Yes to all of this! Also while she's gladly dumping her kids off on a nanny she's at home doing things like sitting on her ass browsing her phone.So Emilia went earring and clothes shopping with the nanny yesterday...
Thanks so much to the psychologist who gave us her insights, it was a very interesting read and much appreciated! I think the fact that she has many narcissistic traits makes getting help even harder for her, and having Jonathan, someone so unaware and the definition of an enabler as a partner, can't be helpful either. He waited on her hand and foot since they got together, she never had or has to leave her comfort zone (mainly her house, car, familiar places like the waxing place/nail salon) because of him, without him, she would've been forced to get better a long time ago.
And honestly, personally, I don't think a mother who sees nothing wrong withher seven year old daughter having her first 'girly' day out with the nanny instead of her is a nice person, even if she didn't have all those issues. Nice people would at least feel some degree of shame for failing their daughter, but Anna seems to think not having to deal with your own kids is a privilege.
She still looks chunky.Yes to all of this! Also while she's gladly dumping her kids off on a nanny she's at home doing things like sitting on her ass browsing her phone.This is from J's Instagram today. No kids in sight, dead silent house (kids probably out with the nanny) all so they can open freebies and she can lounge around. Emilia already notices how uninvolved her parents are and will soon if not already start calling them out on it. It's really sad.
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So they had a live in nanny so they didn't have to get up in the night with Andrea. Do you think johnno knows there is something wrong with Anna re the children (either she doesn't want anything to do with them or she's not capable for whatever reason of looking after them). Did they make some kind of agreement - I'll have the children but after that I'm not looking after them so you'll have to pay for someone to do that. It's all very weird.Her ED comments on IG........ sigh.
She's just so wrong!
YES you do need to work on underlying issues. EDs are often a symptom of other issues. Learning to eat properly again is important, but without doing the work on what's underneath that, you'll get right back or find other destructive ways to deal with them. She may not see how they are related, but EDs are so often a coping mechanism for other things. Her constant need for control and planning her life in 30 minute segments would be something a therapist would want to look at, for example. What would happen if she would let that go, even a little bit?
And sure, not all therapy works for everyone, and some ED patients have to go for more than one treatment. I personally know people who have been in and out of clinics for literally years. But that does not mean that it does not work.
YES, you can recover from EDs, but it takes work, and being aware of your triggers. Anna has not done any work and clearly isn't aware of her triggers.
She also claims that she does not work out for weightloss and that in her mind the two aren't even linked. Such BS. If that was the case, what was that manic walking with very newborn Andrea just before the Italian wedding they went to? Once they went there, the walking was over.
Needing therapy does not mean you are 'broken'. It means you need help in certain areas of your life, and there is NO shame in asking for help if you need it. For her to suggest that people in therapy are 'broken' is so damaging, and could cause a huge set-back for her vulnerable audience. What a disgusting comment to make!
And lastly.... why does she post these on top of pictures of her kids?? Her children should be left out of this! If anything, her kids should be yet another reason for her to finally, finally take this serious and get some proper help. But she won't. She'd rather bring it up every now and again for sympathy and attention than actually do the work.
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"Is it true that your nanny lives with you?"
Eduardo has to think... 'No... once, because she was a live-in nanny but not anymore' So the previous nanny WAS live-in like we had talked about here. When she moved out is probably when Jonathan did that passive agressive house tour, showing the empty wardrobes in the spare rooms.
Would she have had a live in nanny so she didn’t have to get up in the night when she was breast feeding. What would be the point?She still looks chunky.
So they had a live in nanny so they didn't have to get up in the night with Andrea. Do you think johnno knows there is something wrong with Anna re the children (either she doesn't want anything to do with them or she's not capable for whatever reason of looking after them). Did they make some kind of agreement - I'll have the children but after that I'm not looking after them so you'll have to pay for someone to do that. It's all very weird.
They should support the British holiday sites and our economy. There are lots of beautiful places in England that they could stay for a week or long weekend. Plus with travelling you have to wear a mask in the airport and on the plane and I don't think Anna will like that as it will ruin her make-upGood grief yesterdays video only has 60k views. With 4 young kids it isn't safe to travel. Especially with one who loves sticking her fingers in her mouth so much. I'm supposed to be going to portugal with my parents and sister in mid september. of course there is no air bridge and has been a rise in cases. We're all adults and thats still two months away and tbh i'm not sure it'll be safe. I definitely wouldn't be travelling with small children, they would hate keeping masks on for so long and would keep taking them off. Little ones like to explore everything with their hands.
ThisYes to all of this! Also while she's gladly dumping her kids off on a nanny she's at home doing things like sitting on her ass browsing her phone.This is from J's Instagram today. No kids in sight, dead silent house (kids probably out with the nanny) all so they can open freebies and she can lounge around. Emilia already notices how uninvolved her parents are and will soon if not already start calling them out on it. It's really sad.
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You watch in a few years when emilia needs to go bra shopping for her 1st bra, it will be the nanny who takes her!! She just discusts me the way she does nothing with her kids, like mentioned already this should have been such a lovely mummy daughter day out, but no she decided to stay home and sit on her arse with her head in her phone!!!When Emilia told her she 'tried on' huge hoops that went down to her shoulders she looked so happy, for nothing in the world would I want to miss my daughter being this giggly and excited. And Anna's reaction per usual is focused on appearance, not the experience: Emilia "We found these huge hoops, they were like THIS big!" Anna "Really? Wow. Oh your pearl earrings match your new top"
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