for instance, I've heard multiple stories on how she met her husband. She once claimed they had started chatting on Twitter because of mutual friends and it took off from there. Another story was that she met him in the Diptyque section of Liberty before a writers event. And another one again was that they met at a writers event and he hugged her and was able to identify that she was wearing Philosykos as he frequently goes into perfume before meetings and recognised it. And of course he happened to also be wearing a Diptyque himself
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