As a grandmother who has watched her granddaughter being born into the world and then watch her pass away 5 days later in my daughters arms was the most horrific pain I have ever felt and still feel 4 years on. To say my pain is nothing compared to my daughters would be quite difficult to speculate on. Not only have I had to deal with my own grief but I’ve also had to deal with watching my daughter go through the most worst thing imaginable and seeing her hit rock bottom and whilst grieving myself I’ve had to stay strong for my daughter, it’s like a double whammy for us grand parents. I know what you’re trying to say though but please just know that us Nanny’s are hurting just as much xxI get she’s upset but her pain is nothing compared to saffs and ash’s I’m so glad she has her brother and ash’s family for support they seem like the kind of family who everyone would want as theirs
I’m so sorryAs a grandmother who has watched her granddaughter being born into the world and then watch her pass away 5 days later in my daughters arms was the most horrific pain I have ever felt and still feel 4 years on. To say my pain is nothing compared to my daughters would be quite difficult to speculate on. Not only have I had to deal with my own grief but I’ve also had to deal with watching my daughter go through the most worst thing imaginable and seeing her hit rock bottom and whilst grieving myself I’ve had to stay strong for my daughter, it’s like a double whammy for us grand parents. I know what you’re trying to say though but please just know that us Nanny’s are hurting just as much xx
Oooh no please don’t feel like that! You’re probably just angry with the fact that she should be supporting her daughter through a time like this and not posting the things she has, it’s not about that is it? It’s a time to be there for her daughter and one another no matter what. It’s difficult to know what a person goes through when you haven’t experienced it yourself so I do understand where you’re coming from too so I’m also sorry if I’ve upset you in anyway. I really hope they try and get through this together, they need each other more than they realise.I’m so sorryactually heartbroken at how I worded it to make you feel I’m genuinely sorry. I mean saffs mom as a whole person how she’s reacted how she’s hash tagging all the fame etc in no way do I ever mean your pain was not real, I wish I could eat them words. This was no way towards any other grandparents who lost their grandchildren it’s for a grandma who made a lot about her while her daughter and partner are suffering
Whatever happened, I don't think saf will ever wanna sort things out after the past few weeks. I know I wouldn'tI’ve managed to find her mums Instagram. She is way below the belt. I hope Ashley and his family protect saf from her at this time
I’m no contact with my mother she left when I was young and never bothered until I had my own children and then thought she could be grandmother of the year. I never let her meet them not even once. I was advised against it by a solicitor (if they built a relationship she could of gone to court for access and potentially got it where as If there’s no relationship in England grandparents don’t have rights). Hopefully by safs mum not walking with Ashley’s mum then they are doing what they can to keep her away and unfortunately at times that’s what’s neededWhatever happened, I don't think saf will ever wanna sort things out after the past few weeks. I know I wouldn't
You worded it perfectlyI noticed on the mums Instagram before she has ashley helping her support things and pictures with them some time ago so they clearly got on okay before, perhaps they just weren't that close.
I was on the Facebook group and noticed things didn't add up after a bit. I noticed Ash and saf would ask people not to do things and her mum would still be on the fb group encouraging people. I also noticed at one point her telling people to follow her on Instagram which is thought was bizarre, it was a group for support of her terminally ill granddaughter!
I noticed she was never with them as well.
Then she started going in on them and then a lot of people realised it wasn't as she'd made out. She kind of got caught out.
She's now posting things and being very out of order.
I noticed safs brother is there for her a lot too which is good.
Saf and ash still did the right thing and let her mum see azaylia as she had a couple of pictures with her after she came home. Even with their differences, saf still did that for her mum.
This is the worst time of safs life and she will not forget her mum acting this way towards her and so publicly. They may have been able to make up but this could do damage that saf may not be able to get over.
Omg. Well I do hope that this is not true. I would have to wonder in past few months where on earth he would have had time for anyone else but saf and his daughter.I think so, it is so weird. Someone wrote a reply to Ashley´s comment on Safiyya's post about the funeral saying "Feel So Sorry For Miss Safiyya. Not Only Lost Her Beautiful Baby But Her Partner Is A Cheating Pig". People were offended by it and she replied saying the media was going to publish it soon. It would be so incredibly sad, but wouldn't surprise me if true tbh. His body language and lack of words for her speak volumes, I think. As someone already said: it's always: me/I, never us/we. Plus in a video of them dancing after the funeral, after kissing each other, Saf's face is so telling. I really hope I'm wrong though. Poor, poor Saf...
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