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gossip_guy

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I watched that one a while ago, and I feel like she could do a really cracking video where she revisits it and points out the flaws, and replaces her former advice with better advice. I’m not holding my breath for her to have the self-awareness and maturity to do that, though.
In one of her most recent videos, she literally told people that they should be spending hours more than they need on essays, not to improve the quality, but to force themselves to enjoy the process of essay-writing.

In Ruby’s words, everything you ever do? You're meant to love it. And if you don't? Just keep spending time on it until you magically do, even if you can deliver your best quality version of it in a fraction of the time. Next time you think you hate your job? Don't just clock out at 5 and go home to unwind and have fun. Put in 6 hours of free overtime, eventually you'll love it.

She's completely insane, and clearly she's learned nothing at all.
 
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gossip_guy

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I'm trying to watch her bookcase tour and along with all the baffling mispronounciations and the only superficial interest she has in all the covers of those books she clearly hasn't ready, it annoys me how violent she is with all her books.

You'd think someone so obviously only interested in books as an aesthetically pleasing prop would take better care of them, but she's contantly ripping off dustjackets and hurling them on the ground, bending spines, violently slamming them around. Not surprising considering the state of her family's library that this family of swamp trolls don't take care of anything they own, but it's aggravating.

And after she had to steal half her parents books to fill most of her bookshelves, does it strike anyone else as weird that she's putting books borrowed from the library/Blakeney on her shelves as if she owns them? I only organise things alongside other books on the shelf if they're mine, borrowed books go off to the side or somewhere. What's the point in putting borrowed books in there if you're taking up space and are going to have a gap when you return it?
 
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captain_sack

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Have we ever dissected the description she's now putting on each of her videos? Hard to decide what my favourite part is, but I think I've landed on "without feeding into Hustle Culture." (Why the capital letters? We may never know)

How delightfully ironic from one of the people most responsible for pedaling hustle culture on YouTube, having crafted her entire social media career off the back of toxic productivity.
 

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ambreuk

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So, I was watching one of her videos from last autumn while I had my lunch (chili and rice, the equivalent of two weeks of Roobee meals I’m sure). It was this one:

Brushing aside the obvious facts that she looks healthier and eats actual food with actual nutritional value, I thought the interesting part in this was the speech she had to give and apparently totally failed at, because she was crying afterwards. So I did a little frame-by-frame sleuthing of her notes, and apparently it was a speech on ”digital learning” that Exeter had asked her to give. I’m not surprised at all that it didn’t go well, because her notes reveal that she went from ”how I got to be a successful influencer” to ”how to curate your own social media platform” to then talking about how difficult it is to adapt to online learning and how it’s important to have a good study space and dress up for lectures. Oh what I wouldn’t give to have seen this trainwreck as it was happening 😂😂😂
I'm confused??? It doesn't actually cover the topic she is supposed to talk about or is my English so bad that I don't understand her notes??

If not, oh Rubeski, it really took some mental gymnastics to make this all about yourself. I'd like to know if people hurt their eyes and sockets from rolling them too hard.
 
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Griftwood

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That’s totally fair, I think that one of the most important things to highlight if you’re giving study advice is: find out what works for you. If you learn best through physical notes that’s great, if you’re better off with digital that’s great too. But Ruby seems to think that you have to use EVERY method to do well, hence having notes on notion, kindle, in physical books, notebooks, planners etc. Maybe she should say “if you like online notes, x is good, alternatively y is great for people who prefer paper” rather than encouraging her followers to buy the entire stock of a stationery store, as well as apps and tech (spending double the amount of money and time necessary)
She has also said on multiple occasions to ”decide on one method of note-taking and stick with it” and then gone on to immediately contradict herself by showing herself using every imaginable method, app and notebook system 😂 She’s such a hot mess, I can’t believe anyone takes her advice.
 
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I get people love Ruby and look up to her but some comments are concerning. Like I saw one person saying "this makes me feel like I don't deserve uni"
I don't know if they mean they are already at uni and feel like a failure because they don't take Ruby's over the top advice, or if they mean they have hopes of going to Uni and think "wow, if this is what everyone does there's no way I'd survive"
 
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fairyholics

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One thing that I have noticed about Ruby is the more I watch her videos.. she just seems more and more.. fictional.
Ruby doesn't even make her videos for anybody except herself, in my opinion. All she does is more and more of the same exact videos saying 'you need to do lists, it's good to have a walk, here's all my stationary I showed you 10 times before!'.
For crying out loud, in her new video, I can't believe she even had to say 'it's important to do things OTHER THAN ACADEMICS'... EVERY single time it just feels like her ideal audience is....well, herself. She is probably one of the only people who sits at home doing nothing but studying, yoga and walks - this is presuming she isn't putting on a persona.

Of course, a lot of people will like the same 'aesthetic' she does (i.e, victorian times, vintage things, etc) and of course she has made videos on how to reduce social media time but... I feel as though Ruby has lots of things she could be creating:
FAQs about university
How to handle the transition from A-Level difficulty to University (she has sort of included this in a video before, but I think it would be great to make another fully focused video on it! It would be very popular to make at this time of the year.)

If she was honest about the books she actually read and not just skimmed through or read summaries of, she could even make videos about books that simply just didn't interest her / a video on how to get through books which seem like a bore at first.
 
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CalatheaLater

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Ruby "didn't have a Greek phase" Granger, literally has multiple ig story highlights saying how much she's loving the Emily Wilson translation of The Odyssey.

