Saff Michaelis

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"Have more than you show speak less than you know" is the old adage.

We were tought Stranger Danger as children, it laughable - these idiots invite strangers to their doors.

These influencers will have their day when something happens to one of them or their families. Robberies happened to Kim K, Tamara Ecclestone - these women have top security and security systems..Tamara plasters her girls online & where they all are, you'd think after her traumatic house robbery she'd think twice about putting her most precious and irreplaceable daughters at risk.
 
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I thought her Mum defending the one who had asked her was quite nice and refreshing actually. Especially after Saff had replied sweetly to the poster… but then went on to make about 6 odd stories about what they’d said to her? I know one take will be that they shouldn’t have asked but they *were* super innocent about it, she’s super open about how bleeding fertile she is (so no risk of upsetting her in that way as she’s made that quite clear… at least on the social media I follow her on, I only browse her IG occasionally) and like others have said, it wasn’t exactly a case of “girl is slightly bloated so she must be expecting” - she’s literally stood like there’s an entire basketball up her peignoir in that picture 😂🏀
 
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I think it’s a bit much for influencers to act all high and mighty when they get questions like ‘are you pregnant?’. It would be different if her brand was interior design, or rescuing dogs, or food - but her product is literally herself. No-one is following her for her scintillating insights on current events. You can’t flog your own life for gifted dining tables then be pissed off when people - your fans, who are essentially your clients - ask about the product.
 
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I think it’s a bit much for influencers to act all high and mighty when they get questions like ‘are you pregnant?’. It would be different if her brand was interior design, or rescuing dogs, or food - but her product is literally herself. No-one is following her for her scintillating insights on current events. You can’t flog your own life for gifted dining tables then be pissed off when people - your fans, who are essentially your clients - ask about the product.
yeah she has (tried to at least) monetised Marge since conception, her content revolves around motherhood, she was wearing that nightgown and 100% knew what she was doing.
 
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I'm not so sure - unless they have enough money for a full time Nanny. I think she's found it more hard going than she thought it would be. Before M she once said she planned for a close gap, since M not so much. She's probably posted this post knowing her tummy/pregnant is topic of conversation.
& at this point posting about the message and pregnancy more just increases engagement stats.

I felt for her after the original message because I'm sure its frustrating having strangers speculate and message you about that (though you're all right she does share a lot about her life and Margot and it's not surprising people will feel comfortable messaging her things like that)

But at this point...just ignore the messages and stop posting about it!
 
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I thought her Mum defending the one who had asked her was quite nice and refreshing actually. Especially after Saff had replied sweetly to the poster… but then went on to make about 6 odd stories about what they’d said to her? I know one take will be that they shouldn’t have asked but they *were* super innocent about it, she’s super open about how bleeding fertile she is (so no risk of upsetting her in that way as she’s made that quite clear… at least on the social media I follow her on, I only browse her IG occasionally) and like others have said, it wasn’t exactly a case of “girl is slightly bloated so she must be expecting” - she’s literally stood like there’s an entire basketball up her peignoir in that picture 😂🏀
What did she say about her fertility? 😳
 
What did she say about her fertility? 😳
Sorry if that came across verbatim. What I should have said was that during past videos I’ve seen, her openly discussing (regarding babies) that X happened when they wanted it to happen and that they have plans for when they want Y to happen aren’t the musings of someone who has to worry about if TTC will go their way in future. I feel bad now as I don’t want to put words in her mouth, and English isn’t my first language so I might have been a bit lazy with my wording before.
 
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I'm not so sure - unless they have enough money for a full time Nanny. I think she's found it more hard going than she thought it would be. Before M she once said she planned for a close gap, since M not so much. She's probably posted this post knowing her tummy/pregnant is topic of conversation.
They have plenty of money … Zak has a great job and she’s earning a mint and mummy and daddy are loaded as are Zak’s so no worry they’re about money.
 
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They have plenty of money … Zak has a great job and she’s earning a mint and mummy and daddy are loaded as are Zak’s so no worry they’re about money.
I dunno about that - it’s right there, they’re *both* working… if they were THAT well off to never have to look at budgeting etc. then I’d class them as minted but even the fact they both have to work proves their family money doesn’t really stretch to the generation below. I get that they obviously get help and their parents wouldn’t see them go without but like a few others have said, they live what looks to be a luxurious life but it doesn’t quite give “idyllic housewifery bliss”. I wonder if Zac wouldn’t let her spend his money if she stopped working after the baby which is why she’s picked up SM as a job, because she was likely one of those girls who just expected to be able to pack her job in once she’d had a baby and maybe he’s got better morals and work ethic to let that happen. I have a friend who’s in pretty much the same financial situation as Saff and that’s exactly what her husband has done. Why should I work and you not type of thing… I guess it’s modern times, eh?
 
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I dunno about that - it’s right there, they’re *both* working… if they were THAT well off to never have to look at budgeting etc. then I’d class them as minted but even the fact they both have to work proves their family money doesn’t really stretch to the generation below. I get that they obviously get help and their parents wouldn’t see them go without but like a few others have said, they live what looks to be a luxurious life but it doesn’t quite give “idyllic housewifery bliss”. I wonder if Zac wouldn’t let her spend his money if she stopped working after the baby which is why she’s picked up SM as a job, because she was likely one of those girls who just expected to be able to pack her job in once she’d had a baby and maybe he’s got better morals and work ethic to let that happen. I have a friend who’s in pretty much the same financial situation as Saff and that’s exactly what her husband has done. Why should I work and you not type of thing… I guess it’s modern times, eh?
Your friends husband sounds awful.
Being a housewife and stay at home Mum is a 24/7 , 365 UNPAID job in the child's early years. It's the toughest job I've ever done and I had a very stressful job. Difference being, paid employment cuts off after hours and annuel leave. The advantages are no childcare issues for both parents if working, when child is unwell for example. Even when child is slightly older the school holiday care is a pain. I've been a SAHM and I'm so thankfull. The addred pressures and strains of childcare are horrendous and always seem to fall down primarily on the Mother. Seen it with family and friends.
 
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Your friends husband sounds awful.
Being a housewife and stay at home Mum is a 24/7 , 365 UNPAID job in the child's early years. It's the toughest job I've ever done and I had a very stressful job. Difference being, paid employment cuts off after hours and annuel leave. The advantages are no childcare issues for both parents if working, when child is unwell for example. Even when child is slightly older the school holiday care is a pain. I've been a SAHM and I'm so thankfull. The addred pressures and strains of childcare are horrendous and always seem to fall down primarily on the Mother. Seen it with family and friends.
I agree with you, that’s why I don’t want kids! I’d have them in a heartbeat if I could be the Dad lol.
 
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I agree with you, that’s why I don’t want kids! I’d have them in a heartbeat if I could be the Dad lol.
It's so rewarding ! 🥰, and when they grow up to be wonderful, well rounded, happy, fulfilled children, you know you've done good ! Mostly down down to YOU 😊 hardest, but best job in the world.🌎
 
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I’ve said this before… yes their families have money but they live in a pokey two bed flat… yes it’s in London but it’s SO small they can’t even have a tv in the lounge 😂 housewife content in a 2 bed flat is v limited 😂
 
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