RVKLoves #35 RSV Loves #ihavethisthingwithspreadinggerms

[Libertine]

She can’t seem to keep her children warm in a British winter, and she certainly didn’t keep Freya sun safe in an Australian summer.

 

[WhittlingIhopMonkey]

And I’m sure she’s made a hefty donation to the charity putting on the lights.

Probably one of freyas drawings, like she tried to give the kids nursery staff to avoid putting her hand in her dusty cobweb filled wallet

 

[Clare]

What I don't understand is, why does she display her poor parenting skills so damn often to her 95.4k followers? If it's not inappropriate clothing for the weather, it's unsafe airbnb staircases, or driving 100 plus miles in scorching weather to get the insta shot of dipping a newborns feet in the sea, with no sun protection. Or schlepping about in the cold with a poorly baby at the crack of dawn. I could go on and on and on.

Surely not all of her followers are wannabe instahuns, why hasn't she been called out or even just privately told to do better? I feel like it's getting worse, she seems to actively be trying to be a bad parent. I know she's stupid, but nobody is THAT stupid that they don't know a toddler needs a coat on a freezing December evening.

Absolutely. She’d probably say “she never keeps her coat on” but that’s BS. If my 2yo refused their coat on a December night we’d be going home. You have to set the boundaries as the parent.

 

[Katiewhy]

Because she is very quick with the delete button.

10 times quicker on the delete button than you lady!!!!

 

[Sw4]

Because she is very quick with the delete button.

Oh definitely, but what I mean is I'm sure someone (or a few people) would have had a quiet word with her either in real life or via dm to dress her kids more appropriately, whether they are her friends or family members etc. Yet she continues to make the same mistakes. If someone told me in a well meaning way that maybe my baby is a bit cold in what she's in I'd be mortified and strive to do better.

Maybe she just doesn't give a tit and is happy to continue going to A&E every other week because she's too crap a mum to take care of her kids.

 

[Cmayfield]

What I don't understand is, why does she display her poor parenting skills so damn often to her 95.4k followers? If it's not inappropriate clothing for the weather, it's unsafe airbnb staircases, or driving 100 plus miles in scorching weather to get the insta shot of dipping a newborns feet in the sea, with no sun protection. Or schlepping about in the cold with a poorly baby at the crack of dawn. I could go on and on and on.

Surely not all of her followers are wannabe instahuns, why hasn't she been called out or even just privately told to do better? I feel like it's getting worse, she seems to actively be trying to be a bad parent. I know she's stupid, but nobody is THAT stupid that they don't know a toddler needs a coat on a freezing December evening.

She blocks and deletes any negative comments

 

[Meringue22]

Poor Freya. Her little feet look cold. Guess it’s too much to expect Grabs to put some slippers on her. I bet the mucky mansion is freezing

 

[Sw4]

She blocks and deletes any negative comments

She reads them beforehand though surely. And as I said, I'm talking about in real life too. I can't believe that no one at all has ever said anything about Freya not wearing a coat in the middle of winter, even just an offhand comment from a passer by. People love to comment on babies/kids even if it's just a well-meaning old biddy you pass in the street.

 

[Trickywoo]

Another evening with poor Freya without a coat or a hat on . Ffs bloody ridiculous,not sure what the weather is like there but here up north its freezing !

Just looking at the reflections through the glass - are they at the Hospital ?

 

[Pilpil55]

I’m sure her house is definitely freezing especially as we know they prioritised decoration as opposed to proper insulation and windows. I don’t envy her in the slightest

 

[Wingingmotherhood]

So much for staying in!

 

[Onthehop]

So much for staying in!

There’s something seriously wrong with this girl.

That home looks so cold. Freya’s feet!

