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And she prob had a picture taken with Sophia was she born too as she said she was there for the birth and didnāt show that, either way itās her choice what she wants to show but you can see how itās coming across that she may be showing favouritism to her boys.
I get your point
I can see where you are coming from and
I get where you are coming from and at one stage might have felt the same. When you really grapple with the concept of severe infertility though, it becomes very very different. You put everything on the table. My friends used a commercial surrogate. She has 2 children of her own, and with the money from surrogacy she went from a very poor life to being able to give her children a college education. She was very well informed and supported throughout. Herself and my friend became very close, and remain so. She was so honoured to be able to give them their family- she often talked about how proud she was. Lots of jobs people do come with risks to varying degrees. Surely almost any employment is the transfer of the use of a person's body, mind or both for financial gain. I think so long as the industry is regulated, the surrogates are inform and partake with free will and are well cared for physically and emotionally, it can be a wonderful thing. The documentary you, me and surrogacy was an excellent portrayal of normal people with heartbreaking stories. I think it gave a really realistic and balanced view of surrogacy.
I am not cruel and I do understand the desperation that underpins the surrogacy choice. However no one is entitled to a baby by any means nessesary especially when it risks the surrogacys health. When Kim Kardashian or Princess Kate act as a surrogate for someone i'll reconsider. Surely you can see that having to risk your health to give your children an education is a terrible thing and efforts should go to enabling women to do that without selling their wombs. It's such an unbalanced relationship, of course the surrogate was grateful! In your example you say they went from desperate poverty to being able to educate her kids. That's not an altruistic act, it's taking advantage of a desperate person and risking her health. Also the from your post sounds like they used a third world country. They would have to as commercial surrogacy is banned in much of Europe and the women of Europe and given the protection of not havijg to sell their bodies to feed their kids
It's fine and dandy to have surrogacy in a regulated first/second world country. But when you have surrogacy in a third world, underdeveloped, socialist country where those who can hardly get bread and don't even know what college is, is so so different. Women who don't want to, but HAVE to give their bodies up to have a baby, just to put food on the table, to exist.
Rosanna did a disservice to the industry by keeping all vague. No questions could be asked off her.
And the way they both waited around the hospital at the time of the birth, they were like vultures. And not one more mention of the surrogate once the birth was over. I just found it distasteful.
She had a chance to help other couples with fertility issues, but instead had a 'miracle' with the twins. I don't find her genuine.
Rosanna did a disservice to the industry by keeping all vague. No questions could be asked off her.
And the way they both waited around the hospital at the time of the birth, they were like vultures. And not one more mention of the surrogate once the birth was over. I just found it distasteful.
She had a chance to help other couples with fertility issues, but instead had a 'miracle' with the twins. I don't find her genuine.
Waited around the hospital like vultures? It was the birth of their daughter! I feel like people complain she was there but also if they heard she wasn't there it'd be "oh she wouldn't even go to the hospital for the birth, just swooped in and took the baby" like she can do no right. She is hardly going to document second by second what was no doubt a very stressful, emotional, worrying time for EVERYONE involved in it! And she was hardly going to come on introducing the surrogate to everyone??
Sorry I don't get any of your point there @Airy-fairy are you saying she shouldn't have had the twins as a way of helping other people with fertility issues? She openly spoke about having 14 miscarriages! Why did you put miracle in inverted commas???? Don't find her genuine for what? Having babies? Just don't see your point sorry
Sorry I don't get any of your point there @Airy-fairy are you saying she shouldn't have had the twins as a way of helping other people with fertility issues? She openly spoke about having 14 miscarriages! Why did you put miracle in inverted commas???? Don't find her genuine for what? Having babies? Just don't see your point sorry
If people would like to praise Rosanna, perhaps the Rave section may be a place to go.
I've been around here for a while now actually and am all for using the forum. The Good Ole "it's tattle" argument is just another way of saying "I've no other relevant points for my argument so agree with my opinion or shut up" ... Tattle... A place to voice opinions, as you have done and so have I.Tattle is not gonna be the place for you love
And just to be clear: *I am not a Rosanna fan!* I actually find her usually quite boring and her lifestyle is not something I find very relatable at all! So you won't find me skipping over to the "Rave" section any time soon! There are plenty of things you could possibly give out about about this woman, but I will not be giving out about her for looking too good after giving birth, going through surrogacy, getting pregnant, or highlighting fertility issues among women. That is all!
And before you go reporting me, I appreciate you are entitled to your opinion too. I genuinely wanted more clarification on some of things discussed as I honestly don't understand some of the points and needed more info!
Can anyone recall when Rosanna was interviewed on the Late Late show just after the arrival of baby Sophia the reason she said she didn't want her baby's face on social media is they both wished for Sophia to be able to make that decision when she was older hence why her face is never shown? I have to say I really admired her for this.
All the Instagrams do is share their their children way to much on social media.
Such lovely news for them all after such a long road.
All the Instagrams do is share their their children way to much on social media.
Such lovely news for them all after such a long road.
Not all the insta huns show their kids.
And while Rosanna may not be doing that part of insta (showing her kids face), she certainly does the same as everybody else in every other aspect of Instagram. The engagement, grid posts and freebies. If she had such a dislike for publicity, perhaps she should close her Instagram account and do a job that doesn't involve the public, ie get a real job.
Yes I agree 100%
Anyone I follow its all for the gram and I feel children are just a selling point.
I know Holly Willoughby doesn't show her kids faces but did show her baby niece/nephews a while ago but never her own.
snap .. I actually remember thinking the same thing .. found it very annoying ...though in hind sight she has a right to be tired too though perhaps she could have chosen her words more carefully! delighted for them with the twins and I wouldnāt think she will be showing their faces again..
Thing that pushed my button was the pic .. full face of make up and no ur not allowed to have make up / tan / nail polish for a section... I had a planned section and thought great this time I can actually look half decent and than read the rules .. perhaps it was an emergency section and she already had her make up done .. or did she just ignore the rules..
Also latest pic of her is full face again .. maybe she has em tattooed on .. who has the time or the inclination when in hospital with newborns ..
why do bloggers always portray this perfect world And perfect me ... it does nobody, them or their followers any good in the long run
She definitely seems like someone who portrays that her life is perfect when in reality itās not
I'd tan and makeup done for my c section too, no mention of it not being allowed at any point. It also a photo for a magazine shoot so of course she has makeup. People are giving her a lot of hate but she could have done the whole tacky magazine deal. Not releasing names etc which she didn't so my opinion of her has actually improved lol
What a horrible thing to say about a woman who had 14 miscarriages!! Eat humble pie? Sick.
Just because she didnāt give birth to Sophia doesnāt mean she didnāt have a right to be tired from night feeds my god you must be so bitter to say something like that
Completely agree this was uncalled for.
Not every woman is blessed enough to carry a baby.
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