I think they truth of the matter is she can't deal with the quite mature nature of Song of Achilles (and The Secret History) and so doesn't want to finish them, which is fine! There's nothing the matter with not finishing books that are not your cup of tea! But there's no need to lie to herself and to her audience about why she's not finishing them. Also wouldn't be surprised if she was only talking about how much she's loving The Odyssey becuase it has a pretty cover
 
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Griftwood

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Everyone's likely to look disgusting at some point while eating. It's why almost every rational human being elects not to make a show of aggressively chewing gross foods inches from other people's faces. Ruby instead decides to make the video equivalent of that, in videos ostensibly about studying.

She absolutely deserves to be called out for it. It's disgusting from a behaviour and a visual standpoint. She should be in a zoo, or trying to steal The One Ring from Frodo Baggins, not making videos for impressionable kids.
To me, it’s not even that the food looks gross, or the way she looks when chewing. It’s the fact that she chooses to make a small portion of bland food lacking in nutrients, both macro and micro, and chews it up 40-50 times (lol I didn’t count but I may go back and do so when my gin and bitter kicks in), thereby throwing up an eating disorder bat signal that’s pretty hard to miss. This is the content she’s putting up, and she 100% knows what she’s doing. She’s despicable.
 
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Griftwood

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So, I was watching one of her videos from last autumn while I had my lunch (chili and rice, the equivalent of two weeks of Roobee meals I’m sure). It was this one:

Brushing aside the obvious facts that she looks healthier and eats actual food with actual nutritional value, I thought the interesting part in this was the speech she had to give and apparently totally failed at, because she was crying afterwards. So I did a little frame-by-frame sleuthing of her notes, and apparently it was a speech on ”digital learning” that Exeter had asked her to give. I’m not surprised at all that it didn’t go well, because her notes reveal that she went from ”how I got to be a successful influencer” to ”how to curate your own social media platform” to then talking about how difficult it is to adapt to online learning and how it’s important to have a good study space and dress up for lectures. Oh what I wouldn’t give to have seen this trainwreck as it was happening 😂😂😂
 

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EllaEm87

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Genuine question, because English isn’t my first language -isn’t “very favourite” like an idiom? I’m pretty sure I’ve heard it elsewhere and if you google it, it does come up in language pages as something that exists/is used. I thought it was a way to emphasise further that you really like something?
To me, it’s olde worlde child speak. She’s read it in one of her books somewhere and latched onto it. It’s not used by adults, or in modern English.
 
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CatCafe234

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Thing is though, I don't see Ruby being a perfectionist. Like maybe she likes to present herself as one but when you look closely none of the things she does resemble perfectionism in any way. Everything is half assed and poor quality. Everything. I'd say her problem is more of thinking she's better than everyone else and special golden child when it's very visible she's not. As a result she does shit job at everything cause she believes she's amazing at everything and her clueless followers encourage her even more into thinking she's all that.
There is an element of perfectionism that goes hand-in-hand with procrastination, which means that you want to be perfect but you know you can’t so you put stuff off until the point where you end up having to half-ass everything because there’s no time left! I see that a lot in Ruby. I agree there’s an element of superiority there but it’s the same kind of thing that I see in Holly Gabrielle, that looking down on others to cover up a deep, deep sense of insecurity in yourself. I also think that with Holly (and possibly Ruby) that’s a part of her overall MH issues. A feeling of superiority and an ED is probably not a good combination at all.
 
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gossip_guy

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She's asking for stationery products (overhyped ones) to provide honest reviews of.

The irony is off the charts. Ruby, who's incapable of honesty, and just released an incredibly overpriced, cheaply made piece of shit planner that people reported was falling apart or assembled incorrectly on delivery, if it was even delivered, wants to try throwing shade at other products? Ha!
 
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HanHanHan

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but that's not what it is saying, is it? i never saw anyone saying this, that they have to love EVERY little thing? like you stubbed your toe and it hurts and that sucks, but maybe you saw a beautiful sunset ten minutes later and then that is your "casual magic" moment of the day
I’m sure there’s an Unjaded Jade rave thread you could hop along to :)
 
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DrinaM

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I'm barely holding on
Barely 2 minutes in and I hear 'Rude-yard Kipling' (Rudyard Kipling). We need a proper compilation of all mispronunciations. Could be hilarious.

Rude-yard Kipling
Ever-lynn Worne
Truman Ca-poat
Morris Gleetzman
Chris Ate-Kins

Martin Latham but Roobee called him Martin Lan-them. I'll stop there I think.

omg she said Noam Komsky
 
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thomp92

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Ruby is living a very strange life. No doubt about it. It’s like this reverse Tory make believe Victorian poor scullery maid meets savy studytuber. Rake in the money, buy and rent a little cottage, sell books/study materials online but pretend you live a frugal poor book work life
 
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Ilaariaa

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Exactly!! The sheer excess of her possessions -- clothes, pens, books, kranken rucksacks, gifted things that somehow end up on Depop -- is the polar opposite of sustainability. Yet again, Ruby throws in a word she doesn't know the proper meaning of, just because it's trendy and will attract viewers. Classic clickbait.
And complaining about how scissors aren't made to be durable is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
First off, I don't know if Ruby has noticed but this is not kindergarten. An adult in uni does not use paper scissors every day. So you should not feel the need to have 'durable' scissors that will endure a lot of use without breaking.
Secondly, how do you even break a pair of scissors? I don't know about you but I've never had to throw away a pair of scissors because they were broken or didn't cut anymore. You're probably going to lose them before you break them.
Thirdly, even if they do break after 5 or 10 years of use like she claims - dear God, it's a pair of scissors. For their average price, I'd say you're getting a decent mileage out of them.

She makes me so angry. She preaches about sustainability while owning entire boxes of stationery she's never used, piles of books she'll never read, and receiving about 50 individual gifts for every occasion.
 
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