 

[Skewbedu]

Benpecked baby, just slip a ice skate under the tree for me
Been an awful poor Mum
Benpecked baby, so clean that sooty chimney tonight
Benpecked baby, a dusty old shutter in my lounge on view
I'll aff link it for you, dear
Benpecked baby, so make a plywood tower tonight
Think of all the fun I've missed
Think of all the fellas that I haven't kissed
Next year will be just the same
Because life on repeat can be so lame
Benpecked baby, I want a wash, and really, that's not a lot
Been a slattern all year
Benpecked baby, so buy some preloved presents tonight
Benpecked honey, one little thing I really need
The deed to the nicest house in KL
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the agent's tonight
Benpecked cutie, and fill my stocking with some Elemis and checks
Sign your "X" on the line
Benpecked cutie, you're sleeping in the spare room tonight
Come and trim my Christmas tree
While beneath it lies a frozen Rafferty
I really do believe in you
Let's see if you believe in me
Benpecked baby, forgot to mention one little beg
Some veg I don't mean from a shop
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry, tonight

 

[Right on top of that rose]

Benpecked baby, just slip a ice skate under the tree for me
Been an awful poor Mum
Benpecked baby, so clean that sooty chimney tonight
Benpecked baby, a dusty old shutter in my lounge on view
I'll aff link it for you, dear
Benpecked baby, so make a plywood tower tonight
Think of all the fun I've missed
Think of all the fellas that I haven't kissed
Next year will be just the same
Because life on repeat can be so lame
Benpecked baby, I want a wash, and really, that's not a lot
Been a slattern all year
Benpecked baby, so buy some preloved presents tonight
Benpecked honey, one little thing I really need
The deed to the nicest house in KL
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the agent's tonight
Benpecked cutie, and fill my stocking with some Elemis and checks
Sign your "X" on the line
Benpecked cutie, you're sleeping in the spare room tonight
Come and trim my Christmas tree
While beneath it lies a frozen Rafferty
I really do believe in you
Let's see if you believe in me
Benpecked baby, forgot to mention one little beg
Some veg I don't mean from a shop
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry, tonight

Oh my god, take a bow

 

[Skewbedu]

Oh my god, take a bow

You can blame the boredom of covid isolating for this!

 

[Skewbedu]

Hopefully Grabby will see the ad on here next time she pops in to spy on us...

 

[Rocky16a]

Benpecked baby, just slip a ice skate under the tree for me
Been an awful poor Mum
Benpecked baby, so clean that sooty chimney tonight
Benpecked baby, a dusty old shutter in my lounge on view
I'll aff link it for you, dear
Benpecked baby, so make a plywood tower tonight
Think of all the fun I've missed
Think of all the fellas that I haven't kissed
Next year will be just the same
Because life on repeat can be so lame
Benpecked baby, I want a wash, and really, that's not a lot
Been a slattern all year
Benpecked baby, so buy some preloved presents tonight
Benpecked honey, one little thing I really need
The deed to the nicest house in KL
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the agent's tonight
Benpecked cutie, and fill my stocking with some Elemis and checks
Sign your "X" on the line
Benpecked cutie, you're sleeping in the spare room tonight
Come and trim my Christmas tree
While beneath it lies a frozen Rafferty
I really do believe in you
Let's see if you believe in me
Benpecked baby, forgot to mention one little beg
Some veg I don't mean from a shop
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry, tonight

Wow you win at tattle all year

 

[MissTeddy]

Oh my goodness @Skewbedu ... Do we have medals? You deserve some kind of honour for that

 

[Skewbedu]

never a truer word said. Except it's not a couple of weeks, it's every day of every year isn't it?

 

[Trickywoo]

Benpecked baby, just slip a ice skate under the tree for me
Been an awful poor Mum
Benpecked baby, so clean that sooty chimney tonight
Benpecked baby, a dusty old shutter in my lounge on view
I'll aff link it for you, dear
Benpecked baby, so make a plywood tower tonight
Think of all the fun I've missed
Think of all the fellas that I haven't kissed
Next year will be just the same
Because life on repeat can be so lame
Benpecked baby, I want a wash, and really, that's not a lot
Been a slattern all year
Benpecked baby, so buy some preloved presents tonight
Benpecked honey, one little thing I really need
The deed to the nicest house in KL
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the agent's tonight
Benpecked cutie, and fill my stocking with some Elemis and checks
Sign your "X" on the line
Benpecked cutie, you're sleeping in the spare room tonight
Come and trim my Christmas tree
While beneath it lies a frozen Rafferty
I really do believe in you
Let's see if you believe in me
Benpecked baby, forgot to mention one little beg
Some veg I don't mean from a shop
Benpecked baby, so hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry down the allotment tonight
Hurry, tonight

And the Winner of Best Christmas Song goes to........Skewbedu didooooo didoooo !