OT but I'm in my early 20's and am on a very, very slow driving journey because I got into a car accident as a kid and being in a car gives me PTSD

But I'm still learning, however begrudgingly, bc I'm not gonna have my parents or friends drive me everywhere lol. I also will need to drive to work, to pick up my own kids, etc. So yes, I need to drive and learn to get over my fear. It's a working progress, but I'm working on it.
But Ruby doesn't have an excuse. In fact, she's using her inability to drive
as an excuse to stagnate at 12 years old.