I often wonder about influencers such as Rebecca. And others with similar traits. Whether their self esteem is low and they need the constant validation and reassurance from social media.I think it would be addicting. The same way she can't stay off social media.
I used to be the same - constantly scrolling through Instagram or Twitter, I would open the app and scroll through without really thinking about it... quite creepy. Over the years my perspective on SM changed and I am not a fan anymore. I barely scroll through Instagram and I unfollowed any vapid, dull "influencers" such as Grabby. I also deleted the Twitter app which made a huge difference.
I think Grabby needs the validation of SM and that her life is dull and unfulfilled. A poster above said they saw she and her husband set up a picnic for 10 mins, take a photo, then pack it away. How sad is that? That is no way to live. But I guess it brings in enough money for her that she will do it, even though her dullard husband brings in "more money than most people earn in a year."
I think Grabby has serious issues. She has been frank about having anorexia and bulimia in the past. Her MH is probably quite fragile and therefore she seeks the head taps on social media. She was also groomed by a male 12 years older than her when she was 15 so has no idea what it is like to date someone your own age, get life experience, etc. It is quite sick but I wouldn't be surprised if Grandad took advantage of Grabby's vulnerable MH state when she was young. It is actually sad.
It’s almost a look at me, look at how perfect my life is, all is wonderful and rosy. But no ones life is like that.
There is definitely an “addictive” personality trait, and I have a feeling I read one of Rebecca’s early blog post and she mentioned something about this (although I may be wrong)
It’s the constant striving for perfection, the glossy staged photos, show homes. Tbh I’d much rather see a loved in family home, with a few litters about.